is it just me or other men out there are also adversed to the idea of settling down with 1(one) woman?

Lmao!!!

keep it single for life then,

am a recent graduate, and my galfriend has already started putting pressure on me,asking me questions like: "what is the future of this relationship?" "are u serious with me"? i love her but ,

@poster

marriage no be by force naw!

getting cold feet at the thoughts of marriage

play the feild till you are satisfied then pick a girl and have kids, period.

truth2:

am a recent graduate, and my galfriend has already started putting pressure on me,asking me questions like: "what is the future of this relationship?" "are u serious with me"? i love her but ,

U love her but what. . . . .

It seems u don't really know what u want. . .
If she pressures u, tell her to slow down cos u belong to her.

so OP, why did you make a big emphasis to being married to (one) chic? are you looking to marry multiple wives? is that why you are apprehensive?

Hannibal:

You love her but what. . . . .

It seems u don't really know what u want. . .
If she pressures u, tell her to slow down because u belong to her.

How can she know without commitment?

rubi:

How can she know without commitment?

There are other ways of showing commitment than tossing a ring to every woman a guy meets.
Pressure only sends the wrong signals that she is DESPERATE.
Men don't like that(at all)!

Hannibal:

There are other ways of showing commitment than tossing a ring to every woman a guy meets.
Pressure only sends the wrong signals that she is DESPERATE.
Men don't like that(at all)!

Tossing a ring is the only language a woman understand you know anything can happen anytime and it becomes "to your tent oh Isreal" [b][/b] who is the looser the woman because years has been wasted. most men give women false impression standing at the door go in no come out no

rubi:

Tossing a ring is the only language a woman understand you know anything can happen anytime and it becomes [b]"to your tent oh Isreal"
who is the looser the woman because years has been wasted. most men give women false impression standing at the door go in no come out no

No wonder many women are left stranded in the Church on their wedding days.
Now i know why men do such stuffs. . . . . Thanx for telling me a woman only understands the ring language. . . .
Tiffanys should be expecting me next week.

Hannibal:

No wonder many women are left stranded in the Church on their wedding days.
Now i know why men do such stuffs. . . . . Thanx for telling me a woman only understands the ring language. . . .
Tiffanys should be expecting me next week.

If you are in this womans shoe what will you do?

rubi:

If you are in this womans shoe what will you do?

I will try and make maself better for ma boy/f.
Do the things he likes seeing and leave the rest to the Almighty.
I still cannot understand why some women cannot read their men.
Men are so easy to decipher. . . . .

Hannibal:

I will try and make maself better for ma boy/f.
Do the things he likes seeing and leave the rest to the Almighty.
I still cannot understand why some women cannot read their men.
Men are so easy to decipher. . . . .

You are lying like a rug. do you actually think all this you just said really works?

onyinye2:

You are lying like a rug. do you actually think all this you just said really works?

You can say that again

"ring tossing",c'mon,marriage is more than dat,a woman should know dat @ the rite time a man will propose,sending signals and issuing threats will only increase the pressure

truth2:

"ring tossing",c'mon,marriage is more than that,a woman should know that @ the rite time a man will propose,sending signals and issuing threats will only increase the pressure

So what  do you say to the chic who's has been with her man for 6 years? Don't you think that the girl should at least be sending some signals about marriage?

Hannibal:

I will try and make maself better for ma boy/f.
Do the things he likes seeing and leave the rest to the Almighty.
I still cannot understand why some women cannot read their men.
Men are so easy to decipher. . . . .

Personally I don't believe in bothering a man for marriage but men play games too much

rubi:

Personally I don't believe in bothering a man for marriage[b] but men play games too much [/b]

so true.

onyinye2:

You are lying like a rug. do you actually think all this you just said really works?

Lying?? U sometimes take the piss.
A man that's meant for u will always be for u. . . .U don't need any strategy or pressure to make him walk the aisle with you.
So why stress urself. . . . .Do ur best, let God handle the rest.

rubi:

Personally I don't believe in bothering a man for marriage but men play games too much

Women play games too.

truth2:

"ring tossing",c'mon,marriage is more than that,a woman should know that @ the rite time a man will propose,sending signals and issuing threats will only increase the pressure

If you love her you will not see it as a threat rather you tell her you are not ready or you can marry and decide not to have knids till when you are ready for that if you guys are have been leaving together for like five years then what stops you from doing little marriage rights

Hannibal:

Women play games too.

But in this case she is the one that wants the guy I don't think she is playing any game

If you are afraid of marriage,it might mean you are not ready to settle down.Best let your girl know so she won't be wasting her time with you if marriage is her goal.

lechatte:

If you are afraid of marriage,it might mean you are not ready to settle down.Best let your girl know so she won't be wasting her time with you if marriage is her goal.

thats true, instead of giving false impression

@ Poster

Dont worry my brother, chicks have the tendency to start panicking as soon as they are approaching 25.
She is trying to trap you.
Just keep posting her for as long as it takes you to be ready to make a decision. Youu just graduated, the world is yours for the taking.
Dont commit to her o!! lest she get all pshchopatic on your ass when you finally dump her for a much hotter and younger chick.
You might think you are in ove now, but just wait till you see what on the outside.


Your fear is well placed, If she asks you bout the future of the relationship again, just tell her to wait till tomorrow and see.

rubi:

But in this case she is the one that wants the guy I don't think she is playing any game

She wants a fresh graduate to commit??
Why can't women be realistic for once. . . .This dude is still trying to find his feet.
Let him get a job first. . . .lay a solid foundation before u begin to drill his head with marriage thunks.

lechatte:

If you are afraid of marriage,it might mean you are not ready to settle down.Best let your girl know so she won't be wasting her time with you if marriage is her goal.

True but the guy should atleast be up front with the woman. Tell her he aint ready to be married to her yet. It is better that way then having the woman's hopes up thinking that you are about to marry her.

Hannibal:

She wants a fresh graduate to commit??
Why can't women be realistic for once. . . .This dude is still trying to find his feet.
Let him get a job first. . . .lay a solid foundation before u begin to drill his head with marriage thunks.

what is a fresh graduate looking for in a lady that is ready for marriage just bang and say goodbye

Hannibal:

She wants a fresh graduate to commit??
Why can't women be realistic for once. . . .This dude is still trying to find his feet.
Let him get a job first. . . .lay a solid foundation before u begin to drill his head with marriage thunks.

Roflmao, gosh you are a joker to behold, my goodness

rubi:

what is a fresh graduate looking for in a lady that is ready for marriage just bang and say goodbye

My dayz. . . . . .Did u really say that??

God forbid, if this guy misplaces his priority and puts the babe in the family way, women would be complaining that she was made to suffer.
Everything should be planned out . . . . U would be surprised that the babe in question is still an undergraduate.
I don't know why most of em are in a hurry these days.
U meet a babe and within a month, she is showing u the kinda wedding dress she wants.

@poster
you thinking of settling wiv 2 women then?