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Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Prowizy2(m): 2:57pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Not married yet, but if i do i'll have access 2 my wife's phone.. But she no way |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by nkwerrrr: 2:57pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
it depends oh,as 4 me i dnt like d ideal, |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
I have done this and this has led to several revelations. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by ijbeauty(f): 2:58pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
4 me its beta to kip ur distance frm d fone unless, wen u r asked to "help", because u wil end up gettin or seeing wat u dnt wish 4. #outtaxperience# 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by charleff512(m): 2:59pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
I and my wife use each other's phone anytime.There should be transparency and sincerity in every union/relationship. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Advice: Pls, don't check! You can access, thanks. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by everyday: 3:06pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
No,the last argument I had with my wife was because a woman called me by 7 am and she picked.Women are jealous by nature so the answer is No |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Dannylux: 3:08pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
who has the time kwanu? |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by RockMaxi: 3:11pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Unless you wan give yourself high BP, with all Mugun1, oloshi3 and Stupid4 numbers everywhere... |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Dubemkelly(m): 3:12pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Unless d person in question is a detector, y wud one give him or herself stress over mundane issues? I don't buy such an idea, everybody has their sensitive matters wch r more or less confidential n some folks r security conscious,u r married aint a platform 2 start being nosey in2 ur spouse's life,he or she needs some breath esp wen d r/ship is bonded n no ish of inattention. Let d mattered kept secrets be known 2 d keeper n learn 2 mind ur biz 2 avoid raising dusts in2 sth u can't handle 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by IAMBREEZY: 3:12pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
nah i love my privacy that's why i usually lock my phones with code so that my gurl won't read my msg cuz she's so suspicious. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Btruth: 3:14pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
joel lala: I think each individual still need a small privacy. Such as the phone, it could be a personal thing. Once they trust each other, there shouldn't be any suspicious act to each other, & besides, I don't personally consider it professional for a businessman to leave his phone for his wife to be playing with. I wouldn't want a situation where she will be coming up asking me questions about Angela, Mrs Idowu, Laraba, Aunt Ayo's School e.t.c when she sees their phone numbers on the phone. And trust women with their wahala. And what most women quickly just scan their men's phone for is funny text, and other ladies phone numbers. And truly, I don't see anything wrong with having a female's phone numbers on men's phone...... So, I will suggest that each individuals keep their phones to themselves. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by LookGud: 3:18pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
joel lala: If you don't like it, it means you have a skeleton in your cupboard. If you are sincere with yourself, you will allow your wife access to everything that belongs to you, because once married, you have become one. 4 Likes |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Checking one partner fones doesn't really mean one is looking for something or feeling suspicious u no things like that , I check my partner fone any time we are together because I found many of her bbm friends and twitter followers funny to an extend I personally use to follow some and send request to some cos of their funny dp and broadcasts and what's the big deal if ur partner is faithful there should not be any demon in her cupboard to hide . |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by deols(f): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
I believe marriage is about individuals who have come to be together. That individuality must be respected and is why checking of phones or spying on each other should not happen. And again, the marriage is to be based on trust..you should not have to snoop on someone you trust. The phones don't need to have passworss either since no secret is being kept 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by OlamideGirl(f): 3:25pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
donroxy: There is no bigdeal in playing with the phone of one's patner though not necessarily for witch-hunting !!i wonder o |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Mickey7(m): 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Hmm |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
deols:but I couldn't figure out anything wrong by knowing any little thing that's going on with my wife even tho I open up for her |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Fecodear(f): 3:34pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
When he was making the vows, "with my soul I wed you, with my body I honour you and all my worldly goods I share with you. am sure that also included his phone, besides since it won't be a problem to me if he has access to my phone I don't think it should be a problem to him too. 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
