Africa Magic:
It's simple. If you are dating any lady and she doesn't live up to your expectation, simply call it a quit and stop holding someone's wife to ransom in false pretenses and pity

addictiv:
How many guys would do dat when they know they wont eventually end up with the lady....there re even cases that even when the lady knows this she ll still stay for reasons best known to her. I have heard guys who say that they cant marry thier current GF's yet they wont free the chick cos obviously she is just used for intimate gratification. Many folks re not sincere to themselves not to talk of their partners. So therefore its left to thier partners to decide on what they really want..

Personal Opinion.

larride:


I think you still don't understand yourself. There's no way you can love 2 people equally at the same time, with that being said, I guess what you are trying to say is that you wouldn't mind to see say like 3 guys banging your babe, I guess you will just grab a popcorn or join them, so if you are married and the same scenario occurred you won't feel hurt. Why should I be in a relationship then when I can have my way, when I can do whatever I want without putting into consideration my partners feelings? Relationship is all about responsibility, decency, maturity, moral values, respect and love. In a relationship you are expected to bond together into one which in most cases leads into marriage. I'm an African and I respect our culture and values.