gcfr.com:

Nice post.
But am completely speechless, the OP is in a serious sh.it.

Thanks. May God help her do the right thing. Honestly, when you go to the hospital for antenatal, you would be shocked @ the number of 'small children' you see with pregnancies. And you begin to wonder @ what age they started experimenting with s3x.

baby_123:
Oh. So it was a planned pregnancy gone wrong. How old is this guy. Maybe he used you to test his ability and you fell. Did you by any chance meet him on 2go? You are one of these girls opening it any how for jobless teenagers. Una well done

Of cos, it was a planned pregnancy! There's even one of her posts where she said she wishes she could get pregnant, so that she'll leave home and go to live with her boyfriend. I don't even av anything to say to her!

alutacontinua:

Of cos, it was a planned pregnancy! There's even one of her posts where she said she wishes she could get pregnant, so that she'll leave home and go to live with her boyfriend. I don't even av anything to say to her!

It is truly sad when all an 18yr old can offer herself in life is the position of baby mama. Op you have gotten your hearts desire. Congrats mama na baby. What you need most is common sense, goals and a life. Not a baby or even boyfriend at this point. You have no plan for your life at all. That is the saddest part. I hope now your eyes have opened and maybe a bit wiser and smarter

OlamiB: Congrat to her.this is some of the advantage of having kids earlier, nw she has all the time to face her carrier and raise all her children.

Deep sigh @ all your comments. You really want this pregnancy really bad.
By the way, checked your profile, you are following just one guy and he is equally following only you. Did some further snooping too Is that him? I mean your boyfriend? He Is cute

baby_123:
Oh. So it was a planned pregnancy gone wrong. How old is this guy. Maybe he used you to test his ability and you fell. Did you by any chance meet him on 2go? You are one of these girls opening it any how for jobless teenagers. Una well done

lmao abeg make una leave me o,make i go cook yam porridge o

baby_123:
It is truly sad when all an 18yr old can offer herself in life is the position of baby mama. Op you have gotten your hearts desire. Congrats mama na baby. What you need most is common sense, goals and a life. Not a baby or even boyfriend at this point. You have no plan for your life at all. That is the saddest part. I hope now your eyes have opened and maybe a bit wiser and smarter

lmao ase member awon NFA- no future ambition club ni. so the only thing you have to offer is a baby.chooiiiii.see your life outside.smh .na the pikin i pity

kulyie: lmao abeg make una leave me o,make i go cook yam porridge o

Abi now. Sometimes you wonder if the ones in romance section are telling wild tales. Some things they write there na wa o. But these are the girls giving them mouth

kulyie: lmao ase member awon NFA- no future ambition club ni. so the only thing you have to offer is a baby.chooiiiii.see your life outside.smh .na the pikin i pity

Babanla NFA buruku. Very gullible. Now she is here forming bolo. A guy that cannot even buy himself recharge card. You see the mess you have put yourself and your parents in. God Abeg o. Skip me when you are distributing this kind of children. Ko sharp rara at all

baby_123:
Babanla NFA buruku. Very gullible. Now she is here forming bolo. A guy that cannot even buy himself recharge card. You see the mess you have put yourself and your parents in. God Abeg o. Skip me when you are distributing this kind of children. Ko sharp rara at all

*faints*
pls don't let this girl cry and hurt herself o. She is carrying a baby. She is now a card-carrying member of family section

baby_123:
Babanla NFA buruku. Very gullible. Now she is here forming bolo. A guy that cannot even buy himself recharge card. You see the mess you have put yourself and your parents in. God Abeg o. Skip me when you are distributing this kind of children. Ko sharp rara at all

and me too o,amen! She be like all those girls wey them dey fvk for backyard of school premises for evening,tufiaaaa

Kulyie, hv u finished preparing the yam?
Abi u want it to get burnt?
Oya,go cook.

baby_123:
Abi now. Sometimes you wonder if the ones in romance section are telling wild tales. Some things they write there na wa o. But these are the girls giving them mouth

yes na,sebi this afternoon,i was reading somewhere in nairaland where one stewpeed girl was asking an actor whether she should come to his house and rock that thing inside his pants,the same boy was still even claiming that some will write letter to his mumsi begging her to talk to his son to allow her date him,na their type be this onidi gigan still opening typing i still love him

yellowpawpaw: Kulyie, hv u finished preparing the yam?
Abi u want it to get burnt?
Oya,go cook.

i dey use one hand slice pepper,i dey use the other type.my electic kettle don spoil another expenses because of this omo buruku yi :/8-)

chineloSA:

The boy can do whatever he wants, even hold a "running away party'' for all I care. He can invite me too.

