davidylan:

just what kind of men forced these women here to act thus?

Sisikill:

MEN BASHERS? NO

BADLY BEHAVED MEN AND THE WOMEN WHO MAKE EXCUSES FOR THEM BASHERS? YES! YES! OH GOD YES! 100% YESSSSSSSSS!


Bwahahahahahahaha! You are killing me here! Don't forget. . .

"Please slap me in the face, don't use the palm of your hands, use your fist or back hand. Oh for the love of our sacred marriage, put me in my place. . . anything will be better than the fate worse than death. . . Unmarried woman! "

Do you try being sarcastic pointlessly without understanding what's being said or discussed?
Just a question

davidylan:

just what kind of men forced these women here to act thus?

michelin89:

JustGood?? You should be JustDumb! Damn! What are you compared to a population of millions? In what way does your attitude to your wife contribute to millions of other women's life who can't even dare to breathe because their men are on the corner? Whatever you call yourself, you and your wife aren't the only Nigerians alive but almost an insignificant part when compared to the whole. Quit this egocentrism and be good!

JustGood:

E no go better for your papa.

What exactly has my discussion to do with you that you have to come with an insult? Is there anything that I addressed to you?

Your papa no go die better oloshi. girl wey no get family

JustGood:

oloshi, you think say I be those men wey want yansh una come dey allow una dey waka on top them head?

idiot. na by force to talk? I no say na so ya mama dey abuse anyhow and I no blame am because na so them bring am up when she dey naija. . . abi she no tell you how she dey live before she born you?

michelin89:

Na who and you dey yarn? JustBush, go eat the eba wey your free wife prepare for you. I know say Naija men dey vex well well when they never eat!

JustGood:

I thank God as my wife na free wife. Afterall na money them pay ya mama for one night wey she come take born you. And she don train you as she sabi

In fact I don dey hungry now, make I go chop akpu.

milknhoney:

This is just one of those topics in which we ALL know the truth but some refuse to accept. All in the name of image. C'mon wake up and smell the freaking reality. No matter how much you want to deny it, go around spewing conspriacies, ranting about generalizations, your ass knows it is true.

For example: one of my disdained uncles (ekwensu rest his soul) abused my aunt, cheated on her, treated her like a piece of shit, belittled her in front my cousins. In short, he was an all around punk ass bitch. The worst of it all, was my aunt tolerated every bit of it. She refused to leave him. She would just swallow it up, and continued with the abuse. I understand that in Igboland, divorce is looked down upon, but c'mon. There are exceptions to every rule.We told her to leave him, come and stay with us, but NO!!! "He is my husband. I made a vow before Chineke" Did she also vow to be treated like a piece of shit, NO, but she continued with her marriage.

She allowed this to happen for[b] 29 Years Of Marriage[/b]. Till he was diagnosed with massive artery clogs (kene Chukwu for palm oil), and died within the year.
So now she is a widow, who has no life of her own. What can she do eh? Her husband thought for her, told her what to do. Now she is just a mmuo walking around.

JustGood:

E no go better for your papa.

What exactly has my discussion to do with you that you have to come with an insult? Is there anything that I addressed to you?

Your papa no go die better oloshi. girl wey no get family

michelin89:

Typical Naija man!

Heey! You just dey disgrace yourself!

You wont know the truth if it was lying beside you, with the state of your mind

JustGood?? You should be JustDumb! Damn! What are you compared to a population of millions? In what way does your attitude to your wife contribute to millions of other women's life who can't even dare to breathe because their men are on the corner? Whatever you call yourself, you and your wife aren't the only Nigerians alive but almost an insignificant part when compared to the whole. Quit this egocentrism and be good!

However, if will make you guys feel better to think some man out there has treated some of us badly, hence our rejection of abusive mentality. Please go right ahead!!

Siena:

Gosh!

Buddy, that was sorely uncalled for - her parents arent on this forum, they're not posting here, yet you choose to insult them?

Michelin's a 19-year-old girl, a teenager, and from what you've said so far as regards to wife and children, I'D say you're probably in your mid to late 30's, or more.
Old enough to be her father.
Why would a grown man be trading insults with a teenager in the first place, worse still, extend those insults to her absent parents??

rooshie:

@ Poster, plz understand something, the way you went about with this subject is totally offensive. First of all, I am also a non-Nigeria(raised in Nigeria), and I disagree with this view. Yes, there are cases as you have described, however, what was the point exactly of coming across with the tone you took? What is there really to be gained from this argument? Did you want to clear up a rumour you had heard, or make an accusation form 1st-hand experience? How would you fell if someone came directly to accuse all Brazilian men or women in an offensive way? and how can you say the problem is " Nigerian women"? do you know all Nigerian women? have you taken a survey, or had direct access to accurate survey material? Please, to cut a long story short, be considerate of others' cultures before you start pointing fingers yeah, at the end of the day, it will bring a better perception of who YOU are as a woman.

chase4:

Michelin is 19 huh? So all what she is saying here is based what ? hear say or experience ?

janami:

the fact still remains that a girl is treated the way she wants to be treated, irrespective of country, tribe and so on and to correct a misconception here, nigerian women are not as docile and tolerant as u think.

This is just one of those topics in which we ALL know the truth but some refuse to accept. All in the name of image. C'mon wake up and smell the freaking reality. No matter how much you want to deny it, go around spewing conspriacies, ranting about generalizations, your ass knows it is true.

For example: one of my disdained uncles (ekwensu rest his soul) abused my aunt, cheated on her, treated her like a piece of shit, belittled her in front my cousins. In short, he was an all around punk ass bitch. The worst of it all, was my aunt tolerated every bit of it. She refused to leave him. She would just swallow it up, and continued with the abuse. I understand that in Igboland, divorce is looked down upon, but c'mon. There are exceptions to every rule.We told her to leave him, come and stay with us, but NO!!! "He is my husband. I made a vow before Chineke" Did she also vow to be treated like a piece of shit, NO, but she continued with her marriage.

She allowed this to happen for 29 Years Of Marriage. Till he was diagnosed with massive artery clogs (kene Chukwu for palm oil), and died within the year.
So now she is a widow, who has no life of her own. What can she do eh? Her husband thought for her, told her what to do. Now she is just a mmuo walking around.

As for the bolded, I still maintain before God that I have never in my adult life been at a party where people are scrambling for food. maybe your loneliness is making you things about me that are not right. Or you always assume that whatever happens to you is wehat happens to everyone else on earth.