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Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by blackbeau1(f): 5:10pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
The truth of the issue is nice girls and bad girls get dumped.life is a lot more difficult to understand 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:12pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Vivly: Nice is boring, normal, monotonous.You too? I'm nice but I'm the opposite of those things you mentioned. |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by dejibimbo(m): 5:14pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Everybody just dey give FACTS...one even said, 'it will be an honor to hav talked to me directly, i'm that enlightened' *paraphrased*..... Now this is the deal: *based on reasonable assumptions* we dont know the line between nice and crazy(dats one)...so we stick to the extremes(assuming it actuali obtains in the real world, with the nice gal not having a crazy trait, vise versa).....follow me closely....we now hav the 'nice' type of girls and and their 'crazy' counterpart, Right?.....NOW this is where the wahala lies, there are many variables that contributes to a girl becoming nice or becoming otherwise....culture is there, beliefs...etc. Now I want to assume the variable to be up to 50, (it definately is more than that) now combine this with 1BILLION(say) MARRY-ABLE and DATE-ABLE girls from all over the world...my mathematician friend should do dat combination for me, it should be in the order of trillions, and more....do u still want to state FACTS....u think you know? A fault in just one variable could make a nice gal have the best marriage, a fault in just one variable could also make a 'crazy' gal have the nicest guy 4 husband.... . . . My point summarized is this: 'you dont know, and u will never know Why the nicest girls gets dumped', oh u think its quite obvious? ...i date a very nice gal, and am not even looking to replace her, even planning to get settle with her, oya tell me why am doing that....i be abnormal guy abi? Note: my nice gal is not boring, not monotonous, more adventurous than i am...*i know being adventurous is relative* 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:15pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
THE SO CALLED NICE GIRLS R REALLY FULL OF SHITE NIGGAS PROBABLY SAW THRU THEIR SMOKESCREEN THEN RAN THE HECK AWAY B4 THEY LED HIM 2 AN EARLY GRAVE 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:17pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Vivly: Nice is boring, normal, monotonous.give this girl a medal! |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Edoblakky(m): 5:17pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Well I don't know what the OP mean by nice ladies getting dumped. My wife is so nice that I married her. Only a foolish guy dumps a nice lady. Ladies, just be nice and be yourself the right guy will come! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by oraclefemi(m): 5:18pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Sagamite: And that is how you knock her out !! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sunbellar: 5:22pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Edoblakky: Well I don't know what the OP mean by nice ladies getting dumped. My wife is so nice that I married her. Only a foolish guy dumps a nice lady. Ladies, just be nice and be yourself the right guy will come!I think you said it all. No man goes for what isn't nice. Every guy prays to marry a nice lady. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Edoblakky: Well I don't know what the OP mean by nice ladies getting dumped. My wife is so nice that I married her. Only a foolish guy dumps a nice lady. Ladies, just be nice and be yourself the right guy will come! Thank You 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Vivly(f): 5:23pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Baybe: You too? I'm nice but I'm the opposite of those things you mentioned.Lolz. You think? Are you unpredictable, spontaneous, crazy in cool way, weird? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
ITbomb: Point of correction It isnot always so. Main problem is men feel nice girls are boring. Nice girls also go for crazy guys and I feel everybody is just lookin to compliment each other. Bottomline is we have all been wired to look for immediate gratification and not a long term happiness if not some of this women we take as wives are not even gf material. Even the so called good girls are full of pretence. My advice has always been marry your friend. Many opposite sex we have as friends are actually people we can get married to but we never think of it including me! A friend is someone who doesn't judge u, accepts u for who u are, always have ur back and ready to forgive. Its hard to find such people. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by dnacrystal: 5:25pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Sunbellar:lol yes sir. |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Vivly: Lolz. You think? Are you unpredictable, spontaneous, crazy in cool way, weird?Someone else is in a better position to tell you that not me. |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by druid06(m): 5:27pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
@Sagamite, You're just like my evil twin. I awed in the way you explained in your own terms about Nice girls and girls with physical attractive qualities.. I totally am in accordance with your statements. I loved the rebuttal with your argument with that lady too. This is the most irritating quality about the black woman, her total aggressiveness and attitude and as your finely put it, the hoodrat syndrome. They do think they got life and everything figured out and it's most times very annoying. I hope you continue to school these biitches and put them to their places. Also, nice one with the don't piss down my back and tell me it's raining phrase. I think I'm going to adopt that euphemism/analogy. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by 2nedo(m): 5:33pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
saga gat khaki attitude.trade insult on top wetin na? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by achovirux(m): 5:34pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
What are my doing here...CRAZY OR NICE rubbish...Its all about the Benjamins baby...Strong mental minded people like me hustle in the streets,make the benjamins and satisfy both d crazy and the nice girls...Meanwhile while hustling anything goes...when the Money comes anything stays because money answerth all thing Baby 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Onegai(f): 5:35pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