Its a girls responsibility to keep herself away from pregnancy and STI's especially when she is not married, so lets not candycoat what was wrong. She was making all sorts of excuses to get out of the house. The boy did not drag her out of the house. Who is responsible, hey? If you respect yourself and your parents a boy will follow suit.

I remember my first boyfriend ever in life, the guy never dare touch me because he respected me and my parents. My terms and conditions were very clear and he respected them. It was just fate that separated us.

I was once a teenager so I know how it works. Stupidity gives birth to stupidity likewise wiseness.

So your sons are told that it's NOT their responsibility to protect themselves from STDs?

kulyie: i dey use one hand slice pepper,i dey use the other type.my electic kettle don spoil another expenses because of this omo buruku yi :/8-)

A moment ago you slightly supported the girl against the boy, now you are going very hard on the girl. Later you will complain of double standards in Nigeria. Just take it easy. Your words are getting too harsh. Thank you

Merkki:
A moment ago you slightly supported the girl against the boy, now you are going very hard on the girl. Later you will complain of double standards in Nigeria. Just take it easy. Your words are getting too harsh. Thank you

that is to tell you thst i am blaming the 2 culprits,i have stated where the girl is guilty and i have equally stated where the boy is guilty.i am not in support of any of them because in the ideal sense,if they really have sense,they have no buisness with s3x at that age.ay her age,i was already charting the course of my life and how i will round up my project in xyz uni.s3x was the last thing on my mind.

It is girls that have no goal in life that priotize s3x and boyfriends.my books and term papers were enough to be my boyfriend not a 3rd leg,lobatan.eshati jeki isu mi jona no more lunch

Merkki:
*faints*
pls don't let this girl cry and hurt herself o. She is carrying a baby. She is now a card-carrying member of family section

carefreewannabe:

So your sons are told that it's NOT their responsibility to protect themselves from STDs?

I don't have them as yet, but when the time comes i will teach them thoroughly about STI's, birth controls, s..x, woman, human anatomy etc. I will teach them, that its their responsibility to take care of their s..e..xual health and not anybody else's.

I will teach them that in life everything has consequences, some permanent and some temporary. Whenever they do something they must think of the consequences. If the consequences are permanent, they must step back and think wisely before they proceed.
I will warn them about foolish girls who will want to tie them down with kids.
I will warn him of his temporary stupidity which may lead to permanent regrets.

I will tell them not to bring me a stupid girl telling me about pregnancy. Their foolishness is theirs alone
The way I will bring up my sons, I doubt my sons wont listen to mommy dearest. I plan to be very close to my little princes

Wow.

How do guys like the OP's bf sleep at night?

E be like say people like the poster scan through nairaland without comprehending what they see.

Its mindboggling how, if this is a true story, the op and her boyfriend must have seen plenty of nl threads addressing similar issues of you people not using a condom and even eschewing premarital sex, yet he or she still comes to open this type of thread.

You got pregnant despite all you know about this type of situation, (if you're telling the truth), what exactly are people supposed to do for you now?

Talk to your family members and see what they have to say, abi na nl go raise the baby/sponsor the abortion, whatever you decide?

Op,I know everyone else is like

but I'm all like

kulyie: yes na,sebi this afternoon,i was reading somewhere in nairaland where one stewpeed girl was asking an actor whether she should come to his house and rock that thing inside his pants,the same boy was still even claiming that some will write letter to his mumsi begging her to talk to his son to allow her date him,na their type be this onidi gigan still opening typing i still love him

When she wrote that the guy said maybe after she has done abortion then maybe they can continue the relationship. I first thought I was seeing double. Only for me to see her saying that she loves him when he threatened to cut her out of his life. Then for her to boldly admit this was planned. Wow. Op is obviously incapable of making any sensible decision or any choice for herself. It is in her best interest to inform her parents before she goes to do something even more funny. Op, tell your parents. They are in a better position to make a decision for you. And in future don't make any decision without their help until you are sure your mind and brain has developed very well

