I really don't mean to bother you guys but I just need sincere opinion and advice from y'all.
I have this girl that I love so much, she is 25 and I am 27. We are really into each other or so it seems, though from the bottom of my heart, I love her truely.
Problem is there is this one guy that's putting a strain on our relationship, he'd send my gf romantic texts, claim she is his girlfriend on fb, call her almost all the time. My gf claims they are mere friends and nothing more but I am not just comfortable with this their so called 'friendship'. I had to call the guy telling him to stop sending romantic text to my gf the she is already spoken for, but it seems the guy is hell bent on ruining my relationship with. My gf will be here tomorrow to spend the rest of the year with me but I don't feel good about it already. What do u guys think is going on? What should I do? Sincere advice and comments pls.

Mayb d guy is helpin u out in ur assignments..

Discuss wt ur girlfriend. With the words from her mouth u will knw if its d end of the road or There's a turn. Make her call d guy in ur presence and listen to their conversation then and there u will know. I have had dis same experience before and all I could do was to allow my girlfriend (ex) disappoint her self and now she's waiting a come backam lol

ymb6374: Discuss wt ur girlfriend. With the words from her mouth u will knw if its d end of the road or There's a turn. Make her call d guy in ur presence and listen to their conversation then and there u will know. I have had dis same experience before and all I could do was to allow my girlfriend (ex) disappoint her self and now she's waiting a come backam lol

Thanks brov.... Noted.

Waiting for more comments and advices.

If your girl values what you both share, she should be the one to caution and set limits for that her friend.

Trust is earned, not given out. The few days you guys intend to spend together will speak volume. Be sure to utilize the moment in the best way possible. Goodluck!

I'm sorry for bn the one breakin ds to u dude. . . .buh if she's d only gal u got i'm afraid to tell u; ur azz is still single. . .in fact, "singular" than you dont wanna know.

d guy dey fuk am too eyah

This is the season of Heart Break... Just imagine the plethora of thread tailored along this line.

Guys take heart.

Why should you keep one girl in the first place? Huh?

Mc oldsoja: If your girl values what you both share, she should be the one to caution and set limits for that her friend.

U'r blessed, wot a perfect solution 2d problem

I believe a guy should have a backup. Like having 3 girls aint bad at all. When one fumbles,you really don't need to think about it at all. Leave and meet the next one...that's me sha.

Heineken: I believe a guy should have a backup. Like having 3 girls aint bad at all. When one fumbles,you really don't need to think about it at all. Leave and meet the next one...that's me sha.

2s£xy:
Why should you keep one girl in the first place? Huh?

I really don't wanna go back to my default mode.... That's why