Big.game:
True talk, i couldn't agree with you more, apart from were you said it's a game. The fact that most people indulge in such shouldn't be a reason to play with someone's heart.
Basically you are saying that because people LIE, that should be the sole reason why more people should do such.
what happened to Being the Change you want to see? or Standing Out.
The guy in question, decided not to reveal the truth even till she became his fiancée, now that's just plain WICKEDNESS.
Other than that, i totally agree with what you wrote, especially the part about women 'loving you for what you are, not who you are' that's just the sad part of reality.

angiemartinez: you better do before she finds out herslf. buh sincerely must you lie to get a womans love?

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

angiemartinez: you better do before she finds out herslf. buh sincerely must you lie to get a womans love?

Tekzyflex:

Yes! Cos that is what they want.

chess guru:
maybe because most women love lies
If he had told her all these from the very beginning, would she had agreed to start dating him?
#Justsaying

ITbomb: Why r girls so easily deceived

Rejoice5000: Have u heard a word,WEAKER VESSELS

Dre19: Thanks nairalander for all useful advices,, I take the blame for my wrongs. I hope she finds a place in her heart to forgive me.. I will move on either which way.

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

awesomeme: I don't know if this advise is wrong but if I were you,I will pretend I want a space.I switch to avoiding mode asap until she will ask why am avoiding her then I can open up by teling her the truth.tell her you just realised she soo good to be with a lieing son of a bi-chm.lol..not insulting...with that you will tell her the truth and remind her you love her soo much but don't know with your confession,if she will want to still be your wife and mother of your kids..you can repropose to her this been the real you.rGod's grace

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

Chanchit: You go just fall urself hand if u tell her now, jst chill till she has no choice, like after marrying her.
Those gals like anything but the truth..

I knw a guy(carpenter) that married one fine gurl he met in a club, he flashed some cash, he told her he's a contractor. When they got to his face me I face you house, he told her that he's doing a job in lagos n needs an apartment for the main time before returning to abuja, he impregnated d gurl, they got married. The lady later found out from one imam that always mention Kareem agbegilere (kareem carpenter)during morning prayers from d mosque in front of their house the guy always denies, a neighbor later confirmed the story. The lady left in anger, but returned d following week cos she's heavily pregnant. They still leave together, whats my biz' if they are happy or not.

And to all this brainless ladies quoting me, if u have common sense, you won't fall for cheap lies. I'm out of here jor.

lertee:
That is plain wickedness and it only makes you silly and insecure. Why set trap for a woman you claim to love. When you love someone,you don't hurt them that much.

Dre19: in a day or two i will reveal to my fiancee things only me and my God knows. things like
1. i earn less than half of her salary
2. i lied to her that i am currently building a house while i still stay with my parents
3. i am a drop out from a university
4. i did dubious things in the past to earn money that i used to make her happy

Nairalanders, do you think it is wise for me to reveal all this secrets to her? do you think she will still love me for who i am?

Dre19: in a day or two i will reveal to my fiancee things only me and my God knows. things like
1. i earn less than half of her salary
2. i lied to her that i am currently building a house while i still stay with my parents
3. i am a drop out from a university
4. i did dubious things in the past to earn money that i used to make her happy

Nairalanders, do you think it is wise for me to reveal all this secrets to her? do you think she will still love me for who i am?

Dre19: in a day or two i will reveal to my fiancee things only me and my God knows. things like
1. i earn less than half of her salary
2. i lied to her that i am currently building a house while i still stay with my parents
3. i am a drop out from a university
4. i did dubious things in the past to earn money that i used to make her happy

Nairalanders, do you think it is wise for me to reveal all this secrets to her? do you think she will still love me for who i am?

vycki: Tell ha d truth ma'a f**ker...she'll as sure as hell dump ur sorry ass. U̶̲̥̅̊ r a bad dude, bt its gud U̶̲̥̅̊ r trying 2 confess

Dre19: in a day or two i will reveal to my fiancee things only me and my God knows. things like
1. i earn less than half of her salary
2. i lied to her that i am currently building a house while i still stay with my parents
3. i am a drop out from a university
4. i did dubious things in the past to earn money that i used to make her happy

Nairalanders, do you think it is wise for me to reveal all this secrets to her? DO YOU THINK SHE WILL STILL LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM?

j_omoh: Please who are you?

j_omoh: Please who are you?

obyrich: Are you the fiancee?

Yield: Where's the OP sef? He created the thread and dipped.