OlamiB: I just found out am 5weeks pregnant, i told my BF about it and all he said was that i should get an abortion to keep the relationship going, or i may decide to have the baby without a father cos he is not ready to be a father yet. He said he'd deny ever knowing me if i decide to keep the baby. I dnt know what to do cos am strongly against abortion, i havent told my parents yet because they wont take it likely with me all. Mum has warned me several times against it, in as much as i know my parents would eventually be there for me, i have a strict dad that may desown me by the time he finds out. He also promised to remove me on 2go, block me on whatsap and facebook and also buy a new set of numbers so he wnt have anytin to do with my again. This is driving me so crazy i dnt know what to do. This is the guy i love so much, i never believe he could do this to me, i'd eventually be an object of ridicule among frnds and family if i decide to keep the baby.

it's a no-brainer.
abort the baby & move on. don't bring another child that you can't care for into this world.

dust yourself & move on. if you go ahead & have the child with the plan of leaving the baby by a river or a dumpster, then i will personally look for you & kill you.

coogar:

it's a no-brainer.
abort the baby & move on. don't bring another child that you can't care for into this world.

dust yourself & move on. if you go ahead & have the child with the plan of leaving the baby by a river or a dumpster, then i will personally look for you & kill you.

Her type will go back to this boy to take her for abortion. The useless and evil boy will take her where she will either get killed or lose her ability to have kids in the future. This girl is not sharp at all. She will make this same mistake over and over. Let her tell her parents. She is simply very gullible, trusting and with no plan for her life at all. She needs serious guidance and help

chineloSA:

I don't have them as yet, but when the time comes i will teach them thoroughly about STI's, birth controls, s..x, woman, human anatomy etc. I will teach them, that its their responsibility to take care of their s..e..xual health and not anybody else's.

I will teach them that in life everything has consequences, some permanent and some temporary. Whenever they do something they must think of the consequences. If the consequences are permanent, they must step back and think wisely before they proceed.
I will warn them about foolish girls who will want to tie them down with kids.
I will warn him of his temporary stupidity which may lead to permanent regrets.

I will tell them not to bring me a stupid girl telling me about pregnancy. Their foolishness is theirs alone
The way I will bring up my sons, I doubt my sons wont listen to mommy dearest. I plan to be very close to my little princes

And if YOUR SONS BY ANY UNLUCKY CHANCE tell you that they got a (young) girl pregnant, what will you tell them?

The Girl will definitely go back to that guy. She is that dumb and gullible. You all are just advising her for nothing.

baby_123:
Her type will go back to this boy to take her for abortion. The useless and evil boy will take her where she will either get killed or lose her ability to have kids in the future. This girl is not sharp at all. She will make this same mistake over and over. Let her tell her parents. She is simply very gullible, trusting and with no plan for her life at all. She needs serious guidance and help

she's only 18, go easy on her.
even adults make this kinda mistake. the boy isn't ready. what's he supposed to do? the boy might not even have N100 in his pocket.

Merkki: The Girl will definitely go back to that guy. She is that dumb and gullible. You all are just advising her for nothing.

love is blind.....

coogar:

she's only 18, go easy on her.
even adults make this kinda mistake. the boy isn't ready. what's he supposed to do? the boy might not even have N100 in his pocket.



love is blind.....

They will both learn a lesson of a lifetime whatever her parents decide. Some parents take their kids for abortion. At least it will be safer that way. This girl needs help from herself and destructive tendencies. She shouldn't make a decision on that baby without her parents knowledge or an adult.

Merkki: The Girl will definitely go back to that guy. She is that dumb and gullible. You all are just advising her for nothing.

Oh. That is almost certain. By 5 abortions her eye will clear

baby_123:
They will both learn a lesson of a lifetime whatever her parents decide. Some parents take their kids for abortion. At least it will be safer that way. This girl needs help from herself and destructive tendencies. She shouldn't make a decision on that baby without her parents knowledge or an adult.

according to the nigerian law, she's no longer a child. she need not an adult to make a life-changing decision. this pregnancy will slow her down - she might have to drop out of school!

baby_123:
Oh. That is almost certain. By 5 abortions her eye will clear

Lol. Honestly. Her previous threads and posts made me realize she is so deeply in love with that boy. Kinda sweet She wanted the pregnancy.

coogar:

according to the nigerian law, she's no longer a child. she need not an adult to make a life-changing decision. this pregnancy will slow her down - she might have to drop out of school!

Some people are adults but because of mental handicaps they need other adults to make decisions for them. She may drop out of school and am sure she will be glad to. She never wanted to go to school anyway. She wanted to be a mother. She got her wish. Let her deal with it and raise the child.