paris10:

Your husband would have the right to claim compensation from you and share in your assets if you were found to have initiated the divorce.

Arial.bold:


GBAM. Feminism is the solution to the problem. all the submission and dependence on men will not help her once is is being kicked to the curb.
female children are being raised to be dependent on men. to see men as their king and protector. and what if these men don't treat them right? the woman becomes a destitute on d street or resort to selling her body because she has nothing else to sustain herself.

in western nations, we are approaching a point where women are the breadwinner in 50% of all households. This is how things should be. I look forward to d day when both men and women will be affected by divorce. instead of women only bearing the financial brunt.

paris10:

Your husband would have the right to claim compensation from you and share in your assets if you were found to have initiated the divorce.

pickabeau1: what the... impressive

Excellent post!

bukatyne:

I am not a lady who believes she is equal to men and still have entitlement mentality.

I like to earn my respect and dues because they are not lying around anywhere

Like I said, I do not grasp the concept of divorce settlement

pickabeau1:

nice one..you have my respect with this...... maybe this your verson of feminism can really work after all....

I dont get the warped universe where the OP is from... u cheat on ur husband and yet she is paid off....?!

bukatyne:

Sorry but I don't believe you; waters have passed under the bridge

A lot of women are not feminists; opportunities more like it.

It is common in our society, we try to take advantage of people who respect us or are meek

I still do not grasp the reasoning that a woman should be rude because she sees herself as a man's equal

Infact, sometimes when I do something wrong to my bobo, God would ask me if I would like it if he did such to me

Anyways, whatever rocks each person's boat

FNG3:

who told you that divorced women in nigeria don't share from the man's property after divorce?my uncles wife made away with 7million naira and a car after their divorce.

bukatyne:

Thanks

I am not a lady who believes she is equal to men and still have entitlement mentality.

I like to earn my respect and dues because they are not lying around anywhere

Like I said, I do not grasp the concept of divorce settlement

fresh_dude: Don't mind silly Paris10, when I say Nigerian adult females are adequately protected by the law she no fit understand am. The problem is they are usually too stewpid to fight for their rights. All the UK they refer to records a high number of court cases of women wanting more from their husbands than they're willing to give and usually get as much or more than what they demand. But fools like Paris will have us believe otherwise, afterall DSTV channels 151-158 is what they live by and they think that's where the world ends. Paris10, is a clown and needs to have her brain reset.

paris10:

Promiscuity shouldnt form basis of your argument. You should consider other possibilities and senseless reasons why men divorce women.

The macho man and the " I am the owner of this house" syndrome is the only reason why Nigerian men behave this callously. If Nigerian men start parting with half of their property maybe they will think twice before filing for a divorce.

coogar:

you are a complete idïot!
even when a woman is promiscuous, she should be rewarded for her promiscuity? you should return any certificate you might have acquired in the last 20 years - you surely don't deserve them.

pickabeau1:

whats the significance of the initiating party...

What if she initiated the divorce due to spousal abuse or infidelity

paris10:

Backlash indeed!. That shows you how men are opposed to change.

bee444:

THERE ARE ALWAYS TWO PARTIES TO EVERYTHING. Regardless of the reason for divorce, both parties must consent. A judge in almost all the abuse cases waive the consenting part and allow the divorce to go ahead. When this happens, the woman would still pay or compensate the husband if the husband counter-sue for malicious divorce or for what he is accustomed to i.e pu.ssie and the food.

coogar:

the man is not smart -

he should have consulted scott young(multibillionaire). his wife wanted a divorce. he told her if he kept it under wraps, he would give her £300m. she refused cos she wanted more & she went to court.

before the court could hear the case, scott young transferred all his assets outside the UK using some russian connections. he went to court & claimed he was broke! he said he made bad judgement in his investments & he's lost all his money.

the wife insisted he had more than he was claiming. the case dragged for years. the man even spent 3 months in prison for court contempt cos it everyone knew he was lying but it couldn't be proven. the wife said scott promised her £300 initially, scott said he was drunk when he said so cos he didn't even have that amount.

sometime last month, the judge had to bring the case to closure & scott was asked to pay just £20m to his wife within 30 days. the wife has spent close to £10m on this case already. wife lost, scott young won & he saved £280m he would have given an ungrateful wife.

coogar:

you are a complete idïot!
even when a woman is promiscuous, she should be rewarded for her promiscuity? you should return any certificate you might have acquired in the last 20 years - you surely don't deserve them.

keswagz: i enjoyed this story to d fullest. my pain is jst this "even if a woman is promiscuous".what nonsense? @op if u say men cheat also, i thought u want gender equality, then d woman should also kick him out and support him financially or wat do you think?

Trottle:
Op, I thought you were making sense until you reached the above part. Are you that pained? I am not against renumerating your ex spouse but not a LovePeddler and if you insist maybe you should offer you brother(s), uncle(s) etc your opinion and watch their reaction. It seems you are one of those die-hard feminist that lacks objectivity.

paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women?

The mentality that women should take care of themselves and work to provide for their wants is plausible.... that leaves us with the men.. what would these bunch be doing then?

ileobatojo:

Yeah, I think you need to quit talking now. Thanks.

paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women?

The mentality that women should take care of themselves and work to provide for their wants is plausible.... that leaves us with the men.. what would these bunch be doing then?

paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women?

The mentality that women should take care of themselves and work to provide for their wants is plausible.... that leaves us with the men.. what would these bunch be doing then?

paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women?

The mentality that women should take care of themselves and work to provide for their wants is plausible.... that leaves us with the men.. what would these bunch be doing then?

lady gogo: i sometimes wonder what all those female legislators do with their time in the National Assembly.

If these measures were in place i trust that a lot of endurance type marriages will have ended a long time ago.