i am still in shock to see that i will never get a chance to be married to my first and only love of my life. after all the sacrifices i made. i gave him my masters money. in one of the private university .yes you can call me a fool but that was the extent to which i love him.
he has since paid me the money but i wasted a year of masters study and lied to my father.
pls i need an advice as to what to do. i havent started my masters yet. plan to do dt next year.
i didnt state why he broke up. we broke up cos he is nt ready to marry in the nxt two years. he is nt even sure when he wants to marry. pleasw house, i need an advice as i have been crying all day and almost going mad.

Dont cry over spilled milk dear. He has made up his mind before now, What is 2years? A real man will make his woman understand and not chicken out over a flimsy excuse. Below are some pain medicine, Ponder on it. Overdose has no side effects

Que sera sera

Ok u are no more 2geda, is dat d end of the road?,dat is his loss. Move on wit your life,do ur masters,work hard,make him regret he lost you. Take tym 2 heal,don't rush tins. Cry as much as you want and sip som heneiken

zeb04: Ok u are no more 2geda, is dat d end of the road?,dat is his loss. Move on wit your life,do ur masters,work hard,make him regret he lost you. Take tym 2 heal,don't rush tins. Cry as much as you want and sip som heneiken

Heineken? Are u kidding me?

My dear, stop crying. Wipe your tears and let him go. I know its hard but be a strong lady and put the past behind you. At least, he gave you your money back..some ladies weren't that lucky.
Don't be in such a hurry to rush into the next relationship that comes your way. Take your time. Develop yourself. Go and do your masters. Make yourself an asset to whoever will marry you. And the next relationship you have, please,shine your eyes. Use your head. Don't get carried away by sweet nothings. Until a guy becomes your husband..he has no right to your body or your finances. Goodluck!

Just kneeldown and thankGod

This girl dey lie

You broke up because he is nor ready to get married? That settles it, you cannot force him and it is good he gave you that reason. Just open your mind to others coming your way and be careful how you love this time around. Don't cry just be strong huh.
Lemme ask you,which of the two pained you most,the fact that he broke up with you or that you gave him the money meant for your postgraduate programme?

Truckpusher: This girl dey lie

Hahahahaha!!!! Laugh Wan Kill Me For Here!!!

Story of my life

Aww. This is really hurtful, just pray to God for inner Peace and strength to move on. Stuff like this happen everytime, God obviously has better plans for you. With time You'll move on and heal. *hugss*

Yet another story

Sit down there(InPeteEdochie'sVoice) and listen up... The way you feel right nw is a nice start. Based on your story, since you 'knew Y'; dnt bother to 'find X' coz he ain't coming back! Experience they say is the best teacher, but it seems most ladies out there are pretty bad student. They get played over and over again..

This is the first time a guy will do you 'shege' Lucky you! Tell yourself No Man will ever play me dis way again. Grab a new book and start writing a fresh story. Life is too short to patiently untie 'agege bread'

Look at it this way;
He just lost someone that still love him.
You lost someone that no longer love u.
Who loose?
Cheer up girl, it's better now than when he marry u.
Most times the first are not the best.....if he don't go, how will the best come?
No man deserve ur tears, and u deserve better man than him.

Its Well

iyobs7:

Heineken? Are u kidding me?

like re u 4 real...??

cionon: i am still in shock to see that i will never get a chance to be married to my first and only love of my life. after all the sacrifices i made. i gave him my masters money. in one of the private university .yes you can call me a fool but that was the extent to which i love him.
he has since paid me the money but i wasted a year of masters study and lied to my father.
pls i need an advice as to what to do. i havent started my masters yet. plan to do dt next year.
i didnt state why he broke up. we broke up cos he is nt ready to marry in the nxt two years. he is nt even sure when he wants to marry. pleasw house, i need an advice as i have been crying all day and almost going mad.

he was kind enough to pay you back the money... he must be a gentleman!!!

yes, thank your stars cos a broken courtship is better than shattered marriage

drnairalov: like re u 4 real...??

Lol....lyk seriously na d only tin wen u fit tlk ba dat?


@Op....I feel ur pain buh u av got 2 move ahead atleast he returned d money,sum were nt so lucky....jes focus on ur masters u neva can tell u might meet sum1 beta in d process.

There are rebound single guys out there. You should have noticed it may not work out. Did you break up with him or he broke up with you. Can you two still be friends

Adeniyi A.:
yes, thank your stars cos a broken courtship is better than shattered marriage

Thanks for hitting the nail on the head,be glad you aint married to him yet.Sister, its not over until its over gather your self together and make good use of your time.
There is time for everything under the earth,your time to smile is just by the corner.Cheer up and move on.All the best.

ur first love? common! ur first love cannot be ur true love... wait... ur mr. right is on the way.... the sacrifies we make for love tho....

