Njide found a lost friend late 2010
A good friend
Chidi was like a brother to her.She remembered many many years ago he was home visiting from his med school in the SW and Njide was home also for the weekend and they met up.
In a conversation she poured out her heart to her friend and brother,she told him she was in trouble,she was fighting a battle in her heart.
He already knew she was engaged to someone but now he heard that there is another young man who had relentlessly pursued her for months and she was beginning to cave in.
She also revealed that she had finally accepted a date with him at his place the following day, Sunday as soon as she got back from the weekend.
Chidi asked her not to go,he pleaded.Njide you and I know what this young man wants,don't go,I don't want you hurt he said.

As Njide rode back in the taxi cab from her parents home she thought about Chidi's words, she also knew loverboy was probably at home waiting to see her in a few hours time.
She battled with these thoughts
She prayed,at the same time she was looking forward to the date,then Chidi's words would ring again,"Njide don't go".
She thought about her fiance also,she was already having doubts about the relationship,she wanted to keep the date,she wanted to be true to herself and God,her heart raced back and forth with thoughts overflowing as the taxi raced down the expressway towards the city she was headed.
Njide arrived the hostel at 4 Pm ,took a quick bath changed clothes and hailed another cab to the campus gate and shortly afterwards was standing at the address knocking.

The first time she met loverboy was by a gate at the hospital,he looked at her and smiled,she returned the smile and instantly his heart spoke to hers and hers to his.They met again at a formal setting where she heard him speak and was totally smitten but kept it to herself then he made his move,she turned down all his dates and here she was a few months later knocking on his door.
He opened the door and smiled,asking after her parents.She thought that was very thoughtful.
He served her a meal, it was beans and yam with a bottle of coke.
She was not a good fan of beans,it always did a number in her stomach but it would be rude to say no so she ate the food and drank the coke.
They talked like they had known each other for years.
She already knew a few things about him from short conversations in the past.
She couldn't help notice that his place looked very neat and that his cologne smelled incredible but she made no comments about that,he shared the flat with a colleague of his,another young man.
It was a lovely evening,they had a great time talking ,the roommate joined in at some point and just as she was about to leave,the heavens opened up and it began to rain.It didn't just rain,it poured and poured and poured very heavily and it was obvious she couldn't go home that night and panicked,she didn't want to sleep in a house with practically two strange men.
She knew him somewhat,she knew they were both in respected professions but she wanted to go home to her hostel.The next day was Monday,she needed to be in class.
But the rain wouldn't stop,then it dawned on her that she was stuck,night had fallen and it was time for bed.

Baby mama: Way back in our early years in the USA
When we were drinking garri with love
My hubby was doing a fellowship at a hospital and was on call
As we were tangoing on the bed or was it couch,his beeper went off,some of you may not know what beepers are,that was before you were born
Anyway when the beeper beeped,as was expected the potato stopped to potate ( sorry yuzedo) he quickly dressed up and left promising to return ASAP
I remained in that love atmosphere waiting for bobo to return
I was just listening to the love tunes from the CD player and waiting for my lover ,you could cut my love with a steak knife as I waited for Okonkwo to come home and finish what he started then all of a sudden the door bell rang
I jumped up in joy,eyes dimmed and ready to tackle this Igbo man
I got up,walked to the door of our small two BR apartment and without asking who it was,I opened the door
And lo and behold there was our associate pastor from Church
Chei!
Double Chei!
I wanted to just die
It would have been better if I just quenched
Na so man of God see my nakidness
The kain shame wey catch me eh
Jehovah!
He apologized and left
I began to imagine what he could be thinking whenever he saw me in church
My oga tease me taya that period
He will go work and return and ask me,so how many men of God came by today

OMG! Oh my goodness!!!

Loverboy wanted Njide and she knew it,she could see it in his eyes when they talked and laughed in the living room,she had been in love a few times and can read the eyes of a man smitten.
As she lay on the bed,she thought about her fiance Okey who was away in Kaduna working in a bank.Six months ago she had kissed him goodbye but unbeknown to Okey,her love for him was fading and she hadn't the courage to tell him.
Then suddenly the door opened and in came loverboy she adjusted herself on the bed and he sat beside her,looked deep into her eyes,she smiled,he leaned over and kissed her on the lips,she responded well then he held her very close to his chest then kissed her on the forehead,on her neck,he nibbled gently at her right ear and caressed her ample bosoms and said in the most soothing voice that he loved her from the first day he set his eyes on her.
Njide's heart raced,she wanted him to stop,for 2 years she had been celibate,keeping herself for marriage,but today her flesh had won over the desires of her Spirit .

