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| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by breadtom: 10:27pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Dyt:one of the best yaba left candidate wondering wat u are doing outside and why did they left u loose in the first place. |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by vizkiz: 10:28pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Dyt: ouch! Dt hurts! 1 Like |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by 3coins(m): 10:33pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
breadtom: one of the best yaba left candidate wondering wat u are doing outside and why did they left u loose in the first place.  |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Dyt(f): 10:37pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
3coins: Lmao U are nt nice |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by 3coins(m): 10:39pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Dyt:I dd nuffin o!  |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by tayoxx(m): 10:55pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Dyt: This is what I don't getthatz just it..you do copy and paste from my brain...exactly what I was in my brain to type |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Chimezie250(m): 11:03pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Dyt: This is what I don't getwish all gal re like u , move on no matter what |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by mimicue(f): 11:04pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Yes...and if your not leave on a good note..let her know make her happy not because your SB now and that's why she doesn't fit your standards make her appreciated and let her feel it |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Dyt(f): 11:06pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
mimicue: Yes...and if your not leave on a good note..let her know make her happy not because your SB now and that's why she doesn't fit your standards make her appreciated and let her feel it |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
It's not a must but it's something worth doing. .how can you ditch a girl that struggled with you (probably for years) after you have made it?? When she was going through thorns for you, you didn't know she wasn't meant for you? ? Or you think she didn't have other guys coming after her all these while  I don't even pray this to happen to my enemy because it's so heartbreaking. .even though we are supposed to help people with open and free mind without any expectation, I think any victim of such action will feel so bad and may even curse  because it takes true love to stand by someone...All these girls saying all relationships mustn't lead to marriage bla bla, you're right but I have a feeling you are the type that will attempt suicide if such happens |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by jmoore(m): 11:14pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
mimicue: Yes...and if your not leave on a good note..let her know make her happy not because your SB now and that's why she doesn't fit your standards make her appreciated and let her feel it Something like pension? |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Because if she swear give you e go catch Why you no dump am when nobody dey give you face? When the time comes for her to reap the fruits of her labor na then you wan fashi am? Devil is watching you with binoculars   |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by doris4u(f): 11:35pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
MarvellousGod: It's not a must but it's something worth doing. .how can you ditch a girl that struggled with you (probably for years) after you have made it?? When she was going through thorns for you, you didn't know she wasn't meant for you? ? Or you think she didn't have other guys coming after her all these whileThank u jare,ur a gud person. |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by doris4u(f): 11:46pm On Dec 30, 2013 |
Its nt a must but dnt dump a woman on purpose cos ur nw made.I knw of a man dat dumpd his fiancee on d traditional wedding day givin excuses dat he slept off,til date d woman isnt married. D man married another woman bt dat woman have nt been a gud wife,she even left a 3mnth old baby 2 travel abroad in d name of work,leaving d man 2 cater 4 d remaining 3 children including d baby.dis one didnt suffer wit d man o bt d hurt nd pain he has caused 2 dat woman has been following him,let alone d one dat was wit 1 thru thick nd thin.lets be careful wit d actions we take cos we cant choose d consequences. |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Dyt(f): 12:06am On Dec 31, 2013 |
doris4u: Its nt a must but dnt dump a woman on purpose cos ur nw made.I knw of a man dat dumpd his fiancee on d traditional wedding day givin excuses dat he slept off,til date d woman isnt married. D man married another woman bt dat woman have nt been a gud wife,she even left a 3mnth old baby 2 travel abroad in d name of work,leaving d man 2 cater 4 d remaining 3 children including d baby.dis one didnt suffer wit d man o bt d hurt nd pain he has caused 2 dat woman has been following him,let alone d one dat was wit 1 thru thick nd thin.lets be careful wit d actions we take cos we cant choose d consequences. U see, wldnt she has saved herself d grace of jst walkin away rather than bn left at d alter I have had crazy experiences, smtyms I wonder why I never went mad I have cried in d middle of d rd, locked up n went on hunger strike *no body tell me wen hunger knack me, I chop* I grew stronger each time am broken Funnily I even end d relationship myself, cos its of no use, I see a diff man already, d love gone, so why wld I stay n be pushin myself My eye don see shege |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by doris4u(f): 12:23am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Dyt:Most times u dnt knw hw strong u are until being strong is d only option. 2 Likes |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Dyt(f): 12:25am On Dec 31, 2013 |
doris4u: Most times u dnt knw hw strong u are until being strong is d only option. So u see we all on same line |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Timoleon(m): 3:16am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Now before we all start going sentimental and trying to seem like a gentle man to impress fellow nairalanders, I want u to remember that no one gives a f*ck, at least not me. I would like u to consider the possibility of u discovering in the course of the struggle that albeit she stood by you, helped u make the money, she was only reallu good as a business partner and inside the house she is below par? |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by jasmine21(f): 4:57am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Well, I thank God for my current boyfriend. We've been together for 4yrs now and these are his trying times. I really believe in him and encourage him and he does same to me. He has promised to spoil me when he makes it which is very soon and I pray to God to answer our prayers. I have even tried to end our r/shp on about 3 occasions because of this "struggling" situation but he begged me and told me that he doesn't want someone else to replace me after he has made it. He is such a rare breed and a really loving man. I am hoping to God for the best and I wanna be there WHEN HE MAKES IT. |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by shizzle11(m): 6:09am On Dec 31, 2013 |
Not all relationships must lead to marriage. if it doesn't work out or your partner feels he will be happier with someone else, simply let him be |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by shizzle11(m): 6:11am On Dec 31, 2013 |
jasmine21: Well, I thank God for my current boyfriend. We've been together for 4yrs now and these are his trying times. I really believe in him and encourage him and he does same to me. He has promised to spoil me when he makes it which is very soon and I pray to God to answer our prayers. I have even tried to end our r/shp on about 3 occasions because of this "struggling" situation but he begged me and told me that he doesn't want someone else to replace me after he has made it.lol....Good luck to you |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by doris4u(f): 11:51am On Dec 31, 2013 |
jasmine21: Well, I thank God for my current boyfriend. We've been together for 4yrs now and these are his trying times. I really believe in him and encourage him and he does same to me. He has promised to spoil me when he makes it which is very soon and I pray to God to answer our prayers. I have even tried to end our r/shp on about 3 occasions because of this "struggling" situation but he begged me and told me that he doesn't want someone else to replace me after he has made it.My dear dats wat they always say bt pray urs wil differ,a man's loyalty is determind wen he has everything |
| Re: Must You Marry Someone That Struggled With You Before You Made It? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 31, 2013 |
See, this is what I was trying to sound an alarm about in this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/1180510/men-why-lock-down-long All these long things I really don't understand. E no suppose pass 2 years TOPS before you know what you want to do with someone. Greed sha. Thing is, during that period of fake nonsense, more compatible people would have approached the other person and kept on their way since they weren't available. Just to end up in a very interesting situation years down the road. Although this goes both ways, it is mostly something that affects the ladies...because we all know a man at 30 has much more prospects than a lady of the same age. Feminists, it wouldn't make sense to hate on me for stating this, because it is as much a fact as gravity is a fact. |
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