And you believed that was my pic? Oh boy

Of course that pretty girl was you,the conditions we did it,everyone was truthful and had fun
I saved all those pics
Including debosky,Coogar pataki lol posted at other times
But my laptop crashed hahahaha

How about thiefofhearts ,siena,mrs Siena and others that used their pictures in their profile?

That was when nairaland was nairaland sha

As long as she is not posting details of location and address

Baby mama: Of course that pretty girl was you
I saved all those pics
Including debosky,Coogar pataki lol
But my laptop crashed hahahaha

How about thiefofhearts ,siena,mrs Siena and others that used their pictures in their profile?

That was when nairaland was nairaland sha

Nne Biko, that pic is that of a Kenyan friend back in uni....I came out clean when someone thought she looked familiar and wasn't a Nigerian. I still have her pictures and will try post some here... I am dark skinned very dark not light skinned. Only one person here has seen me in real life and I choose to keep it so.funny just a few hours ago I was talking about this same pic in the divorce thread

Coogar is hawt. Tall dark handsome. Mrs Siena is tough she can handle it, so is TOH, Loretta on the other hand almost died of HBP when some people attacked her . Debosky always posted a side pic...and one where he used his cap to cover his face

.. BABYMAMA no more stories

Thanks

Sissie: @loretta. Do you have your outfit already, you can visit www.mumtaz-lingerie.com they deliver nationwide.

jennykadry:

Nne Biko, that pic is that of a Kenyan friend back in uni....I came out clean when someone thought she looked familiar and wasn't a Nigerian. I still have her pictures and will try post some here... I am dark skinned very dark not light skinned. Only one person here has seen me in real life and I choose to keep it so.funny just a few hours ago I was talking about this same pic in the divorce thread

Coogar is hawt. Tall dark handsome. Mrs Siena is tough she can handle it, so is TOH, Loretta on the other hand almost died of HBP when some people attacked her . Debosky always posted a side pic...and one where he used his cap to cover his face

The person was not light skinned.
She was dark and wore a lip gloss,beautiful lips
People commented how pretty u were and u said thanks then took it down

There was one of Coogar bare chested sef
He is not bad at all at all
Debosky is very handsome too

Emy~Leo:
.. BABYMAMA no more stories

Go away

Hi ladies,

I know it's been a super long while.

Just think it is better we build our thread than keep gate crashing the guys' and getting thrown out

We can discuss topics and Stuff

Cococandy
Edwife
Chillisauce
Beevan
Naijababe
Babygirlfl
EfemenaXY
Moca
Kimoni
Greatgod2012
Tearoses
Ewuro
Toonoisy
MarvellousGod
Phema
Freecocoa
Sambarry

Sorry If I missed out on your Username

Present ma

naijababe:


Present ma

lols

Have you read 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar

CC: Edwife, cococandy

Lol.....okay

Let see how this will go....

This thread
Poor thing. We abandoned it and moved on to other things.
Bukatyne welldone.

Care to set the ball rolling?

bukatyne:


lols

Have you read 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar

CC: Edwife, cococandy

No I haven't. I don't read much these days.
Little time I get to sit on the couch, I occupy it with netflix.

cococandy:


No I haven't. I don't read much these days.
Little time I get to sit on the couch, I occupy it with netflix.

Ok then

Have a topic in mind?

Let me be thinking as I am working

bukatyne:


Ok then

Have a topic in mind?

Let me be thinking as I am working

Nothing jare.
Just waking up and Blank as a slate.

But anything nice will do. That won't bring unnecessary long debate sha.

I no get power to type long post these days.

bukatyne:

lols
Have you read 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar
CC: Edwife, cococandy

quite a read i tell ya

;DLOL @ throwing out of the boys thread. Na real throwing out

cococandy:

Nothing jare.
Just waking up and Blank as a slate.

But anything nice will do. That won't bring unnecessary long debate sha.

I no get power to type long post these days.

Ok O!

How to manage a home and a career

Tips and discussions

CC: damiso, edwife, naijababe

damiso:
;DLOL @ throwing out of the boys thread. Na real throwing out

Hahahahahahaha!

