deols:

Ask her..

If she finds you snooping even though she has done notjing wrong, how do you think she'd feel?

How would you feel if she does not trust you and starts to spy on you

Afam4eva: Enough of all these small small issues abeg. There's no single marriage rule that everyone should adhere to. Just get to know your spouse's likes and dislikes and see if you can keep up. If you can't go find someone else and avoid getting into a marriage w[b]here small issues such as this will cause unnecessarily problems[/b].

Dubemkelly: Unless d person in question is a detector, y wud one give him or herself stress over mundane issues? I don't buy such an idea, everybody has their sensitive matters wch r more or less confidential n some folks r security conscious,u r married aint a platform 2 start being nosey in2 ur spouse's life,he or she needs some breath esp wen d r/ship is bonded n no ish of inattention. Let d mattered kept secrets be known 2 d keeper n learn 2 mind ur biz 2 avoid raising dusts in2 sth u can't handle

Ola def2: yea ure right we have problem going tru such circumstance every time ... She keep complaining if I don't trust her but that's not my view , my concern is to take charge of everything that goes on in our life , I'm just protecting us .. Dazall!

oguash: its good for the man to have access but not the woman

joel lala: Is it okay for one that is married or in a relationship to checks his or her partners phone?

childofgod12: put d question like dis, shud maried peple have acess 2 dier privat parts? Den ansa ursef

Teespice: it is not advisable if you know you don't want to have high blood pressure. besides what you don't know would not kill you. whatever happened to respecting ones privacy?

charleff512: I and my wife use each other's phone anytime.There should be transparency and sincerity in every union/relationship.

donroxy: There is no bigdeal in playing with the phone of one's patner though not necessarily for witch-hunting !!

if Una fit share una private parts why not private phone !!!

deols:

There is a big problem with wanting to take charge of everything in her life. She is not a kid.

See, it is possible that she was not doing anything bad. You checking her phone has lead to some circumstances that are bad. That did not have to happen.

If you suspect anything genuinely, ask her about it..don't spy. You won't have rest if you keep doing that.Get busy with productive things.

Are you doing something bad and afraid that your wife is doing the same? Sometimes unfaithful men become suspicious of their spouse because of what they themselves do.

byvan: If you need privacy,remain single or at least marry someone that needs privacy like you do.

deols:

There is a big problem with wanting to take charge of everything in her life. She is not a kid.

See, it is possible that she was not doing anything bad. You checking her phone has lead to some circumstances that are bad. That did not have to happen.

If you suspect anything genuinely, ask her about it..don't spy. You won't have rest if you keep doing that.Get busy with productive things.

Are you doing something bad and afraid that your wife is doing the same? Sometimes unfaithful men become suspicious of their spouse because of what they themselves do.

Prowizy2: Not married yet, but if i do i'll have access 2 my wife's phone.. But she no way

Guyman02: Since my wife got an appointment that pays her well, she has started locking her phones so that I wont find out when bank alerts come into her phone and how much money she makes; ordinarily I dont even go checking her phone.

As a husband my phones are open without code but hers is coded and she refused to give me the password when I requested for it (wouldnt have asked if it was open and I dont even go to her phone) and thats making me to believe now that there is something she is hiding from me. Please somebody should advise me before I destroy those gadgets she calls phones.
A poster here talked about how his wife built a house without his knowledge and did all the transactions for several months during the building erection until he heard it from the rumour mills and confirmed it to be true.
What do I do now please, do I just ignore her totally or insist on her keeping her phones uncoded or give me the password?

Guyman02: Since my wife got an appointment that pays her well, she has started locking her phones so that I wont find out when bank alerts come into her phone and how much money she makes; ordinarily I dont even go checking her phone.

As a husband my phones are open without code but hers is coded and she refused to give me the password when I requested for it (wouldnt have asked if it was open and I dont even go to her phone) and thats making me to believe now that there is something she is hiding from me. Please somebody should advise me before I destroy those gadgets she calls phones.
A poster here talked about how his wife built a house without his knowledge and did all the transactions for several months during the building erection until he heard it from the rumour mills and confirmed it to be true.
What do I do now please, do I just ignore her totally or insist on her keeping her phones uncoded or give me the password?