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Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Iaz93: 7:01am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Harbosede02: Op,nt all guys are crazy,nt all guys flirt,nt all guys r dumb lyk some guys on Nl,bt "all" guys aren't perfect,infact no 1 is,so if u are luking 4 mr perfect u go old b4 u marry,if u av intrest in a guy and u see dat hez charactar/way of living isn't making u comfortable,try getting close 2 im 2 knw wat abt brought abt it,i knw dat in one way or d other u can change 1 or 2 tinz u don't lyk abt im.and dat wud make im ur own mr perfect! |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:02am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Harbosede02: Op,nt all guys are crazy,nt all guys flirt,nt all guys r dumb lyk some guys on Nl,bt "all" guys aren't perfect,infact no 1 is,so if u are luking 4 mr perfect u go old b4 u marry,if u av intrest in a guy and u see dat hez charactar/way of living isn't making u comfortable,try getting close 2 im 2 knw wat abt brought abt it,i knw dat in one way or d other u can change 1 or 2 tinz u don't lyk abt im.and dat wud make im ur own mr perfect! I didn't know you can be this articulate.. most of your post used to be jabs and jokes.. well I'm impressed.. to the topic, to add to what my lady Harbosede said.. op.. find your man.. no matter how unrefined and crude he is.. no matter how flirty he is and tame him. mould him into the man you want him to be and you'll be happy you did.. Nobody is perfect |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:04am On Dec 08, 2013 |
This is so weird!! So a man that doesnt sleep around and fears God is a perfect human being? Haba, coming from a woman even makes it worse. I accept that all human's have flaws, but asking for those 2 things means I am asking for too much? Dude.... our generation is doomed! 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:06am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette: and you interpreted "see" as se.x I presume.. you need to get out of your head.. you're thinking Too much.. spontaneity is the key |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by GentleMimi: 7:06am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Okikiade: Looking for readymade 'll surely bank them out of world 'Toks'!LazinessNa wa oooo! The babe stated what she wanted,na sin? When una wan marry,una go dey find humble,caring,hardworking,faithful bla bla bla wife! Now she simply wants a ''God fearing'' man,una just dey attack.Even someone went as far as being insultive. Choi! E don pepper for body ooo. Mbok,leave the babe joor! Her God will grant her heart desire. We all get what we deserve.Na the bad guys dey find faithful wives.Why dem no marry the ashys wey dem dey bleep? Hipocritic bunch! 5 Likes |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Nobody: 7:07am On Dec 08, 2013 |
OP; all ur post up they; shows how's very young n Naïve u re; when u get older n 'ripe' U'll understand!!! There re many things in life; U shouldn't strive to pass a message across; U just allow time n exposure do the work 4dem! U re an apt candidate 4 dat. *kipish* |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:07am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette: and condom is real too 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:10am On Dec 08, 2013 |
GentleMimi: Thanks a million. I thought I was the only one that thought that way. The whole world has turned upside down that the bad is now mainstay in our culture. Imagine... one of them told me to change a person like they can do the same thing. These same ashawo men are the ones that will be looking for ready-made virgins when they want to marry after they have finished deflowering their whole village. Nonsense! 2 Likes |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by ITbomb(m): 7:10am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Look me in the eye n tell me the truth A calm Godfearing man and a caring, celebrity man , which do u want |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by GentleMimi: 7:12am On Dec 08, 2013 |
obayaya:Whaaaaaaaat? Mould wetin? Have u been to marriage counselling? They will tell u NEVER to assume u can reform ur spouse! Never! If there are traits in the individual u cannot cope wif,simply find ur way! But if u feel u can deal wif such,then remain in the relationship and ''work'' towards ''reforming'' ur spouse with the help of God's wisdom. It is left for us to put our faith in God.But an unfaithful and violent man is one i cannot deal wif. If i see a hint of such in him,i'm out.No time for reformation oooo! 3 Likes |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:13am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette: This is so weird!! So a man that doesnt sleep around and fears God is a perfect human being? Haba, coming from a woman even makes it worse. I accept that all human's have flaws, but asking for those 2 things means I am asking for too much? there are men who don't sleep around.. a lot Of them... and I'm sure when you were still into "ashawo" Men you pushed a lot of these "guys that don't sleep around to the friendzone" go look for them and hope they haven't changed.. cos pushing these good guys to the friendzone end up changing them. and I'm sure most guys have been there once or twice. that it's difficult to find guys who don't sleep around is actually adaptation or rather "evolution" if you wish |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:14am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Raymondenyi: OP; all ur post up they; shows how's very young n Naïve u re; when u get older n 'ripe' U'll understand!!!Puhleeaassseeee. I am not naive. I know what I want and I am not going to go below my standards. There are men out there who fit my requirement and I am going to find them. Maybe when you marry, you will get a chick that has been sampled by many, since I have to make do and get with a guy like that. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:16am On Dec 08, 2013 |
obayaya:You know the funny thing is that I have only had one real boyfriend and he was just what I wanted. We broke up because of other reasons. I am just saying that if a guy meets my criteria and we are attracted to each other, GAME ON! If not stand in the corner. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:18am On Dec 08, 2013 |
