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its easy for you to saythat now because you are hurting. You will heal soon and guess what, you will dismiss advances from nice guys wanting you and you will fix your gaze and time on the bad boys . Am i wrong?

Sweety, (slap on the face) i wont say this again, let it go topup!!! Ok abt the bad boys, the thing is they are attractive,look good, smell good, have this manly confidence, and they know their way into a woman's heart bcoz they know which buttons to push, experience has taught them, and damn they can talk the talk! So we automatically fall for them, coz they seem like the whole package at first,u know, sexy,funny,caring,all those, but once we are in a relationship with them,the thrill dies for them the chase is worth more than the catch, and it is then that u realise, he's a player, the 'badboy' image is sexy but not when u are dating one, and they can defend themselves to kill any doubts, like he may say 'people say am a player, its stupid cant a man look good and still be faithful to his woman am lookin' gd for you babe' good liars too. Therefore, we cannot resist them bcoz we cant know how bad they are till we date them, and the good guys seem boring and geeky!

I made this topic because I was bored of the existing ones (and replied to most of them anyways), why must everything be about my ex!

I often come up with random topic ideas, why can't this just be one of them, why must everything be linked back to my hurting.

I don't even think my ex was such a Bad Boy, really and I wasn't attracted to him because he was one, I didn't even find him all that attractive, he was just really confused.

This topic has nothing to do with my ex, it has more to do with the other topics I replied to where women had been talking about players and such!

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I am talking about the basic, compulsive liar, repetitive cheater and money hungry user.

Guys feel free to contribute or talk about if no guys didn't tolerate money hungry, shallow, cheating women.

- My ex wasn't a compulsive liar, nor did he cheat on me, or was he money hungry.

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[color=#cc0066]I made this topic because I was bored of the existing ones (and replied to most of them anyways), why must everything be about my ex!
- My ex wasn't a compulsive liar, nor did he cheat on me, or was he money hungry.

Stop living in denial. I used to think my ex was a ‘nice guy’ until months after we split; I started hearing of things he did that I never dreamt he was capable of. Whether u like it or not, everything u do from now till at least, six months time, is going to be about your ex. Trust me, I’ve been there. _{Infact am still there}

Bad guys don’t exist because girls fall for them, but because it’s their nature. They can’t help who they are. Trust me, a player will keep playing, no matter what happens to him in the process.

Topup, u should move on.