drnoel:

in this time and age. Who wants to marry a virgin? That stuff is too overated and most people have left that buss behinde.

Godmother: For a marriage to work it takes two. Its not just the woman bringing to the table. When just one person does that union is bound to have hitches. They both need to be. Need to bring trust, love and forgiveness to the table

mcocolok:

FOOLISH ODES

Mondisweets: Ladies u heard that? The best gift u can give lies between your legs

yomifowe: People use to say 'the stomach is the way to a man's heart'. Is this still true today? Or is there another way to a man's heart? Maybe the bed has taken over from the stomach. Abi?

yomifowe: In my opinion, the best gift a man or especially woman can give to her husband is...






Her Virginity.

If you do this, he would forever love you for this and the likelihood of breaking up with you would be very slim.

Secondly, this would help build a strong foundation of trust in the marriage.

I hope the man will always give her his virginity too so she can trust him forever, till death do them part. Let me no hiss shaa

This is my N5.

thehunted: Nigerian women have been giving the men all that (respect,faithfulness etc) and they still cheat. Then why do these men still cheat? Ladies,preserve your body for your husbands. If u give him over squeezed b00bs, over attacked punan1e he will look elsewhere for a fresher pu$$.y. Don't give the best to your boyfriends and reserve the crumbs for the man you will spend your life with.

yomifowe: Meeting a lady as a V means that she is decent and a lot of men would do anything for such a woman.

yomifowe: Is there anyone here who would say he prefers a second hand vehicle to a brand new car? Is there any of you here that would be happy if your 16 yr old sister comes home and you discovered that she just got laid by her 'boyfriend'?. Pls lets be honest with ourselves, the fact that our society has thrown morals to the wind does not mean that it is wrong. Even the dictionary defines Fornication as sex between individuals that are not married. Lets call a spade exactly what it is A SPADE.


The best gift a woman can give to her husband on their wedding night is still her V.

If you still disagree, can you marry a pro? If you say yes, its OK by me (you are one in a million then), but if you say no, then how can you tell how many men your woman have slept with, or the assurance that she would not cheat on you again?


My precious N5

Nwanneamakah:

@OP... Nobody is saying keeping one's virginity is a bad thing...as a matter of fact, it's a thing of pride..
Guys are "fortunate" cos one can't really tell about them...But, wat about those decent women/ladies that got molested? Does that make them indecent? Does it mean men should see them any differently? One shouldn't be quick to judge others, cos you can never know what he/she has been through.
Like diamond002 said, "wat if she is ά̲̣̥ V and has ά̲̣̥ terrible attitude?"
Wat of virgins that fight and are very saucy and disrespectful, even to your family members and friends? Would you still go ahead and marry such a person because she is "brand new"?

I believe what counts is who the person is on the inside, not his/her physical attributes. If you spend time with someone, you get to know who he/she really is.

I dunno sha...guess err1 has what he/she considers "a priority" in a mate.

re@lchange:


omo i'm not whining o
i'm just warning virgimaniacs like you out there to think twice because it is overrated
and i'm talking from experience
and for you to think that i did not try everything possible to make her melt into one body with me is laughable
the way i see marriage is that white and black come together to form grey; they are no longer white or black but grey!
you gerrit?
i personally think that some women use their prior virginity to justify other inadequacies - marriage is about melting into one body
you won't understand because you are probably a virgin-hog!
life is much more than puccy please!

yomifowe:

Victims of rape, molestation? well, that's another part to it. I get your point now. Thank you

Nwanneamakah:

Doesn't her character/attitude count?


A forgiving spirit, deep respect, and understanding are what i believe count. Come to think of it, I know a couple of people who got married virgins but are now divorced...and also know some people who have been straffing all their lives, but eventually got married and are still happily married till date. A happy/successful marriage is a union of two good forgivers.
WRT the best gift to give, I feel the price isn't what matters most, but, the immediate need of your spouse and the motive/spirit behind 'the giving'. A gift is best appreciated when it comes in handy

ishaba blessing: Wetin dat Dan dey talk abt obudu mountain??mtchew..make u no face reality u hear,,,no carry ur wife go dey live there sef,so dat d marriage go last

re@lchange:


now that i see that you are a girl, i think i should change my tone with you
please girl, it is good to be a virgin in this day and age because of many diseases out there
so if you are one, please stay one
BUT don't use it as a sledge hammer over your marriage
the man needs much more than virginity from you
he needs your mind and understanding
above all, he needs your commitment for life
a man needs to know that you are with him no matter what
that is called loyalty, and is worth more than any virginity.
find out what your man wants and give it to him and stay with him for life
the rest will fall into place!