[quote author=sweetestguy]tnx dear,I'm very lovable, dia are somtins our parents mosttimes do,de tink its in our interest bt rili de are depriving us of good love.ya a lot of tins went tru my childhood,trauma I may say,and I tink it really affected my way of reasonin nw. Bt nw I dnt knw if I shud live my life and try to manage d emotions, or just try to cut them out entirely,is it posible?
U cant cut away d emotions ,i can say dats actually next to impossible no matter how hard u try. U only need to always make out tym to review events c wat u did ryt or where u went wrong n try as much as possible to always be urself n dnt live ur lyf on d merit of sumbody .As abt ur childhood ,i want u to no evrytin happens 4 a reason so try n 4give urself first n den 4give ur parents
U may also want to ask God 4 help ,cos wen u ave him u no u need not fear as he gives u peace dat surpasses all other.If u r a christian ,u sud also try listening to inspirational gospel songs dat can lift ur soul n spirit.
Pretending d emotions arent there only makes it worse cos it wud get to a stage where u wnt b able to hold it anymore n den u jst brk dwn completely. Its beta resolvin ur emotions,know its not gonna last 4eva n u can also talk to pple who know n understand you

From what you describe you may have some anxiety issues. Whatever the problem, it is a chemical imbalance for which you should see a doctor and counselor.

sweetestguy: amen dear,,bt learning hw to control ur emotions and learning to drop emotions, which would produce more results?

You can't drop your emotions. You just need to learn to control them. Practice breathing exercises. Whenever you get really emotional, breath in & let go. This relaxes your nerves.

HisRib:

You can't drop your emotions. You just need to learn to control them. Practice breathing exercises. Whenever you get really emotional, breath in & let go. This relaxes your nerves.

2s£xy:

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HisRib:

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sorry, it was an error. Mistook you for someone else.

[quote author=Moonb][/quote]tnx dear, rilly useful

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HisRib:

You can't drop your emotions. You just need to learn to control them. Practice breathing exercises. Whenever you get really emotional, breath in & let go. This relaxes your nerves.

k tnx dear

FlowerPower: From what you describe you may have some anxiety issues. Whatever the problem, it is a chemical imbalance for which you should see a doctor and counselor.

k noted

OP, I understand what you are going through. You are only 22.

Guess what? Time changes man. #FACT!

You will change with time and there are going to be series of events in your life that will reshape and a remould you. Some will hurt like a knife is being pierce through your heart, some will feel like there is flame of fire all over you, some will throw you into snowy glaciers, so cold, some will be in sense of betrayals and so many events.

Just get ready as they happen but the beauty of it all is that they happen so that you can be remoulded... With time, you will get over these emotions.

Life is the Greatest Teacher in the Universe!

2s£xy:
OP, I understand what you are going through. You are only 22.

Guess what? Time changes man. #FACT!

You will change with time and there are going to be series of events in your life that will reshape and a remould you. Some will hurt like a knife is being pierce through your heart, some will feel like there is flame of fire all over you, some will throw you into snowy glaciers, so cold, some will be in sense of betrayals and so many events.

Just get ready as they happen but the beauty of it all is that they happen so that you can be remoulded... With time, you will get over these emotions.

Life is the Greatest Teacher in the Universe!

nice one