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I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 8:28am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Pls I nid an advice,I fink somefin is wrong wit me,I don't feel comfortable around gals,am always afraid of them,its nt d@ am shy,am very outspoken,I prefer having them as a neutral friends than dating,I just don't know how to start telling a chick what happened in 1960 juz bcoz I wanna date her,also the uneasy feeling d@ comes if she says NO is one major turnoff for me...please am I ok or u fink sumfn is wrong..ur advice pls. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Telling ha bout ur past ain't necessary. U tell ha litu bout wz happening as @ present and ask questionz 2 kip d convo going. Don't b too close as dz 'll land u in d friend zone. Try 2 be humorous, gv it time lyk a week den hit d nail on d head. And if she says NO, make ha laugh @ dah instant and pretend lyk she never said it (or if possible, u could ask ha WHY.) 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Saecula: 9:28am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Niccollo Machiavelli once remarked that 'never has anything great being achieved without danger'. = He that risks nothing, does nothing, is nothing and will become nothing----- Leo Buscaglia. = Your major problem is fear of failure and risk taking. = You will sure meet rejections so be prepared for it as it's no big deal. No guy no matter how handsome, rich or whatever will say he has never been turned down. But again does it matter. At least some will say yes while some will say no. And it would be stupid to assume that because you get turned down that you are not good enough as tastes varies with individuals. Like pesonally i prefer dark women as opposed to those that like them fair. = The only way to conquer whatever you are afraid of is by doing that. = So go out there and meet women you find interesting and be yourself. With time you start to get comfortable with them. = Also set your priorities right, ie you should know if this stage of your life is the opportune time to engage in serious relationship. = The world id your oyster Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 9:33am On Nov 09, 2013 |
1960?? :oop r u dat old?? 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by rill: 9:38am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Gay alert!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Santi19(m): 9:41am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Harbosede02: 1960?? :oop r u dat old??I'm sure he didn't mean it 'Literally'. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Dominionng(m): 9:54am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Harbosede02: 1960?? :oop r u dat old?? Guess u attended KoKonbilo Community School. Difficult for you to pick up a 'figure of speech'? 10 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Dominionng:i knew exactly wat d op meant,btw wat skul did u attend??y is it difficult 4 u 2 knw i was joking??did u finish primary 6?? 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Dominionng(m): 10:40am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Harbosede02: i knew exactly wat d op meant,btw wat skul did u attend??y is it difficult 4 u 2 knw i was joking??did u finish primary 6?? Oh! My Bad. Sorry I didn't notice earlier. I guess u attended Kokonbilo Community Primary School as well coz I can see you totally FINISHED pry6. Hope it was tasty? Keep the chin up anyway.. I come in peace. U said u were joking? That makes the two of us 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Dubemkelly(m): 10:54am On Nov 09, 2013 |
Denial aint an end nor failure,keep trying buddy,u gat a psychological problem until u unravel dose probs den u can deal with ur shortcomings with galz....Yhu past doesn't make ur future,learn 4rm it n move on,d momnt u try picking on ur past,dt shows u drawing urself back 2 darkness n again until u find dt gal dat cud complement ur heart,u wud definitely b propelled 2 say sth,come out of ur shell n mingle 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by mildteddy(m): 12:24pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
rill: Gay alert!!!Silly post 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 12:38pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
mildteddy: rill: Gay alert!!! rill: Gay alert!!!Very silly post it is. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 12:41pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Harbosede02: 1960?? :oop r u dat old??I knew she was joking. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Latnok95(m): 12:51pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Wait for the girl meant for you.. Dats all! 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by duni04(m): 1:32pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Gay alert! |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Idowuogbo(f): 1:41pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Op, I think u GAY. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by vizboy(m): 2:18pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Op, I think u GAY.when I first saw the headline the word GAY came to mind. But I dont think the guy is gay, back then I could remember there was a time I couldnt approach a girl even as a handsome guy. But on a faithful day I did it and that was my first rejection. I told myself I had to come out of these hole. And today I fvvck girls as I like. The op just have to come out from that shell of his. He doesnt have to come out all at once. But little by little he can do it. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 2:37pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
duni04: Gay alert! Idowuogbo: Op, I think u GAY.Gay ko, bay ni.....God 4bid bad tin,its not as bad as d@,am not a gay o bt how does some nairalanders do think? |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 2:41pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Psalmuelh2o:gbagaun!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
#me@:did u hit ur head on something? 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
u could be gay and not know it. Seriously, it could be the reason for ur fear for ladies 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
booqee: u could be gay and not know it. Seriously, it could be the reason for ur fear for ladiesHmmm bukky,am not gay and will never be one,I actually clicked on ur profile to checkout ur pics booqee: u could be gay and not know it. Seriously, it could be the reason for ur fear for ladiesHmmm bukky,am not gay and will never be one,I actually clicked on ur profile to checkout ur pics |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Enegod(m): 3:54pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Dominionng: |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Enegod(m): 3:56pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Psalmuelh2o: Pls I nid an advice,I fink somefin is wrong wit me,I don't feel comfortable around gals,am always afraid of them,its nt d@ am shy,am very outspoken,I prefer having them as a neutral friends than dating,I just don't know how to start telling a chick what happened in 1960 juz bcoz I wanna date her,also the uneasy feeling d@ comes if she says NO is one major turnoff for me...please am I ok or u fink sumfn is wrong..ur advice pls.you should start smoking weed 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Enegod: you should start smoking weedSeriously u made a meaningful point,whenever am high on juz ordinary beer, I do amazing things with the hangover feeling the nxt day,bt I don't like drinking nooni. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 4:48pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Psalmuelh2o:too bad..i already dragged my pics down a long time ago from nl. I think its a faceless forum. So pls find courage and speak to a very beautiful and bold lady..she won't bite you. I have a reason for saying the lady must be bold and beautiful. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by UyiIredia(m): 4:58pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Harbosede02: i knew exactly wat d op meant,btw wat skul did u attend??y is it difficult 4 u 2 knw i was joking??did u finish primary 6?? Failed attempt at a comeback. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by UyiIredia(m): 5:00pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Op, I think u GAY. Which kain yeye chic be dis na by force to talk rubbish ? 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 5:03pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
booqee: too bad..i already dragged my pics down a long time ago from nl. I think its a faceless forum. So pls find courage and speak to a very beautiful and bold lady..she won't bite you. I have a reason for saying the lady must be bold and beautiful.It seems av found a new tutor in u..lol,what are your reasons for me to approach a beautiful and bold lady first? |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by hotmolo(m): 8:28pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
I tink dis wil make front page... I do hav same prob wit op so am following d thread bumper to bumper |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 8:36pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
hotmolo: I tink dis wil make front page... I do hav same prob wit op so am following d thread bumper to bumperWe sure need #help. |
Re: I Don't Feel Comfortable Around Ladies. by Nobody: 8:41pm On Nov 09, 2013 |
Saecula: Niccollo Machiavelli once remarked that 'never has anything great being achieved without danger'.Everything right here. I agree with this, especially because the OP says shyness is not his problem. I think it could be both of the above: fear of failure and being afraid to take risks. Don't be afraid. If you get turned down by a woman, see it as a learning experience. Must apply to anything else in your life that doesn't go the way you expect. 1 Like |
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