the OP isn't wrong. Everyone wants someone who's in charge, so no matter how nice you are, if you're not projecting confidence, they get bored. It's the reality of human nature. However, once you move on, they want to check, and see how you're doing. And if you're doing well, or looking extra pretty, they remember how nice you were, and "holla". Nice people, try being picky. Very picky, you don't owe everyone niceness. Watch how your value rises. Men crave excitement of the chase, women crave the thrill of success. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:39pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Monstertrucks: [size=30pt] Girls, u should better listen to what the op is saying.there is no guy that wants to marry an all too nice girl. There is no fun in that. forget all what naija movies taught u,that prince's go for nice village girls. IT'S A LIE.! an extra nice girl might mean the following. 1 Like
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Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by lafex: 5:39pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
sweet-tease:U av said it all 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
No matter what anyone says, both shades of girls will always be here, and the funny thing is ladies know how to morph! This remains one my greatest fears, I don't wanna end up with a morphed bad girl. Disaster. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sagamite(m): 5:42pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Monstertrucks: that is Why those that are different nd exciting, gegets married every Saturday. even when it's clear she's ugly. You are madt! This got me cracking up. Na so? Ahhh! Maybe I need to get myself some butters, fugulinging Naija girl and maybe I will finally find one that is a genius in bed. I just need some mind disorientating medication to cloud out the looks. No more fine Naija girls. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sagamite(m): 5:44pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Yoore: FACT: If your friends don't see her as nice, trust me, she is only being nice because she likes you. The first on my list. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sagamite(m): 5:48pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Carsonv: The only trait asides BEAUTY that attracts me to a girl is CONFIDENCE! You are on your own, nigga! Fcking hate it with a passion. If I have to chase you, trust me, you would think slavery was never abolished the way you would work to keep me. I like it smooth, easy and respectful. I DON'T chase! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by geolabious(m): 5:50pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 5:55pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Sagamite:Lol! what did this boy eat today carry a geh with obj lookalike to ur mother.then u will know the difference btwn embarassment nd disgrace. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sagamite(m): 5:56pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
geolabious: Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. If I want to smile, I would watch Chris Rock. Don't go for looks me arsse. She better be fcking fine and have a good personality to go with it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Nobody: 6:00pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
I had about 6 serious suitors and some admirers at the time I got married Am I then crazy? Nonsense I know I dey generally nice but person carry agbero style come,my area girl side go pop up too |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sagamite(m): 6:00pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
druid06: @Sagamite, And when we have serious cases of single motherhood in black society and majority of successful and eligible black men choosing to marry outside the race, they wonder why. They start saying they are "strong". Where "strong" means unbearable and miasmic personalities. I can't stand them. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sagamite(m): 6:02pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
Monstertrucks: Lol! what did this boy eat today carry a geh with obj lookalike to ur mother.then u will know the difference btwn embarassment nd disgrace. You don crase. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Sowhizy(f): 6:03pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
I lvu dz movie |
Re: Why Do 'Nice' Ladies Get Dumped Easily by Matthewbriggs(m): 6:05pm On Dec 26, 2013 |
I think the problem we are having here is the definition of what NICENESS really means If NICENESS means boring, clingy, moody, teary, and subservient. if means calling 25 times a day to know where and how he is, if it means slaving your a**ss out, like a servant who bends to his every whims and caprices, it it means you have no life, no passion no dreams, hence your life revolves around him, If means not been confident in yourself and your assets, If means always been scared that he would dump you, and that if he does dump you, your life is over ... I bet you no sane guy wouldn't near such girl. But if NICENESS means... been respectful, courteous, caring, observant, humble, a nurturer, Kind and loving. If it means seeing yourself as an individual with a life, a passion, an opinion and treating others the way you expect to be treated. If means no been proud or rude but humble and cordial. If means knowing your worth and carrying yourself with confidence... If It means been responsible, less selfish and focusing your energy in building your man. I bet you, guys would kill to have you The question is what sort of NICE lady are you. Moreover I would to add that Guys go for in quote" rude/wild girls" because they know it's easy to get laid with them, and they are fun to be with, they see them as a play thing and in most cases use them as side chicks. Guys will be guys they might play and goof around but when it comes to settling down, they scout for ms Nice (look at my second definition of niceness), a girl that remind them of their mother. They choose Nice girls to build a life with, some even go as far as going to the village to find her. Because they know they are dependable, trustworthy, and reliable. In summary Niceness is a very good virtue for every, woman that has the mind set of getting married some day, be you lacking in the looks department or looking like a model. Infact when it comes to marriage men look at personality more than beauty. When it comes to sex and having fun men look at beauty more than personality. The question is would you prefer to be a man's plaything or a wife. A case study is my handsome uncle who was a ladies man but when he decided to settle down, I was personally shocked at his choice, he chose someone who most people might consider lacking in the looks department when compared to him. I asked him why he said she sooo nice, humble and caring etc. Moreover, in my personal opinion to keep a relationship and nurture in it towards marriage, which happens to be the challenge most nice girls face... you need to keep things interesting... I think Nice girls in qoute need to borrow some good traits from the so called wild girls. Traits like been fun, exciting, independent, lively, energetic, confident and happy. You need to be what I call a Nice bitch In summary Niceness is a very good attribute for a woman to have. Its one key attribute that would make a man consider putting a ring on it even if you are lacking in other department ...don't lose it.. not for anything, not for an unthoughtfully composed NL post. #Mathew briggs. 21 Likes |
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