I couldn't come up with a suitable title for this thread, so bear with me.

But the thing is, I have seen situations where guys beg their girls when they(girls) decide to break up with them. Some guys even go to the extent of CRYING!!!

What is it about the girl that could make you beg her to stay?..or make you want to beg her to stay?(even if you later didn't beg). I'm trying to be as realistic as possible here, because I know some guys will start forming "Robocorp" on this thread.

For me...I'm am introvert, I don't keep much friends i.e. the smaller they are, the better....& when I choose my friends, I nurture the friendship. I used to apply the same principle whenever I'm in a relationship, I don't just see my girl as my lover.....I see her as my friend too, which means I get her involved with almost anything/everything I do.

When break-up occurs, I always feel down, and more of the reason is being the fact that I was about to lose a friend. Communication drops, boundaries are set, and any attempt to want to continue the friendship part at least, would be seen like an ulterior motive is involved. So....because of that, I don't bother begging/convincing the girl involved....no matter how moved I may be at that moment.


Guys.....share your reasons too, and GIRLS......tell us what could make your guy beg if you ask for a break up(tell us your selling points)

Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

Harbosede02: Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

Mumude

@op, true talk esp for introverts like me but it depends on how fast or quick I get a suitable replacement for her n immediately I do, she will remain in Oblivion masion.

Henry praise:
Mumude

@op, true talk esp for introverts like me but it depends on how fast or quick I get a suitable replacement for her n immediately I do, she will remain in Oblivion masion.

wat is always wrong wif d psyciques sef??

'P.U.N.N.Y'

Harbosede02: Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

Really? You mean you usually rip out the Lungs of your ex....& take their breath away, spoiling their life abi? . Now that's a "special" selling point.

The way she RIDES me

When she is a witch; and has promisd to deal with u

Harbosede02: Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

And it's your likes guys dump

Back to the topic jare.........

P.U.N.N.Y wld make you beg

P.U.N.N.Y? I thought guys with cash don't have to beg for that . Nawa oh!! I can't even imagine myself doing that.

Xsenga: 'P.U.N.N.Y'

Na gold dey dere,abi honey dey dere wey go cum make me dey beg

Harbosede02: Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

u na witch ni?

Yeh guys nd even my female frnds alwys beg wen I decide 2 walk out nt cz I threaten 2 spoil their life or stuff bt wen am in a r/ship then I put my energy nd love there I dnt double date nd by d way am extremly fun 2 b wit so I gess dats an added reason. My replacement is alwys so hard 2 find

@OP
a high state of desperation/low self esteem/insecurity, believing that the lady is their everything, believing they cant get better than her, believing they wont get any other woman.
many guys out there are not that skilled with women, so when they finally get someone, they will try to keep that woman at all costs.....thus begging when she dumps them.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
a high state of desperation/low self esteem/insecurity, believing that the lady is their everything, believing they cant get better than her, believing they wont get any other woman.
many guys out there are not that skilled with women, so when they finally get someone, they will try to keep that woman at all costs.....thus begging when she dumps them.

MrBrown...you got a point there.

But then, some guys are still begging for sake of punny....that's the part that baffles me.

^^bro, the reason why men beg for coochie is listed in what i wrote...... if a man cannot get another toto, then he will beg for the one he just lost....aka men NOT skilled to get women.

Xsenga: 'P.U.N.N.Y'

shikenan

Cashio: shikenan

tnk God u know.

I'v actually begged before but i later realised u cant force people to stay in ur life, its better to let them go.....Begging is just an act of cowardice.

Harbosede02: Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

pity dose guys dat have dated u and how u have messed they life up spiritually u beta change ur ways oh

i hv begd like a mad man to her nd she was formn james bond evn up till now,but i ll let go,begn her ll show hw weak i am.

chiboy1928: pity dose guys dat have dated u and how u have messed they life up spiritually u beta change ur ways oh

watz dis 1 saying??

When the guy realises he is losing or has lost a rare gem. Just a few are worth being begged sha . I share a lot in common with d Op.

Harbosede02: Any guy i dump ehn,dey must beg me cos dey av no choice,they knw dat as i dump dem,deir lyf don begin spoil be dat!!hehehehehehehehe..

ur idiocy is of elephantine proportion

Harbosede02: watz dis 1 saying??

The truth

MRbrownJAY: @OP
a high state of desperation/low self esteem/insecurity, believing that the lady is their everything, believing they cant get better than her, believing they wont get any other woman.
many guys out there are not that skilled with women, so when they finally get someone, they will try to keep that woman at all costs.....thus begging when she dumps them.

True talk....if someone loves you they would always wanna be with you. The moment they decide on their own to leave its best to let em go, if you have checked yourself and assured that you did her no wrongdoing. . you can't beg someone to love you, you can only show em how much you care about em and its left for em to reciprocate.

Harbosede02: wat is always wrong wif d psyciques sef??

psychiques not psyciques. Btw u ar yet 2 answer dis question

oluwashaddow: u na witch ni?

Dis guy said it all

Abbey2sam:

And it's your likes guys dump

Back to the topic jare.........

P.U.N.N.Y wld make you beg

@ OP
See you! No gal is irreplaceable. Any gal way wan go, d door Open gbaragada. Me no dey beg gal oooo cos i dont find out the moment u start begging my dear u own don finish be dat. Any witch way wan come dey do say vegetable must work then she don jones be dat

Harbosede02: watz dis 1 saying??

this she male what is the problem with you?
just drop your opinion and leave this thread stop nuisating and go get a life.

Revenge jare....i remember one chic that left me for some dude back then in school....i begged this chic tire...i wrote poems,sent emissaries,bought gifts,mr biggs etc...just to get her back...after a month or so she succumbed and came back...i totally dealt with her...

infact one day,we were about to make love,i allowed her pull off her smelly clothes ,looked at her lying on my bed and told her to dress up that she was disgusting...i think that was the last straw cos the re-ignited relationship didnt last for 2months before it finally packed up....mine was solely for revenge...esp if it was the girl that did the dumping...a man gotta protect his pride sometimes.

deshclones: Revenge jare....i remember one chic that left me for some dude back then in school....i begged this chic tire...i wrote poems,sent emissaries,bought gifts,mr biggs etc...just to get her back...after a month or so she succumbed and came back...i totally dealt with her...

infact one day,we were about to make love,i allowed her pull off her smelly clothes ,looked at her lying on my bed and told her to dress up that she was disgusting...i think that was the last straw cos the re-ignited relationship didnt last for 2months before it finally packed up....mine was solely for revenge...esp if it was the girl that did the dumping...a man gotta protect his pride sometimes.

haba, u wicked oo