GentleMimi: well, in as much as you can't change those independent variables of a person like temperament, you can actually influence the dependent variables like "being God fearing". it all boils down to attitude.. or do you sincerely believe guys are incapable of being faithful? |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:18am On Dec 08, 2013 |
ITbomb: Look me in the eye n tell me the truthlol, what do you mean by celebrity man? Is that what they call ashawo men these days? nawa o. I will take the God fearing man anyday. I like myself and my health too much for all the wahala and diseases ashawo men carry these days |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:21am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette: Good.. but then, you've gotta be a Lil flexible.. there's always a chance you'd find someone close but not exactly.. |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by jmoore(m): 7:22am On Dec 08, 2013 |
You can't tame a wandering di**. The lady knows what she wants, she is not looking for Mr Perfect. She wants a man who is chaste which is possible. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:22am On Dec 08, 2013 |
obayaya:Let me ask you a question. Can you get with a chick that is super beautiful and sexy and is everything you want except that she has been sampled by everyone you know? |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:23am On Dec 08, 2013 |
jmoore: You can't tame a wandering di**.Good to know. Im not looking to do that anyway. |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by GentleMimi: 7:25am On Dec 08, 2013 |
obayaya:I believe some are capable of being faithful....but they are sooooo rare! Its like,if a guy is a player,he gets more respect and recognition from his friends.But a gentle and faithful guy is often made mockery of by his friends...na those ones them dey call ''mugu''...abi na lie? I have seen it happen! |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:27am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette: well.. it depends.. I believe the ppl you regard as gentlemen are ppl whose past has not been explored.. we all have a past.. some which are ugly.. if this girl can let her past become past and is ready to thread a new path.. why not? |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by GentleMimi: 7:27am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette:Eeeerrrrrm sweerie,trust me,the answer from most guys will be yes oooo.They no send on this matter,so far sey the babe show green light and she ''set'' wella. |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:29am On Dec 08, 2013 |
GentleMimi: lol.. that's the erroneous assumption.. the pessimism all guys are capable of being faithful.. I repeat all guys.. and women hold the key |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:30am On Dec 08, 2013 |
GentleMimi:Lol, maybe I should have reworded the question to be like can they 'marry' that type of woman.. Thats where you will see these hypocritical men say noo, blahblahblah... |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obayaya(m): 7:31am On Dec 08, 2013 |
GentleMimi: lmao.. you have one warped belief about guys.. wetin they do you? |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Nobody: 7:31am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette: I can't date a man that has been sleeping around with different women. I want a God fearing man whose main concern while dating me is my character and love of the word of God, not what's between my legs. Any man that has been with more than one woman is already way too much, talkless of those that sleep with different women all the time and think it is normal. What is the difference between him and an ashawo? Lols..ur hate dsnt change nothn..jst mind ur bizness aight |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:32am On Dec 08, 2013 |
obayaya:LMAO! See answer. Anyway kudos to you for doubling down and not being a hypocrite. But deep down you know that type of ish wont go down well with you. If you want to be a hero, go ahead. Me...... nahh!!! |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Okikiade(m): 7:32am On Dec 08, 2013 |
All of una ladies, na razor blade whey dey your lips go make you find your so-called Mr. Perfect or perve*t! Elenu bi pon pon... Well I'm going to church to ask for the forgiveness of my sins! |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by obyrich(m): 7:34am On Dec 08, 2013 |
What's your definition of God-fearing? There is something whorish about your display pix though you exude appreciable intelligence in your posts. Sometimes good girls, in a bid to look trendy, inadvertently project unpalatable images of themselves thereby attracting unfaithful guys who mess them up and they end up concluding that ALL men are WICKED. There are millions of faithful guys all over the place. You can only attract your kind. My take! 5 Likes |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:35am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Okikiade: All of una ladies, na razor blade whey dey your lips go make you find your so-called Mr. Perfect or perve*t! Elenu bi pon pon... Well I'm going to church to ask for the forgiveness of my sins!Please visit a gynaecologist too on your way back from church. I am concerned about your sexual health too. |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by mascot87(m): 7:35am On Dec 08, 2013 |
Guidette:You are still very naive, let me tell you this real fact:You will only know the real man you married in your marriage so don't be deceived by the holy and Mr right attitude you see in him before you marry him 1 Like |
Re: I Hate Men Who Sleep Around Anyhow by Guidette(f): 7:37am On Dec 08, 2013 |
obyrich: What's your definition of God-fearing? There is something whorish about your display pix though you exude appreciable intelligence in your posts. Sometimes good girls, in a bid to look trendy, inadvertently project unpalatable images of themselves thereby attracting unfaithful guys who mess them up and they end up concluding that ALL men are WICKED. There are millions of faithful guys all over the place. You can only attract your kind. My take!Dude... relax! Its just a picture. I attract who I attract but I think it is all up to me to weed out the bad eggs from the good ones. I just voiced my opinions on guys sleeping around and I have gotten personal attacks. Haba! Is it a crime to want a good guy? |
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