paris10:

Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.
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Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

Trottle:
Op, I thought you were making sense until you reached the above part. Are you that pained? I am not against renumerating your ex spouse but not a LovePeddler and if you insist maybe you should offer you brother(s), uncle(s) etc your opinion and watch their reaction. It seems you are one of those die-hard feminist that lacks objectivity.

paris10:

Maybe you've forgotten that it is for better or worse. Regardless of religion, our women deserve respect. And since Nigerian men are always quick to throw women out, they should also be able to pay for their irresponsible act.

bigx:
By throwing out a promiscuous woman and making sure she "shares from the spoils" as the other poster pointed out? In that case who was irresponsible?
PS. This is the 21st century, women are educated, work and at times earn more than the men.

bigx:


By throwing out a promiscuous woman and making sure she "shares from the spoils" as the other poster pointed out? In that case who was irresponsible?

PS. This is the 21st century, women are educated, work and at times earn more than the men.

Ewuro707:

Preach.

paris10:

Promiscuity shouldnt form basis of your argument. You should consider other possibilities and senseless reasons why men divorce women.

The macho man and the " I am the owner of this house" syndrome is the only reason why Nigerian men behave this callously. If Nigerian men start parting with half of their property maybe they will think twice before filing for a divorce.

If the woman earns more nko? Do you support her parting with half of her property if her husband chooses to leave?

paris10:

He was preaching jebushit

bigx:


Usual attitude, when your argument lacks logic, you resort to insults.

It's obvious the intent of this post was to host a big, tearful pity - party,

I've stated my point, proceed with the party,

It's friday night afterall

paris10: As in the norms in Nigeria, women who get divorced or are been thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their husbands tend to lose out alot.

Even in domestic violence cases, women who couldnt take the violence any longer divorce the husband without sharing in the property.

Though Nigeria is not UK, US or other western countries where women share in the estate or property of the husband after divorce, Nigerian men should atleast take responsibility in making sure the woman they divorce would be well-off after letting her go.

Laws should also be put in place to reward any woman whose husband left her for someone else. Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.

Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

why is it the man's responsibility to make sure the woman is well-off after divorce? Doesnt she know how to work?

davidylan:

why is it the man's responsibility to make sure the woman is well-off after divorce? Doesnt she know how to work?

paris10:

You married her promising you would take care of her. Who cares if she earns more! Some women work and some are full house wives (some men want their woman to be full house wife), so not their fault if they dont work.

paris10: Nigerian men have a responsibility; emotionally, financially and psychologically to make sure their women dont go on to have post-divorce syndrome with the symptoms of self-pity, complex and confidence.

You think 9ja wont be a better place if men are cautioned? Would they have 2 wives if knowing what repercussions would follow if the other woman file for divorce?

Would women be treated better and respected if the men knew what cheating could cost them?

davidylan:

And they have this "responsibility" after divorce because? Or is it your point that men are somehow immune from post-divorce syndrome?