I'm a first timer on creation of new topics but I just wanted to share this experience with you, and probably seek advice...
I met this girl barely 4months back, and we've been dating up until this moment. Initially she was sweet and all and she jux wanted everytin other than sex which I was cool with( she actually claimed she was a virgin), buh with time she opened up to me and told me she had been raped by her family friend(plus she told me her ex was always after sex)...I dint knw if that was to put me off entirely or she was saying the truth aldo her body language wasn't the best but I believed her still.
Everytin started to fall apart wen she gained admission and I started seeing a particular guy's pix and txt msgs on her fone(tho I dint read the txt cos I believe she is entitled to her privacy) buh when I asked to see her 'sent msgs'(cos she hardly eva sends me a txt), she became aggressive and immediately put a lockcode on it. I confronted her wiv it buh she wudnt give in, citing that nobody ever trusts her so she wudnt explain her actions...I tried to talk with some frnds and they sed she was hiding stuffs, but I dint want to believe them aldo I felt slightly thesame way
The long n short of it is that we've had another misundastanding and she disappeared to school without a word to me only for her to tel me abt her bday...fortunately today is her bday buh I don't feel compelled to talk or even pay her a visit, I'm already thinking of calling it quits but stil in that dilemma cos she never opens up...pls guys what do u reckon? Thanks

leave ha dude.

Ooh Mpa™:
There's a girl whose birthday is today that Ooh Mpa is fücking. She claims her bf ain't man enough for forepläy.

She also gained admission 3 months ago

*quietly leaves thread*

Are you serious??

Only people with something to hide use lock codes on their phone(s). The fact that she started locking her phone after you insisted on seeing her sent messages says a lot.

She's your girlfriend, communicate with her..Tell her exactly how you feel about all she's doing, and then you could take your decision from her response.

I hope this helps.

You already know the truth dude. You're just a spare tire. Leave quietly with your dignity intact.

Lovexme: Only people with something to hide use lock codes on their phone(s). The fact that she started locking her phone after you insisted on seeing her sent messages says a lot.

She's your girlfriend, communicate with her..Tell her exactly how you feel about all she's doing, and then you could take your decision from her response.

I hope this helps.

Shut the f.ck up ..... Nokia communicator.

louis sobis: leave ha dude.

kpom

are u still a jambite?