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What A Wierd Question From Guys by nneh1(f): 2:41pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Seriously I don't understand what on earth is happening. Why must the 1st question a guy will ask a girl is how old are you without even asking her name esp all these nairaland boys. Yes I call them boys.some have not even seen you and the conversation goes Guy; hello Girl; good day Guy; how are u Girl; I'm fine and u? Guy; how old are u?? No what is ur name,who are u etc? Pls is this reasonable in this era or am I missing something bcs it irritates me. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by sonofanarchy(m): 2:43pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
but how old are you now 9 Likes |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by dBard: 2:49pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Sounds about 17 to me.. Max ..19 |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Danhumprey: 3:06pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
OP,how old are you? |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by UyiIredia(m): 3:20pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
nneh1: Seriously I don't understand what on earth is happening. Why must the 1st question a guy will ask a girl is how old are you without even asking her name esp all these nairaland boys. Yes I call them boys.some have not even seen you and the conversation goes Oh shut up you silly girl ! Your attitude stinks. If you are too timid to state your age, so unpolite to state your name, and too foolish to understand the importance of giving a short summary of your person, as a basis of establishing a relationship with a stranger, you have mental problems. 11 Likes |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by nneh1(f): 3:28pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Uyi Iredia:you are more than stupid for your comments. When you meet someone whether boy or girl, what should be the first question. Look at this fool calling me silly. Better respect your sunday. 5 Likes |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by zeb04(f): 3:36pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
abeg make i siddon watch fight 2day |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by nneh1(f): 3:43pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Uyi Iredia:what if the 1st question is not "what is your name rather it is how old are you" does it sound good. Where and when has age come before name? I don't know what all these 17 -20yrs boys are doing on Nl. ASUU pls call off this strike let them face their books. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by nneh1(f): 3:47pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Uyi Iredia:so meeting a stranger now means I should write a summary of my self in less than 2 minutes as 'CV' bcs u'll give me a job. Infact let me not talk too much . |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 3:48pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
nneh1: Seriously I don't understand what on earth is happening. Why must the 1st question a guy will ask a girl is how old are you without even asking her name esp all these nairaland boys. Yes I call them boys.some have not even seen you and the conversation goes There are motives for asking, what's unreasonable is that u failed to analyse why a person might have made it the first question..1) he might be matured nd doesn't want to chat with an underage/minor .. 2) he might be seeking for singles to start a relationship with ..3)miscellaneous ,like being comfortable with his age groups,having principles on age range for friendships New contacts on my bbm, particularly girls do ask me that question all the while on our first chat, and I've never created a topic to complain about it, though I found it awkward initially, but I got to understand why they did. 1 Like |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by nneh1(f): 3:52pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
appelmoieddy:thanks so much at least it sounds awkward.I guess I should know the person's motive 1st.at first I was like why not my name first. It's funny though. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by UyiIredia(m): 3:53pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
appelmoieddy: Someone who thinks. Unlike the classic case of a mugu in the person of nneh. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 3:56pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
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Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by borntobegr8t(m): 3:58pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
nneh1: Seriously I don't understand what on earth is happening. Why must the 1st question a guy will ask a girl is how old are you without even asking her name esp all these nairaland boys. Yes I call them boys.some have not even seen you and the conversation goesyou must really like this ur name o, 1 Like |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 4:00pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
nneh1: thanks so much at least it sounds awkward.I guess I should know the person's motive 1st.at first I was like why not my name first. It's funny though.Alright.every1 z different |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 4:01pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Uyi Iredia:Lol,that was harsh na, she only had a different view, |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by seankay(m): 4:01pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
But I'm kinda curious...'Why must the topic be (Wierd question from "guys" how many guys? 1 Like |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by UyiIredia(m): 4:10pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
appelmoieddy: Apropos, because the person who asked her the question had a different view, and she found it 'irritating'. Besides, if she had the sense to cool off, I would have let go of censuring her. 1 Like |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Enegod(m): 4:11pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:54pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
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Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by ITbomb(m): 6:15pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Such a direct question at that stage of conversation for me is rude . The more diplomatic way to go is to ask if she is a student or a worker . To avoid a situation of a 20 year old worker , u might ask her when she graduated n which school . For me I operate in age ranges , I don't care for ur specific age when interacting with u. 17 to 21 group 1 , 22 to 27 group 2 , 28 to 35 group 3 . Any other group beneath is underage and above is overage 1 Like |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by NnamdiN: 7:36pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
Uyi Iredia:brother, easy on the lady please. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by nbright: 11:05pm On Nov 24, 2013 |
His first question is "how are you?" not "how old are you?" 4 Likes |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Abbott(m): 1:23am On Nov 25, 2013 |
They prolly ask because Nairaland is full of minors(boys & girls under 18) and because they are prolly adults. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:27am On Nov 25, 2013 |
Uyi Iredia: Oh shut up you silly girl ! Your attitude stinks. If you are too timid to state your age, so unpolite to state your name, and too foolish to understand the importance of giving a short summary of your person, as a basis of establishing a relationship with a stranger, you have mental problems. Why are you so rude? She's unpolite for not stating her name to a strange someone who approached her? If he wants to know who she is, then maybe he should break the ice by stating who he is! Which stranger comes up to someone and starts asking questions without saying anything about himself first? Isn't common sense common again? @OP, it happens, and I find it strange as well. If a guy comes up to me and starts asking, then I become tight-lipped. When I'm meeting someone for the first time, I give my name at the very least so that the other person feels comfortable. I understand your perspective. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:31am On Nov 25, 2013 |
Same here! That's why I don't reply all these messages I get here my inbox is always crying.lol 1 Like |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:33am On Nov 25, 2013 |
mayapop: Same here! That's why I don't reply all these messages I get here my inbox is always crying.lol Oh boy. PMs are another matter o. Let's not go there abeg.......... Make we go lol. "hi pwincess, saw ur dp. wer do u liv?" Na lie? |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:37am On Nov 25, 2013 |
ogugua88:chineke lol! You got it! Or "are you from overseas cause your the sea I see" this one cranked my belly button |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:38am On Nov 25, 2013 |
mayapop: chineke lol! You got it! Or "are you from overseas cause your the sea I see" this one cranked my belly button Ehn? Now that's ultimate hand-falling lol. |
Re: What A Wierd Question From Guys by Nobody: 5:41am On Nov 25, 2013 |
ogugua88:lol he Wanna act like a clown. |
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