addictiv: I dont see any wrong in allowing your babe to go on a date with her toasters as long as you are not engaged. But from the moment she agrees to be your wife it brcomes a different ball game. If she wants to go on a date, she is free to do so. In the same vein the guy should be free to take who so ever he wants out on a date without her raising any eyebrows.....

Popowaa: This is absolute crap.Why dont u go around fucking other people even after marriage since love endures all things?Is it not the sane woman u will marry?How will u feel knwing u are marrying a lady who has been banged by other guys while u were dating and also expect her to be faithful to you when you marry?And abeg cut that crap of the biblical nonesense you quoted.Our God is a jealous thtat's why he said we should not worship any other gods apart from him.

patemy: @op I think you are very confused about how life works and I believe you are high on something while posting this thread when your eye clears come back and read your post and u would see how unreasonable you sound

Eze Promoe:
Please ma, I will repeat it again, I'M NOT SOLICITING FOR MULTIPLE SEX PARTNERS.
Read Addictiv's post above, that's what I'm talking about.

Popowaa: I refuse to agree

ogugua88: Lol kedu?

Dating comes before marriage. If I want someone to consider making me his wife, I will respect him, whether he is around or not. If he is with me, then I will give him my utmost attention and make sure we have the best time in each other's company. If we're apart, I will tell him everything about my dad, even things he doesn't want to hear, because I want him to trust me. A man proposes to a woman because he sees certain qualities in her that he'd love in his wife. "She's responsible... she's respectful... she's driven."

One does not become a husband or wife overnight. Yes, you do your traditional wedding, say your vows, yada yada yada, and you go from boyfriend/girlfriend to Mister and Missus, but do the rings on the fingers, exchanged vows, and formalities make either of them more responsible? No. "Husband" and "wife" are still titles. Maturity, self-control, and mutual respect are some things that make married couples last. They're also some of the things that made them marry in the first place.

Of course, to each his or her own. Some people are in open relationships and that works just fine. Generally, however, people oppose them, be it pre-marriage or while married, and I'm the same way.

Africa Magic: Useless post from an empty brain. I've known you on this forum as a serial e-flirt, yet instead you should be ashamed of yourself, you are busy buttressing your doggy attitude with trash talk. POINTLESS THREAD!

Africa Magic: Useless post from an empty brain. I've known you on this forum as a serial e-flirt, yet instead you should be ashamed of yourself, you are busy buttressing your doggy attitude with trash talk. POINTLESS THREAD!

Eze Promoe:
Sir, please take it easy cus of your BP.

addictiv: ^^^^ thats d problem, people are no longer ready to stick to one person. There is always backup. So in order not to be disappointed, you just have to let em do what they want cos when you place restrictions on them thats when they ll do worse without you knowing.

lynpetra: Lol.I hope you realize ur topic is very controversial,as it might promote infidelity, .Expect more bashings

I think it is more dissident than controversial. Because many tend to stick to the general view of one guy, one GF. Even if you must go on a date, it must be with your GF.
WTF

Yield: Stick with one partner at a time and end it if things aren't working out, then give yourself time to recuperate before moving onto the next.

Eze Promoe: Sexkillz and Ogugua, we will miss you two

Eze Promoe: Sexkillz and Ogugua, we will miss you two

Beync: Op you are advocating for multiple relationship or open relationships just becos u can't stand hotter girls before your gf. Well, you will lost count becos the beautiful once they say are not yet born..

Eze Promoe:
Sir, please take it easy cus of your BP.

lynpetra: Lol.I hope you realize ur topic is very controversial,as it might promote infidelity, .Expect more bashings

Africa Magic:
Don't mind the senseless mofo.

Africa Magic:
It is now official that you are a retard for spewing this gibberish. You are telling me to take it easy. Take a look at me and then yourself, who looks more prone to high BP?
I pity that unlucky woman who will knot the nuptial tie with an he-goat like you

addictiv: While i agree with yield. ...... Most of us dont get the op s. Perspective. Primarily Relationships where meant to lead to marrìage then procreation . However so many folks get into relationships for so many reasons most of which 80% involves personal interest. How many of us can sincerely say that when you started dating your current partner, it was based on pure selfless love. The type that makes you give everything just to see that person happy and without expecting anything in return. Even if the person loves you back or not,you just want to create an impact in their lives and affect them positively. If you can boast of this then i must commend you. What most of us re running now, are just trade by batter franchise where we give either our care, attention, funds, sexual gratification in exchange for someones loyalty, respect, security etc. People get into relationships for so many reasons be it emotional, financial ,spiritual, sexual reasons etc. No guy would come straight up n tell a lady that he just wants her for a bedmate n no lady would tell a guy outrightly that she is only in for the financial benefits. They would all hide under the umbrella of love. We see people who give their all in a relationship that lasts for 3 to 11 years and in the end they re left heartbroken. After all the money spent, mental n emotional stress that cant be quantified, time wasted that cant be replaced, at the end you get to have memories you wish can be wiped out. So how does one decide on the partners who share the same ideologies with em with without wasting resources on those who are not on the same page with you?.......mutiple dating comes to mind.

It's simple. If you are dating any lady and she doesn't live up to your expectation, simply call it a quit and stop holding someone's wife to ransom in false pretenses and pity