There are a lot of decent girls out there. Especially when they finish University and want to reform their ways. Then they look for a decent guy to settle down with.

Whilst in university they want the guy whose father is mr. so and so and sleep with men for money on the regular.

Not all girls are like this, honestly, but a great percentage of Nigerian women are whoring themselves to any high bidder they can find.

Decent girls want better thing, and they look for certain qualities in a guy (that's smart!, they cannot come and soak garri). Now remember not everybody is perfect, so not every guy possesses all these qualities. So u r right, pretending to have these qualities will make them date you. And who knows it might just become a part of u, ur way of life, so both ways it's a win-win, nothing to lose.