Harbosede02: Op,nt all guys are crazy,nt all guys flirt,nt all guys r dumb lyk some guys on Nl,bt "all" guys aren't perfect,infact no 1 is,so if u are luking 4 mr perfect u go old b4 u marry,if u av intrest in a guy and u see dat hez charactar/way of living isn't making u comfortable,try getting close 2 im 2 knw wat abt brought abt it,i knw dat in one way or d other u can change 1 or 2 tinz u don't lyk abt im.and dat wud make im ur own mr perfect!

Harbosede02: Op,nt all guys are crazy,nt all guys flirt,nt all guys r dumb lyk some guys on Nl,bt "all" guys aren't perfect,infact no 1 is,so if u are luking 4 mr perfect u go old b4 u marry,if u av intrest in a guy and u see dat hez charactar/way of living isn't making u comfortable,try getting close 2 im 2 knw wat abt brought abt it,i knw dat in one way or d other u can change 1 or 2 tinz u don't lyk abt im.and dat wud make im ur own mr perfect!

Guidette:
Not true. I like calm guys who respect themselves and other people. Just this weekend, I was talking to a guy I thought was a good candidate to be my next bf and then he text me this rubbish: When am I going to 'see' you?
Imagine! I am done with ashawo men!

Okikiade: Looking for readymade 'll surely bank them out of world 'Toks'!Laziness

Guidette:
smh AIDS is real...

GentleMimi:
Na wa oooo! The babe stated what she wanted,na sin? When una wan marry,una go dey find humble,caring,hardworking,faithful bla bla bla wife! Now she simply wants a ''God fearing'' man,una just dey attack.Even someone went as far as being insultive. Choi! E don pepper for body ooo.
Mbok,leave the babe joor! Her God will grant her heart desire.
We all get what we deserve.Na the bad guys dey find faithful wives.Why dem no marry the ashys wey dem dey bleep?
Hipocritic bunch!

obayaya:

I didn't know you can be this articulate.. most of your post used to be jabs and jokes.. well I'm impressed..

to the topic,

to add to what my lady Harbosede said.. op.. find your man.. no matter how unrefined and crude he is.. no matter how flirty he is and tame him. mould him into the man you want him to be and you'll be happy you did..

Nobody is perfect

Guidette: This is so weird!! So a man that doesnt sleep around and fears God is a perfect human being? Haba, coming from a woman even makes it worse. I accept that all human's have flaws, but asking for those 2 things means I am asking for too much?
Dude.... our generation is doomed!

Raymondenyi: OP; all ur post up they; shows how's very young n Naïve u re; when u get older n 'ripe' U'll understand!!!

There re many things in life; U shouldn't strive to pass a message across; U just allow time n exposure do the work 4dem! U re an apt candidate 4 dat.


*kipish*

obayaya:

there are men who don't sleep around.. a lot Of them... and I'm sure when you were still into "ashawo" Men you pushed a lot of these "guys that don't sleep around to the friendzone"

go look for them and hope they haven't changed..

cos pushing these good guys to the friendzone end up changing them. and I'm sure most guys have been there once or twice.

that it's difficult to find guys who don't sleep around is actually adaptation or rather "evolution" if you wish

GentleMimi:
Whaaaaaaaat? Mould wetin? Have u been to marriage counselling? They will tell u NEVER to assume u can reform ur spouse! Never! If there are traits in the individual u cannot cope wif,simply find ur way! But if u feel u can deal wif such,then remain in the relationship and ''work'' towards ''reforming'' ur spouse with the help of God's wisdom.
It is left for us to put our faith in God.But an unfaithful and violent man is one i cannot deal wif. If i see a hint of such in him,i'm out.No time for reformation oooo!

ITbomb: Look me in the eye n tell me the truth
A calm Godfearing man and a caring, celebrity man , which do u want

Guidette:
You know the funny thing is that I have only had one real boyfriend and he was just what I wanted. We broke up because of other reasons. I am just saying that if a guy meets my criteria and we are attracted to each other, GAME ON! If not stand in the corner.

obayaya:

Good.. but then, you've gotta be a Lil flexible.. there's always a chance you'd find someone close but not exactly..

jmoore: You can't tame a wandering di**.

obayaya:

well, in as much as you can't change those independent variables of a person like temperament, you can actually influence the dependent variables like "being God fearing".

it all boils down to attitude.. or do you sincerely believe guys are incapable of being faithful?

Guidette:
Let me ask you a question. Can you get with a chick that is super beautiful and sexy and is everything you want except that she has been sampled by everyone you know?

Guidette:
Let me ask you a question. Can you get with a chick that is super beautiful and sexy and is everything you want except that she has been sampled by everyone you know?

GentleMimi:
I believe some are capable of being faithful....but they are sooooo rare! Its like,if a guy is a player,he gets more respect and recognition from his friends.But a gentle and faithful guy is often made mockery of by his friends...na those ones them dey call ''mugu''...abi na lie? I have seen it happen!

GentleMimi:
Eeeerrrrrm sweerie,trust me,the answer from most guys will be yes oooo.They no send on this matter,so far sey the babe show green light and she ''set'' wella.

GentleMimi:
Eeeerrrrrm sweerie,trust me,the answer from most guys will be yes oooo.They no send on this matter,so far sey the babe show green light and she ''set'' wella.

Guidette: I can't date a man that has been sleeping around with different women. I want a God fearing man whose main concern while dating me is my character and love of the word of God, not what's between my legs. Any man that has been with more than one woman is already way too much, talkless of those that sleep with different women all the time and think it is normal. What is the difference between him and an ashawo?

P.S.
Dont bring that whole men are key and women are lock nonsense around here. That is still an ashawo key + AIDS is real.

obayaya:

well.. it depends.. I believe the ppl you regard as gentlemen are ppl whose past has not been explored..

we all have a past.. some which are ugly..

if this girl can let her past become past and is ready to thread a new path.. why not?

Okikiade: All of una ladies, na razor blade whey dey your lips go make you find your so-called Mr. Perfect or perve*t! Elenu bi pon pon... Well I'm going to church to ask for the forgiveness of my sins!

Guidette:
Puhleeaassseeee. I am not naive. I know what I want and I am not going to go below my standards. There are men out there who fit my requirement and I am going to find them.
Maybe when you marry, you will get a chick that has been sampled by many, since I have to make do and get with a guy like that.

obyrich: What's your definition of God-fearing? There is something whorish about your display pix though you exude appreciable intelligence in your posts. Sometimes good girls, in a bid to look trendy, inadvertently project unpalatable images of themselves thereby attracting unfaithful guys who mess them up and they end up concluding that ALL men are WICKED. There are millions of faithful guys all over the place. You can only attract your kind. My take!