kofsy: eh yah. I understand how you feel. Men can be callous. It's so painful. That third leg of theirs take over their common sense atimes.

after spilling ills like these, u'd ball in here to cry fowl!

havent you heard? you create ur world with your WORDs?

u shall have whatever u say, so dont be surprise when he starts acting tomorrow

@OP,i assume ur marriage/relationship is new cos dats wen u have all these doubts but it will get to a point wen u dnt even have such time except u r immature.

Please where can i comment?

ANY MAN THAT WANTS TO LIVE LONG SHOULD AVOID HIS SPOUSE PHONE. SHIKENA

for gossip reasons.

rhames: for gossip reasons.

Is this the reason why you dont allow you wife or husband to have access to your phone.

Checking/accessing d phone smtyms nt so often isn't bad cos y on earth cnt we access each oda's fone if truly we re being faithful to each oda

Ugochekwas: ANY MAN THAT WANTS TO LIVE LONG SHOULD AVOID HIS SPOUSE PHONE. SHIKENA

if we shud avoid our partners'fone for long life then relationship is nt worth it.if we can share d deepest secret wt each oda as soul mates then fone shud nt b a big deal only if we v skeleton in our cupboards.as for me,my spouse can chk mine cos I dnt v nytin to hide nd for any misinterpretatn,I'll jst xplain masef to d fullest cos am being honest

As long as there is mutual understanding i will say yes.

HARDDON:

had tot IT reasons with ITs head not Its flat butt.....

i'd let it slide, IT aint worth ma while

lol @ 'it', good one

kensto: Please where can i comment?

I dont think this is the children section

igbonla: The title of the thread and OP's statement are contradictory. Having access to a phone is different from checking the phone.

You should have access in case you need to use it, if yours have an issue. You should not have access for the purpose of checking! Ok, you are free to check as long as you can handle the consequences, especially when you misinterpret situations.

End of Discussion!

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Born 2be Rich: As long as there is mutual understanding i will say yes.

But most women check their husbands phone with the sole aim of finding something unholy...

naa your papa buy me phone mtchew *i cant too*

Ijiego: The last time i checked/accessed, it was a disaster.

joel lala:

That means from your experience it is better to ignore each others phone in order to avoid disaster.

CORRECT!

I really don't see anything wrong in married partners checking each others phone. After all they are one in marriage. It is only when you are doing something funny that you need to hide your phone. I don't even think It's good to hide your phone even in an ordinary relationship cos something serious comes from something ordinary.

lola.luv:
I don't see the need spending the rest of your life doing your day job, then acting the SSS when you get home. Exactly what are you looking for in your partners phone? And what will you do when you see what You're looking for?

What do you do with your own phone?

I don't see anything wrong with it unless you have something to hide, which is wrong.

blaezderek: I really don't see anything wrong in married partners checking each others phone. After all they are one in marriage. It is only when you are doing something funny that you need to hide your phone. I don't even think It's good to hide your phone even in an ordinary relationship cos something serious comes from something ordinary.

Exactly, if you are sure you are not upto something silly, why will your partner not have access to your phone.

joel lala: Is it okay for one that is married or in a relationship to check his or her partners phone?

for me it is okay.it clears the hint of doubtness

Sal C: I don't see anything wrong with it unless you have something to hide, which is wrong.

But someone said that her husband allowed her to check his phone and she saw that he was about to hook up with his ex..doesnt that show that he doesnt care?

joel lala:

But someone said that her husband allowed her to check his phone and she saw that he was about to hook up with his ex..doesnt that show that he doesnt care?

It might be a mistake or he intentionally wanted her to know(he doesn't care about how she will feel).

Come to think of it, what does he want from his ex? Why would a married man have concubines all over the place. His wife knowing or not knowing might not make him change his mind.

Sal C: It might be a mistake or he intentionally wanted her to know(he doesn't care about how she will feel).

Come to think of it, what does he want from his ex? Why would a married man have concubines all over the place. His wife knowing or not knowing might not make him change his mind.

Check @shinning mama"s post on page 3..you will see her comment there talking about her experience

She has access to my phone and I have no interest in whatever is on hers. Too busy trying to get ahead in life to waste my time on her phone.

joel lala:

Check @shinning mama"s post on page 3..you will see her comment there talking about her experience

Yes her experience was a sad one but we cannot because of that say it's wrong for your spouse to have access to your phone.

joel lala:

But someone said that her husband allowed her to check his phone and she saw that he was about to hook up with his ex..doesnt that show that he doesnt care?

Actually, he forgot his phone where he was charging it. And I was like let me just go through it. Also, his ex is like a parasite. She wants to come back by all means, so she refused to marry someone else.

Shining mama:


Actually, he forgot his phone where he was charging it. And I was like let me just go through it. Also, his ex is like a parasite. She wants to come back by all means, so she refused to marry someone else.

This is seriously bad..You better act fast if you dont wanna loose your husband to another woman..Some women no dey try at all..imagine trying to smatch another woman's husband..SMH