Toks2008:

And this low life lady will marry one guy tomorrow. CHAI! If only i can do without a woman.

adorable29: Wooow! What is this world turning to! You sell your conscience, your moral, your dignity, your personality and your soul, your destiny (especially if na juju woman d wife be).....just for stupid fun.....not even good cash sef! Tell her say her case dey God court!
M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣ dear, some single girls can be funny. Early dis month their was dis particular girl always calling M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣ hubby almost every min, 2 d extent I went thru his phone unknown 2 him, 2 M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣ surprise i saw her txt where she sent him credit..hmmm, I called d girl n she startin forming there Iƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇ nothing btw them and I had 2 curse her dat she wil be dealt with in her marriage by oda ladies if she's having an affair with M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣ hubby, before u. knw it she started pleadin with me dat I shld forgive her and reverse what I said

I won't be suprised if this babe is a serious church girl O.... Some Winners and Christ Embassy girls come to mind! I see them all around. Its now a trend. Karma is a biaaatch! Una turn dey come and e go be double portion. Causing heartbreak to a family just 4 fun! Mscheeeew.

Oxone: I think its the unavailability of the guy that makes him more appealing than most. Everybody wants something somebody has already got.

The exclusivity increases the appeal. Ever wonder why "limited edition" items are always more expensive and sells out more than the normal edition of same item even though nothing is different?

I remember back when i use to wear a wedding ring just for the fun of it. Ladies for me then were a dime a dozen! one day 2 beautiful classy ladies walked up to me in a shopping mall and gave me their numbers. They were fascinated that a young guy like me was married and flaunting it too. That was the day most of my single friends got themselves wedding rings

That period taught me a very valuable lesson and that's why I'll never tell a girl I'm interested in that single . its always "I'm in a very serious relationship I'm not willing to end". That gets them every time because they don't expect it. makes me wonder though

Pro01: Mostly for the money. The truth is that girls would never admit that they're doing a guy - married or single - for the money. It makes them look like the prostitutes that they really are. That's why they would manufacture nonsensical reasons like "maturity" or "adventure" as supposed justifications for fvcking married men. Na big lie.

From my vast experience, married men in Nigeria tend to be more generous to women. It's married men that foot the high bills of most chicks in town - the house rents, expensive smart phones, Brazilian hair B.S., cars (in some cases), school fees, maintenance money, money for business, travelling expenses, etc.

Young, unmarried guys like us generally give stipends. . .the random N10k here, N15k there, or even N5k or less from time to time. All the N100k upwards kind of money that girls use to package themselves wella are often sourced from married men. Na married men dey spoil market for guys in this country.

On the other hand, there are single girls in a certain age bracket that can only attract married men, and so they really have no choice than to date married men. Single 'girls' in their thirties would hardly be appealing to their unmarried agemates who would prefer younger, fresher chicks. Mostly 40something and 50something year-old married men would be attracted to those kinds of agbaya spinsters.

Ayo84: Ladies love experience , married men have lots of experience in the art of love making , so I guess, that's another reason.

crackhaus:
@bolded, our mentality is totally different from a woman's. A man can have a sexxual relationship with a 50yr old woman if she's still sexually attractive and really hot in bed, not because of money but just because of the sex...that's how we are.

This is not how a normal girl's mind works, the intelligent ones always try to weigh the benefits of a sexxual relationship; is she doing it for love, cash, emotional support, long term/short term benefits, mere attraction, or a sense of fulfillment.
This is what I meant, and I perfectly understood why you were asking.

adorable29: Wooow! What is this world turning to! You sell your conscience, your moral, your dignity, your personality and your soul, your destiny (especially if na juju woman d wife be).....just for stupid fun.....not even good cash sef! Tell her say her case dey God court!

I won't be suprised if this babe is a serious church girl O.... Some Winners and Christ Embassy girls come to mind! I see them all around. Its now a trend. Karma is a biaaatch! Una turn dey come and e go be double portion. Causing heartbreak to a family just 4 fun! Mscheeeew.

