OlamiB: I nevr knew it would turn this bad anyway because he didnt hide me from any of his immediate family member, the only person havent seen is his mummy, he doesnt hide anythin from me, i know his parents houses and his brothers, he introduced me to his frnds too. There were time he jokinly askd me to have his baby nw and i'd be like 'u dnt have money' he alwayz said he has money. The joke assured me that everythin would be fine if i should get pregnant, but its not so nw. I only hope he wont come askin for the baby later by the time i must have passed through hell raisin him/her alone.

gcfr.com:
stop posting, you've said enough shi.ts on NL already, just do the listening.

Merkki: Lol. Thread bookmarked for my daughter to read. My smart angel

Let the boys enjoy pls. Something free on a silver platter, no stress.

OlamiB: I nevr knew it would turn this bad anyway because he didnt hide me from any of his immediate family member, the only person havent seen is his mummy, he doesnt hide anythin from me, i know his parents houses and his brothers, he introduced me to his frnds too. There were time he jokinly askd me to have his baby nw and i'd be like 'u dnt have money' he alwayz said he has money. The joke assured me that everythin would be fine if i should get pregnant, but its not so nw. I only hope he wont come askin for the baby later by the time i must have passed through hell raisin him/her alone.

kulyie: please stop being a sexist or a misogynist.reminds me of the jist my mom told me one time


she has a friend like you,who shares your school of thought and always boasts about how good she brought up her daughter and how perfect she taught her about s3x education,at the end of the day,it was one union bank gateman around their area that impregnanted the daughter.shame made them to pack out of that area

bottomline let he that stand take heed lest he falls.

kulyie: i tire o

chineloSA:

The boy can do whatever he wants, even hold a "running away party'' for all I care. He can invite me too.

Its a girls responsibility to keep herself away from pregnancy and STI's especially when she is not married, so lets not candycoat what was wrong. She was making all sorts of excuses to get out of the house. The boy did not drag her out of the house. Who is responsible, hey? If you respect yourself and your parents a boy will follow suit.

I remember my first boyfriend ever in life, the guy never dare touch me because he respected me and my parents. My terms and conditions were very clear and he respected them. It was just fate that separated us.

I was once a teenager so I know how it works. Stupidity gives birth to stupidity likewise wiseness.

carefreewannabe:

I feel you

Relax for a while but NEVER change YOUR ATTITUDE!

#teamgreatminds

Merkki: Lol. Thread bookmarked for my daughter to read. My smart angel

Let the boys enjoy pls. Something free on a silver platter, no stress.

LEAVE MY BOYS ooo. LET THEM DIP THAT STICK INTO THOSE WILLING OWNERS

kulyie: then people like you should not complain when you see babies been dumped on the streets,beside the gutter,on the dumpsite,under a car.

Too much hypocrisy and double standards in Nigeria.smh

kulyie: then people like you should not complain when you see babies been dumped on the streets,beside the gutter,on the dumpsite,under a car.

Too much hypocrisy and double standards in Nigeria.smh

Merkki: No.abortion pls. Not in Nigeria. Legal abortion? Professionals? Without parental consent? Where will she get all that? And the money? Legal abortions don't come in cheap, except if you are ready to give her the money.

gcfr.com:
legal or illegal, doesn't really matter anyways, so long as they re carried out by professionals, not by some road side pharmacists.
Without parental consent? It depends, telling her mom shud be okay.
And it is not as expensive as you think.

Merkki:
Really? She still need to tell her mum. I don't buy the abortion idea all.

chineloSA:

Being known by his family members does not amount to being a wife oo!!!! You were just a girlfriend, that he was having a good time with.

See yourself, you were even considering having a child for him so long as he has money How could you Were you his wife See foolishness.

A man will always lie and tell you what you want to hear. Even your dad lied to get your mom. So its not new that man I very creative with stories.

I hope your boyfriend is just going through shock. He may come around

chineloSA:

If girls live they way I see it, there wont be any unwanted babies dumped on roadsides and bridges etc.
Girls will take charge, if they choose to do it, use protection or make clear demands from a man. They will not just open their legs without thinking of the possible repercussions possibly facing them without the boy by her side. GIRLS WILL KNOW THAT THE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR S.EX.UAL HEALTH NOT A BOY.

No hypocrisy at all. I was once a teenager, passed early adulthood, so I know what its all about. I faced the same challenges just like she is facing ( peer pressure, boy pressure, societal pressure ) so this is not knew.
To a man you are as good as your self respect. If I could do it, the next person can do it as well

gcfr.com:
On a final note @OP (cos I get match to watch).
Think of this poo like this: your destiny is in your hand. You give birth to this baby, of which you re no way capable of taking care, you "might" end up destroying your life, your destiny, and that of the baby's life too(we both know how babies with no good home up bringing end up), and finally your family.
OR
You abort this baby: in a good hospital, with the support of ur mom(not necessary), and save the future disasters.
Ciao
#unfollows.

obyrich: Chinelo and Merki I love your argument. Like chinelo said, I only sympathise with rape victims. In fact I actually rescued a girl from a potential rapist 2 days ago and planked the hell out of him. However, if a girl thinks that se,x is love, she should bear the consequences. Young girls deliberately register on social forums to find boyfriends and solicit se?x. Every girl should know that any man who leaves you because you denied him se!x doesnt love you. He wants your waist and nothing more. You dont blame the hawk, blame the mother hen who should protect the chick. Blame the chick that refuses to take refuge under its mother's wings. It's a jungle out there, girls be wise.

Merkki: 5 weeks pregnant? How did you find out please? Is the test reliable? Maybe you are not even pregnant but stressed up and missed your period. Sorry to derail, but I remember a girl that thought she was pregnant too and she wasn't.
OP, how sure are you?

byvan: Already having sex at 18?times have really changed . Hopefully your parents ll let you care for your baby while schooling,it ll keep you grounded(that is if you have the baby).


Tell your parents,they ll know what to do.

OlamiB:
yes

OlamiB: I just found out am 5weeks pregnant, i told my BF about it and all he said was that i should get an abortion to keep the relationship going, or i may decide to have the baby without a father cos he is not ready to be a father yet. He said he'd deny ever knowing me if i decide to keep the baby. I dnt know what to do cos am strongly against abortion, i havent told my parents yet because they wont take it likely with me all. Mum has warned me several times against it, in as much as i know my parents would eventually be there for me, i have a strict dad that may desown me by the time he finds out. He also promised to remove me on 2go, block me on whatsap and facebook and also buy a new set of numbers so he wnt have anytin to do with my again. This is driving me so crazy i dnt know what to do. This is the guy i love so much, i never believe he could do this to me, i'd eventually be an object of ridicule among frnds and family if i decide to keep the baby.

gcfr.com:

Now this is totally unnecessary, condemning her won't help her in any way.

baby_123:
This guy has never loved you. Time for you to accept that. Now, think about it well. It is your life. Think about if you would want to have a child and if you are prepared for it. Also think about if having such a low life in your life forever is something you can handle. Now, whatever you decide, please keep far away from that m*oron. There is no love here at all

OlamiB: I nevr knew it would turn this bad anyway because he didnt hide me from any of his immediate family member, the only person havent seen is his mummy, he doesnt hide anythin from me, i know his parents houses and his brothers, he introduced me to his frnds too. There were time he jokinly askd me to have his baby nw and i'd be like 'u dnt have money' he alwayz said he has money. The joke assured me that everythin would be fine if i should get pregnant, but its not so nw. I only hope he wont come askin for the baby later by the time i must have passed through hell raisin him/her alone.