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Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Beautydiva(f): 6:39pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
A man may be able to put across a great image, but it could simply be a cover for hidden shortcomings, or he could just be totally faking it to ‘get the girl.’Here are some ways to know if you’ve struck gold: 1) A real man values more than just your looks. Is every compliment from him about a different body part? It doesn’t matter how creative he can be, if a guy’s sole focus is on how you look, or ‘talking dirty,’ see it as a red flag. A real man will value your personality, your kindness, your intelligence, and who you are as a person, in general. The things he makes you feel good about will be things that you control, not just results of getting lucky in the gene pool. relationships 2) A real man will never be intimidated by your motivation. A man who has goals for himself, will want to be with a woman who has goals for her own life, too. He will never feel intimidated or threatened by a woman who goes after what she wants. He will want to be part of a power couple, rather than a dictatorship. Be mindful of anyone who tries to keep you from pursuing your dreams. 3) A real man will have more interests than just you. I don’t mean this in a negative way. You should, of course, be a priority in his life — but he needs to have a life as well. Interests, friends, hobbies, aspirations. If a man works his entire life around you, it’s another red flag — relationships should be a great part of your life, but not encompass your whole life. 4) A real man will give you answers. No matter how awkward or uncomfortable a situation is, a real man will approach it, and you, with respect. I have always felt that a mark of a man is how he handles conflict, criticism, and less-than-ideal situations. A man will not dance around answers or make excuses. If there is something you two need to talk about, he will talk about it. 5) A real man is direct. In addition to the last point — there will be no mind games or manipulation in your relationship. A man will be direct, to the point, and honest with you… but with kindness. 6) A real man will trust you. As long as you haven’t betrayed his trust, a man will NOT be paranoid, or snoop around invading your privacy to make sure you’re not doing anything bad. He will have confidence in your relationship. A boy will project his own insecurities onto you, and like termites in a house, will eat away at the foundation of what you’ve built. 7) A real man is cool, calm, and collected. It should be understood that part of what comes with the territory of having a girlfriend, is dealing with her getting hit on. If you’re at the bar together, or if she’s out with her friends, it goes without saying that your girlfriend will get hit on every once in awhile. Instead of letting his primate instincts prevail and beating his chest like an angry gorilla to scare off competition, a confident man will calmly make his position known, and understand that you’re still going home with him at the end of the night. A real man will show you respect. Nothing signifies an empty shell of a man more than someone who disrespects women, animals, or children. A real man will treat you with the respect that you deserve, never force you to do anything you’re uncomfortable with, and never mistreat you. Be honest enough with yourself to walk away from any situation that is dangerous to you, physically or emotionally. 9) A real man will put effort into your relationship. Boys are generally apathetic and just look for one thing from a woman. A man, will do what it takes to make you happy, both inside and outside of the bedroom. Your happiness, is his reward. 10) A real man will make you want to be the best version of yourself, without changing who you really are. A man will empower those around him. He will strive for greatness and therefore inspire others to strive for it as well. This not only includes friends and co-workers, but also significant others. 6 Likes |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by iamyet: 6:43pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
;DI tink I found 1 |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Peinstein: 6:53pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Sounds cool and interesting, though no man will have all this at once, you grow into some of these traits over time. The list is more like the ideal man than a real man. A real man should have most of the traits you listed above though 1 Like |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
Dats d perfect man u jst listed up there, young lady!!! 1 Like |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by 49cents(m): 8:28pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
OP do adjsut the tiltle of thread, I no somebody who won't like the term "real man" LOL Now how about THE REAL WOMAN |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by xager(m): 8:29pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
in summary, such a man does not exist |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Kslib(m): 8:40pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
11.. A man is not real if he has those 10qualities but cant satisfy you in bed!! |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by EmmanuelIbeh(m): 10:14pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
I'm so scared now cos I possess all these qualities. Does it mean that nl ladies will start chasing me now? 1 Like |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Emessy(m): 10:23pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
[quote author=EmmanuelIbeh]I'm so scared now cos I possess all these qualities. Does it mean that nl ladies will start chasing me now?[/quote] He-goat keep dreaming |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by tpia5: 10:54pm On Nov 23, 2013 |
good one. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 1:21am On Nov 24, 2013 |
tpia@: Yes, yes,yes |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Shaakasi(f): 1:26am On Nov 24, 2013 |
Kslib: 11.. A man is not real if he has those 10qualities but cant satisfy you in bed!! yes yes yes |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 5:16am On Nov 24, 2013 |
I possess all the above qualities. Thank God things. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 6:09am On Nov 24, 2013 |
wow that sums me up, especially to pint number 3, i have too much interest in other stuffs, i feel fake people live their life around a girl; what happens when she says no. but Point 3 can be disadvantageous to some point, because my intense interest for Programming is overwhelming that i can spend days reading without thought for other things, its a mixed thing good and bad. nice post. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by 49cents(m): 8:55am On Nov 24, 2013 |