charleff512: I and my wife use each other's phone anytime.There should be transparency and sincerity in every union/relationship. Thank you bro. There should be transparency and sincerity in such union. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by brain54(m): 3:46pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
seriously wots the big deal if you have nothing to hide? i can submit my phone to even fbi,cia and even nafdac for acessing,screening and investigation cos i am clean. no big deal..i got noting to hide. 2 Likes |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by LookGud: 3:46pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
charleff512: I and my wife use each other's phone anytime.There should be transparency and sincerity in every union/relationship. God bless you my dear. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by deols(f): 3:49pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Ola def2: but I couldn't figure out anything wrong by knowing any little thing that's going on with my wife even tho I open up for her Ask her.. If she finds you snooping even though she has done notjing wrong, how do you think she'd feel? How would you feel if she does not trust you and starts to spy on you |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by neey1051(m): 3:55pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Privacy wrt to phone use between a couple simply means there's something they're hiding from each other...no wonder there are so many married couple but still living single......'TRUST' is the key/bedrock of any successful marriage.......i'd cross 'SEVEN Seas and Oceans' to find someone whom 'WE' can easily 'BROWSE/CHECK/ACCESS' each other's phone with ANYTIME.....TRUST IS PRICELESS. 4 Likes |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by loswhite(m): 4:01pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
The fact that u trust sumbody doesn't mean the person can't do otherwise o. Trust is earned over time. If u hav nothing to hide in the first place, why should married ppl have problems goin through each other's phones? Why make it make big deal?how can sumbody be married and still say I want privacy meaning u want freedom from the intrusion of others in your private life or affairs. Finally how do we define ur married life and ur private life abi private life na only phone 2 Likes |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by X4ms: 4:04pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
brain54: seriously wots the big deal if you have nothing to hide? i can submit my phone to even fbi,cia and even nafdac for acessing,screening and investigation cos i am clean. no big deal..i got noting to hide.You might have nothing to hide today, but dont be too sure of tommorow. Ola def2: Checking one partner fones doesn't really mean one is looking for something or feeling suspicious u no things like that , I check my partner fone any time we are together because I found many of her bbm friends and twitter followers funny to an extend I personally use to follow some and send request to some cos of their funny dp and broadcasts and what's the big deal if ur partner is faithful there should not be any demon in her cupboard to hide .Bros, u are living dangerously. 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
deols:yea ure right we have problem going tru such circumstance every time ... She keep complaining if I don't trust her but that's not my view , my concern is to take charge of everything that goes on in our life , I'm just protecting us .. Dazall! 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by ifnot4God: 4:05pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Well if these nothing hiding, and if they re heart open to each other, I mean if they truly love then self not thing bad in it. |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by X4ms: 4:07pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
brain54: seriously wots the big deal if you have nothing to hide? i can submit my phone to even fbi,cia and even nafdac for acessing,screening and investigation cos i am clean. no big deal..i got noting to hide.You might have nothing to hide today, but dont be too sure of tommorow. Ola def2: Checking one partner fones doesn't really mean one is looking for something or feeling suspicious u no things like that , I check my partnerBros/madam, u are living dangerously.LookGud:fone any time we are together because I found many of her bbm friends and twitter followers funny to an extend I personally use to follow some and send request to some cos of their funny dp and broadcasts and what's the big deal if ur partner is faithful there should not be any demon in her cupboard to hide . |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by gbigbega: 4:09pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
Why do people lock their phone or ask people not to look through its content? It is because they don't want people to have access to critical information that they consider private and for their own consumption only. As a married individual, if you consider your spouse as one of the person who should not peek into your privacy, then you are living a lie and have no respect for your spouse. " They were both naked and were not ashamed". 5 Likes |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
X4ms:pls kindly tell me how ? I'm really living dangerously ? What wrong in helping myself to know what my wife is going tru when I'm not there... I believe it help one a lot because sometimes knowing more and paying attention to her will help u both on a long run.. I can never be cool with do ur own thing and I do mine! Never ..... 1 Like |
Re: Should Married People Have Access To Each-Other’s Phones? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 11, 2013 |
X4ms:pls elaborate!!! |
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