Na so

bukatyne:


lols

Have you read 'The Manipulated Man' by Esther Vilar

CC: Edwife, cococandy

Nope, I will check synopsis and see if it is my kinda book

The book argues that, contrary to common feminist and women's rights rhetoric, women in industrialized cultures are not oppressed, but rather exploit a well-established system of manipulating men.

Vilar writes, "Men have been trained and conditioned by women, not unlike the way Pavlov conditioned his dogs, into becoming their slaves. As compensation for their labours men are given periodic use of a woman's vagina." The book contends that young boys are encouraged to associate their masculinity with their ability to be sexually intimate with a woman, and that a woman can control a man by socially empowering herself to be the gate-keeper to his sense of masculinity.

The author says that social definitions and norms, such as the idea that women are weak, are constructed by women with their needs in mind, and that praise is only given to a man when a woman's needs are met in some way.

Vilar claims that women can control their emotional reactions whereas men cannot, and that women create overly-dramatized emotional reactions to attempt to control men and get their way. She says that women "blackmail" men and use sex as a tool.

The book argues that women use traditions and concepts of love and romance, which are seen more positively than sex, to control men's sexual lives. Vilar writes that men gain nothing from marriage and that women, who are out to get men's money, coerce them into marriage under the pretense that it is romantic.

Must be quite a book, gotta read it

bukatyne:


Ok O!

How to manage a home and a career

Tips and discussions

CC: damiso, edwife, naijababe

On this? I need all the lessons I can get.

I think the first step is to marry right. A supportive spouse.

bukatyne:


Ok O!

How to manage a home and a career

Tips and discussions

CC: damiso, edwife, naijababe

This is a loaded question and my opinion will be quite open ended. To manage all three efficiently, your spouse not only has to be supportive but quite empathic too.

bukatyne:
Hi ladies,

I know it's been a super long while.

Just think it is better we build our thread than keep gate crashing the guys' and getting thrown out

We can discuss topics and Stuff

Present Ma

bukatyne:


Ok O!

How to manage a home and a career

Tips and discussions

Like other ladies have said, marry a supportive and caring spouse and on your own you have to be prepared to :
1. work smart (e.g let other people help out in other things that they can do even if it means you have to pay)
2. be organised ( you will have to do a lot of planning especially planning ahead.
3.priorities what to do with your time ( know when to give home it's time and career it's time. Even around the home, you have to prioritise your house chores because trust me, sometimes you won't be able to do everything).
4. Know when to put your feet up and REST.

Following closely.

bukatyne:


Ok O!

How to manage a home and a career

Tips and discussions

CC: damiso, edwife, naijababe

Will expand on it later,but mine is very different from the norm which might sound very weird to many here like most call it "sufferhead".

You can only attain it by being very organized and prioritize around the house.

as for the book,i have not read it but reading the summary you put up there,i think i like it.

taryour:
Following closely.

Sorry for not including you earlier..

Welcome

damiso:
;DLOL @ throwing out of the boys thread. Na real throwing out

Inshort, were forcefully ejected

Bukatyne, thanks for taking the initiative jare....following closely

I'm so disorganized

babygirlfl:


Like other ladies have said, marry a supportive and caring spouse and on your own you have to be prepared to :
1. work smart (e.g let other people help out in other things that they can do even if it means you have to pay)
2. be organised ( you will have to do a lot of planning especially planning ahead.
3.priorities what to do with your time ( know when to give home it's time and career it's time. Even around the home, you have to prioritise your house chores because trust me, sometimes you won't be able to do everything).
4. Know when to put your feet up and REST.

@Naijababe:

I downloaded the book however, I have not gotten around to reading it. I think it is a two sided thing. She is probably referring to places where women are freely to explore themselves and let them know the 'power' they have

@babygirlfl..
True

@Cococandy,
Seat tight

@Edwife
Will be waiting


@Career & Home,
I think some ladies do not know how to prioritize, be creative and take their husbands for granted. E.g. is the thread of the woman who buys buka food everyday. Again, it depends on how the home is run. Some men do not mind that.

Kimoni:




Inshort, were forcefully ejected

Bukatyne, thanks for taking the initiative jare....following closely

The thanks is not enough

Sending you my proforma invoice

cococandy:
I'm so disorganized

How?