STOP CRYING OVER SPILLED MILK.... GRAB ANOTHER GLASS

Saying "move on" may be so easy to say, but I know it's not so.

Na this kind thing dey make some women go carry acid sha.

Four years gone and he is not ready to get married in d next two yrs! That's 6 yrs engagement nd yu are not sure of marriage ma dear no be you be lord of the rings

There is a song main ingredient sang 'every body plays the fool,theres no exception to the rule'.anyway,the elders have said in every dissapointment,there is a blessing.having said that,let me bring out my whip


you sef fvk up,how can you sacrifice your future,educational attainment and time on the alter of love,havent they told you time waits for no one.you had the opportunity to better your life and you blew it because of a man that is unstable,what were you thinking?if i was your parent and i found out that you blew my money because of one stewpeed love,i will not pay 5 naira for your education again.

Its quite unfortunate that those who have head dont have a cap and those who have a cap dont have head.while some ladies and guys are going through hell to hustle and pay their school fees to sposor themselves to go for masters,you wasted your future because of one 3rd leg carrier that can change his mind at any second.omashey o,this are the times i wish kanwulia was here.i know of some guys doing menial jobs,paying their school fees,one is even doing driver for one madam and earns as little as 2ok to pay his fees because his parents dont have the money to sponsor him for masters yet you have a parent who care about your future and you squandered such a golden opportunity.by the way,i thought they say any kind of relationship that does not help you to be a better person is valueless.how has the guy impacted in you,how has he supported your dream? A guy that claims he loves you will never allow you to sacrifice your masters/parents money,infact he will be the one encouraging you to go for it and spur you on.anyway, enough of that,but i am so pissed with you now because if you told me you used the money and time for buisness or a type of investment,it wont pain me but because of a male.smh

sibe sibe sha o ba ni,koyi baje.you can still pick up all the pieces of your lufe and move ahead.you have learnt your lesson.

Lesson 1.no human being is to be trusted

lesson 2.if you dont invest in yourself,no one will help you to

lesson 3.the world is a cruel,cold place.no man cares about how you feel,sacrifices or the time you have wasted if he is ready to break up with you

lesson 4.no man can love you more than yourself

lesson 5. A parents love for you is a 100 times more real,genuine and passionate than the love of a male entity

lesson 6.no man born of a woman can take away what you have invested in yourself intellectually.he can take your money,your time,your clothes,your car,he can even walk away from your life but he cannot take away whatever you have in your head

lesson 7. When a man says i love you,think again and find out whether the i love you is i love your private part or i will respect you

lesson 8.the sincereity of i love you is not proven in good times, kises,dates,sex,gifts,how many times he calls you in a day,how he complements you etc but in trying times,it is proven when he brings out the best in you and not otherwise.apparently,he has shown he doesnt love you and too bad if you have been having s3x with him all through the 4 years or have been aborting for him.he has not only eating his cake,he has digested it too as kanwulia will say

this is one of the lessons i have learnt about human beings and life summarised here and apparently might be useful for you. However,you dont have to take it

I'm sorry this happened to you. He has lost a great woman and you have lost a "lost" man. Thankfully you did not marry him. He may have abandoned you and your children. Now that you have the money back for your Masters, complete your education. Your future husband may be one of your classmates.

Smuthx: There are rebound single guys out there. You should have noticed it may not work out. Did you break up with him or he broke up with you. Can you two still be friends

alfa jona,otun bere irugbon.which guy makes friends with their ex.lol


@ op just invest in yourself to make up for all the time wasted.itd not to late to start again.moreover,when there is life there is hope

kulyie: alfa jona,otun bere irugbon.which guy makes friends with their ex.lol

madam not all guys turn their ex to their enemy,some guys still become good friend with their ex,it all depends on what led to the break-up

leavestory: madam not all guys turn their ex to their enemy,some guys still become good friend with their ex,it all depends on what led to the break-up

yeah right,fake friendship abi? With the new woman in the picture suspecting the ex's every move with her man

born_to_be_gr8t: Story of my life

Love dat song......

d story of my life i take ha home...i drive all nite to keep ha warm nd time is frooooozen....



d story of my life...i give ha hope ...i spend ha love.until shez insyd .....d story my life...........


@Op....just download d song:Story of my life by One direction