Oxone: I think its the unavailability of the guy that makes him more appealing than most. Everybody wants something somebody has already got.

The exclusivity increases the appeal. Ever wonder why "limited edition" items are always more expensive and sells out more than the normal edition of same item even though nothing is different?

I remember back when i use to wear a wedding ring just for the fun of it. Ladies for me then were a dime a dozen! one day 2 beautiful classy ladies walked up to me in a shopping mall and gave me their numbers. They were fascinated that a young guy like me was married and flaunting it too. That was the day most of my single friends got themselves wedding rings

That period taught me a very valuable lesson and that's why I'll never tell a girl I'm interested in that single . its always "I'm in a very serious relationship I'm not willing to end". That gets them every time because they don't expect it. makes me wonder though

claireshan: Well its not ryt at all to dste married men,

claireshan: u are bringing course upon urself,,reasons cos one day u will defnitely get married nd sumone else will do day to u,nd dnt dnt get jealous abt it cos dats wats u asked for,,,t

claireshan: ,though sum single guys of dis day dnt take up dis responsibilities as d bf,,bt its gud to be independent cos if u are u wunt give a Bleep abt dat

lynpetra: There is something she isn't telling you.Nobody dates a married man for nothing.

Cogent:

See lie first

adorable29:

Do you know that other unbecoming behaviors such as armed robbery and prostitution are carried out mostly because this people are hopeless (not all but most) and have to survive (not an excuse tho)! It will take serious persuasion skills in form of preaching to make them ammend their ways cos its survival instinct for them. They may hav been somewhat pushed to the wall!

But what PUSHES our girls most of the time? NOTHING! They are well fed, clothed, etc. Its just fun to sleep wit another woman's husband and breakup families. So its much easier to preach to us ladies and make us mend our ways especially as we are easier to "coerce" into doing the right thing.


But is that the case? Let for once our big General Overseers dedicate a one week long church program titled "Girls, Repent. Don't wreck families" and replace with, "You must possess your possessions" or "Grace to Riches"!!! I bet You there ll be a massive decline in this phenomenon. Loolz.

But actually though, maybe I should have just used the term "new generation churches" and shouldn't hav mentioned names and am sorry about that but that doesn't take away the reality!

Anyway, back to topic. Just had to say my mind. Cheers

phiszo: The only VALID reason girls date married men is MONEY. The only VALID reason married men date young girls is SEX.

fubbyy: i've known many girls for dating marreied men and i used to think they do that just because of the money till a female friend of mine now dating a married man that i know well,i was actually the one that connected the runs(GOD forgive me )the guy works for my dad and he saw the girl with me,he asked if she's my gf i told him she's just a friend,he asked me to connect him which i agreed

i taught the girl would runaway if i told her he's married which he pleaded i should not let her know but i did,to my greatest surprise this girls became intereseted hearing he's married

they are now kicking it,chick sneaks in whenever the wife is not around,when the wife is around they have it else where even at the office,

i know this guy's financial status ,i know he has nothing to offer financially,after the one they had yesterday,i confronted the guy that he should quit because he has a wife and a kid to take care of,he said he has never spent a kobo on the chick infact the girl bought him the shirt he was wearing at the moment,i was surprised

this morning the chick came to collect my charger and i jokinly brought up the matter about she and the guy and she opened up to me why most girls date married men

she said most girls including her use money as an excuse to fuckkk married men when they know they are lying,she said girls date married men because they are married,because they are not available,she said with the knowledge that the man is married makes it more fun,a stolen meat is sweeter than your righful meat she said,she said nothing special about the guy except that he's married,she said she wouldn't have agreed to the guy if he is single
the chick talk plenty things about how girls are praying for married men to come

to all the married men and girls that date married men,is she saying the truth? are you girls doing it for fun or what?

lynpetra: There is something she isn't telling you.Nobody dates a married man for nothing.

Cogent:

True talk ojare my brother.

The yeye married men on this thread want to lie to themselves that it is because young girls find them attractive lwkmd