As the morning lights shone through the windows,she got up,took a shower,dressed up,loverboy walked her to the end of the street,hailed down a cab and she waved him goodbye.
That was the beginning of their love affair.



Theirs was the sort of romance you read in story books.
It developed very quickly
Loverboy was determined to make Njide his wife and in a few short weeks it was clear to all that they had become an item.She had a key to his flat,came and went when she pleased,her picture graced his nightstand so it didn't come as a surprise one afternoon when he popped the question in the most ordinary way.
It was a Saturday morning barely 6 weeks after their first date, the sun was shinning brightly,Njide had come by with a bag of groceries to cook some soup and stew when she met loverboy handwashing his clothes in the backyard.
He looked up,quite delighted by her presence and greeted her with a hug.
Njide dropped her bags on the floor and sat on the railing close by while they chatted and laughed.
He had on a pair of boxers, blue and white stripped boxers and a white T shirt.

Then in the middle of a story as she talked and gesticulated in her usual manner,
he looked up at her and said "Njide,I would like to marry you"
Njide laughed and pulled his leg a little by saying No,adding that he couldn't be serious.
From the first date,it was apparent to her that loverboy wanted her for a life partner,all his plans and conversations after that seemed to include her, so the "formal" proposal was not at all a surprise.Even if he'd never said those words,she wouldn't be shocked if he'd just gone ahead and fixed a wedding date.
That was how sure things were.
He knew she was joking when she said no
That no was a yes


Still loving him

Poor Okey

Tgirl4real:

OMG! Oh my goodness!!!

I even saw the man of God yesterday at a gathering and hugged him to say happy new year and my mind went to that day,over a decade ago
I hope he has forgotten about it

joromi: Poor Okey

Na so life be

Good stories

Im surprised about your tale of Jide cos u always put out as an anti Yoruba Lady

CFCfan: Loretta don enter one chance

I dey tell you.
Covers face and runs away.

This people no go kill me. So as my hubby don travel,wetin dem want make I do?

been following this thread and I have not commented because I am not married but honestly........ I FEEL LIKE GETTING MARRIED. person need to wait for her time sha

lorretta u: I dey tell you.
Covers face and runs away.

This people no go kill me. So as my hubby don travel,wetin dem want make I do?

There is nothing to be ashamed of
As you are now a bonafide member of this seksion ... Welcome

There is politricks here too just like romance section

pickabeau1:

There is nothing to be ashamed of
As you are now a bonafide member of this seksion ... Welcome

There is politricks here too just like romance section

pickabeau1: Good stories

Im surprised about your tale of Jide cos u always put out as an anti Yoruba Lady

i think she meant njide which is short for njideka

glimpse:

i think she meant njide which is short for njideka

No sorry i meant ade the yoros man
U should see the crew when they start dissing

Njide aka Baby Mama.*run away*

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K-Y massage cream.

Watching porn also improves one's bedroom skills.

Google massage rooms. i trust you all will go nuts.

nice.keep them coming.but shoudnt have been made front page.

God, pls i need fulfilment in my marriage oooo
Babymama u r da bomb

See something.im wet already and hubby is on call

But the person that carried this thread to FP no well sha. I'm sure she didnt read the content, she just saw plenty viewers and felt it needs more.

Baby Mama, you should consider writing too, you are to damn funny.

maureeno: See something.im wet already and hubby is on call

Change your diapers na

maureeno: See something.im wet already and hubby is on call

...kai.

Baby mama:

A church in Boston actually carried out a survey
Totally anonymous questionnaire and the couples were asked to be very open and sincere
It was a marriage enrichment seminar
Over 90% of the men said they would pick their wives again
Only about 30 or 40% of women said the same about their husbands

dayokanu:

Change your diapers na

 dont av an extra diaper

maureeno: See something.im wet already and hubby is on call

Rofl
Sorry o
Just wait for him to return
Make u no kill am o

Adycherie: God, pls i need fulfilment in my marriage oooo
Babymama u r da bomb

Amen o
Read the other thread too
Look for a friend,real substance ,a man who loves you truly and a man that makes you laugh

There will be tough times but if you know that you that the man loves you,you can work it out

I respect you Baby mama.........guess i need to doff my hat

@babymama i told ya, i rode him like a horse. Guess wat? He is snoring his a55 out. 10 gboza for u

This thread is paradise on earth.

israel boy: I respect you Baby mama.........guess i need to doff my hat

Baby mama is a madam.....I mean "Oke Nwanyi"

angiemartinez: @babymama i told ya, i rode him like a horse. Guess wat? He is snoring his a55 out. 10 gboza for u

chai i wish am married

mariah lets marry na

angiemartinez: @babymama i told ya, i rode him like a horse. Guess wat? He is snoring his a55 out. 10 gboza for u

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