Beautydiva: A man may be able to put across a great Which wan is power couple again? This definitely is a red flag for the authour of this list and is a subtle pro-feminism! A man is the head of the family is that a pill too hard to swallow?. ....what such blind femisnism don't understand is that being the Head is not even an enjoyable position and one will render account and assume full responsibilty for decision made!!! Moreover two captains cannot be in one ship!!! What a REAL WOMAN must do is to NOT sacrifice the most important values in whom she wants to spend the rest of her life with for secondary ones!!! You can't have your cake and eat it When you hunt for and get a Made-Man to marry you chances are that he will not be the listening type......yet every man will listen to his wife depending on how she presents it to him and even when he does not buy your input you have to support him as long as it is not something unlawful cos most times when a man is driven by selfless motives he percieves things in his spirit to take some decisions which you may not understand! Point is the key things you should look for is a man that you can respect because: 1. He is selfless 2. He is listening 3. He is astute in decision-making 4.He has a clear picture where he is headed for and is taking diligent and practical steps to get there. 5. He is not arrogant towards people Headsship in a family falls on the man, make him more of that man by supporting and encouraging him and not demanding he must consult you before taking any decision; men will naturally consult their wives if they are comfortable with the way they present their opinions |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 9:40am On Nov 24, 2013 |
EmmanuelIbeh: I'm so scared now cos I possess all these qualities. Does it mean that nl ladies will start chasing me now? How deep is your wallet? [size=4pt]Na joke o...[/size] |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 24, 2013 |
49cents: Which wan is power couple again? Where are the red flags? I don't understand why whenever such threads arise, someone has to mention that a man is the head of the household. My question is, what's your point? Did the OP say otherwise? An article says "women, a man who trusts you, listens to you, and has his own goals is the right kind of man", and you're against that? A man expressing concern or interest in his wife or girlfriend and her feelings or thoughts doesn't make him effeminate. Fact. Just as age comes with wisdom, "real man" status comes with responsibility, determination, trustworthiness, and whatever else that makes a good man or husband. That's my personal opinion. Some of the 5 points you listed are similar to what the OP listed by the way. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 10:27am On Nov 24, 2013 |
After putting on heavy make-up, brazillian hair, push up bra, bleaching ur skin, false behaviour and everything FAKE, you expect to nab a REAL man? Mmh, call me when your juju works. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by fruityjojo(f): 10:32am On Nov 24, 2013 |
A Real Man would send me a hundred thousand right nowww! Pm me 4 my account num 2 prove ur worth as a reall man dat u are |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 10:36am On Nov 24, 2013 |
fruityjojo: A Real Man would send me a hundred thousand right nowww! Pm me 4 my account num 2 prove ur worth as a reall man dat u arei would've given u but you've just shown dat u are not worth it. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 11:15am On Nov 24, 2013 |
49cents: Wow.... What is wrong with asking for equality now? Must women always be under men? I can't wait to see the day when all this oppression against women will end. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by dmcdad: 11:17am On Nov 24, 2013 |
fruityjojo: A Real Man would send me a hundred thousand right nowww! Pm me 4 my account num 2 prove ur worth as a reall man dat u areI just deposited 150k in your account. Acknowledge it please. Meanwhile, when you get this message, PM me your account number. Okay? |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 24, 2013 |
ogugua88: Insecurity They are trying hard to maintain their religiously imposed superiority over women. 1 Like |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by 49cents(m): 11:22am On Nov 24, 2013 |
ogugua88: Redflag? I tried boldening but am mobile so I got it messed up yet my opening remak about power couple rather than dictatorship is what I was pointing at! I never said a man expressing concern for his gf or wife makes him effeminate nor did I object to the entire list the OP put up! I ONLY harped on the power couple What does power couple sharing mean in clear language? |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by fruityjojo(f): 11:41am On Nov 24, 2013 |
dmcdad:Hehehehe spiritual account I see. Fake men everywhere! |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by fruityjojo(f): 11:48am On Nov 24, 2013 |
TribalEAST: i would've given u but you've just shown dat u are not worth it.Neurocysticercosis detected in ur brain! U can't even regconise humour written in plain English!!! |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by mightycrown: 12:09pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
is there real woman in Nigeria? I dnt think there is. so, a real man is the man that has enough money to buy the fake love exhibit by nowadays women. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by angelTI(f): 12:16pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
As Ogugua don show face for this thread, e go soon land for FP! Who wan bet am with me? Happy sunday NLanders |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 1:22pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Beautydiva:smh.. If you are direct to a Nigerian girl then you are a big fool and she will term you one.. never be direct to a girl! never! always make her heart shake then she will never be bored in the relationship cuz u display new character everyday.. A real man never trust anybody apart from himself |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by dmcdad: 1:44pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
fruityjojo:Hehehehehehe |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
49cents: Redflag? I tried boldening but am mobile so I got it messed up yet my opening remak about power couple rather than dictatorship is what I was pointing at! Ooh. I just saw it and emboldened it for you. You didn't say it outright, but it was implied and I doubt I'm the only one who perceived it. As for power couple, lol it doesn't have anything to do with power per se. A power couple is an influential couple. They're envied/admired, and appear to be perfect. Women in power couples are seen as strong, determined, and have minds of their own. Some examples are Barack and Michelle Obama, Duke William and Dutchess Katherine, David and Victoria Beckham, and Jay-Z and Beyoncé. A woman doesn't have to inferior or a subordinate for a man to be the head of a household. The women in the aforementioned power couples still know who the man is. |
Re: Ten Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man?? by Arsenate(m): 6:39pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
I personally hate that phrase "real man". guys better be careful. whenever a lady says she needs a "real man", what she actually needs is a mugu. I don talk my own sha |
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