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Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by festusfeezy(m): 2:01pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by izaray(f): 2:11pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice.Do u av any plans of making her ur wife soon? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Why not ? If you really love her and she possesses the quality you want in a woman then you'll wait !!! |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Mimienudles(f): 2:17pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Marriage or Sex, stay calm and look at the better side o' a love relationship with someone you love. Stay with her please |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by merieam16(f): 2:36pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
@op wc advise do u need? U don't need any advise frm any body...she has told u wat she want,if u want 2 abide its ur choice n its all depends on ur intention 2rds her 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
You should. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MabraO: 2:43pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice. Bros never believe any Virgin that tell u this She will go meet some other guys to dis V her den den come back to u If I tell u my story u go pity me One even had a baby as a result of the guy disVing her she come dey preach love for me 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
If you're gonna marry her then by all means go ahead! Who buys a car without test-driving? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
That girl go dey Bleep another boy dey lie for u , why r nigerians girls so doro super mega evil |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by BeeBeeOoh(m): 3:06pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Am coming *Modified* Stay wit her if she's 1 but, if she isn't; uncle u are sitting on a long thing.. #teamtestdrivingbeforebuyingacar# 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Because church is the biggest fashion centre in Africa |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 3:08pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice. Fhuck her.. Never get married to a virgin girl.. NEVER!! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Lilimax(f): 3:11pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Lilimax(f): 3:12pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice.Please respect her wish... You'll not die if you did not sleep with her. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:15pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body. I won't rule out the fact that there are ladies out there who have sinister motives when they say "I don't wanna get down just yet" But there are also ladies who have very pure motives and only place an embargo on that area because of the values they've been raised with. For some people, doing anything that upsets their core values could bring about a negative shift in their mental sanity. It could cause undesirable effects to the relationship as a whole. OP, I have described two scenarios above, which do you think suits her best? From the tone of your post, I take it, it's the second one. I know it's not easy, but please respect her wish. Respect her wish because You love her. Respect her wish because You have her best interest at heart. I promise you this, you will not regret. I have this feeling that you think she's a great blessing to you and ordinarily you wouldn't mind, save for other people's experiences & opinion. If you still believe in honour and nobility, then you'll know that whether or not that is what she desires, The right thing to do, if and when we can, is to abstain from sex until marriage. I'm not saying this as an absolute, it's a case of different strokes for different folks. We ought to have power and control over our bodies and emotions, Not the other way round. Let's treat our bodies and that of our partners with the respect that is due them. No one has arrived or apprehended or has it all together on this matter, But then....... Where there is a will, there is a way. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:16pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:18pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Oh, She even said bride price. Not the cliche "wedding night" Either ways, OP Do the right thing |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Emilliw3m(m): 3:19pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Little push, bro. B@ng her . She's urs nd u have nofin to loss. Be smartt 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 3:20pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: My darling... Why the sad face!? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MadCow1: 3:22pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body. Lol... Double standards!! If he respects your wishes abi... What of his wishes to get some? Ehn own wish no dey worthy of respecting abi? Kai... Men don suffer.. OP... Na konji go break ur prick.. dey there dey form gentle jack. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 3:23pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Oh,What's the "right" thing? |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Lilimax(f): 3:23pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body.You nailed it on the head. I agreed totally with you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by ichidodo: 3:26pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
make i book space... |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:28pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MadCow1: Eishhhhhhh I was accused of Multiple standards just last week, now you! Leave him be joor. If he's willing to abstain, then by all means, we should be encouraging him. Y'know, even though sex is really important to a man, I refuse to believe his world should revolve around the act. Let's not forget that the lady in question must have sacrificed alot for him too. Madcow (No, you're not one ) Who nuh go nuh know. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:33pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Right in this case is relative. But in his case, that'd be till she's ready. Then they can do it anyhow, anystyle, anyweather. Because, she'll be at peace with self. Usually, in that kind of dance, it takes two to I take it you already know by now that, having a fulfilling intimate moment with your partner is highly dependent on her emotional and psychological position at the time? Apatheist: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Tallesty1(m): 3:35pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
festusfeezy: For quite 8months now we ve been in love seriously, and I met her as a Virgin. she promised to do everything to prove her love for me, but never to loose her virginity till I do the necessary things. Pls nairalanders I need advice.Well, if she is a good girl then it is worth the wait but I'd advise you to get a heart-reparing-kit just incase Me no get any business with virgins. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi:What if she's not really a virgin and is "using" him? Happened to one of my mates in campus. The girl was forming Virgin, saying they should wait till marriage. The mumu guy dey use her dey brag, say e go marry virgin. E no know say a lot of her course mates don phuck the girl finish. The guy hear am, phuck the girl by force, call off the marriage. My advice: OP should check if she's really a virgin. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by gsalvatore: 3:43pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
8months? Are you the Defender of Virgins? Deep down that girl dey see you as mumuoid. Fvck that girl .Fornication of your constitutional right. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by achinaboy(m): 3:46pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body. |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by achinaboy(m): 3:48pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi: One way I'll know that a man loves me is if he respects my wishes, especially as it pertains my body.i love the way u present ur case,u could be future chinue achebe,,das a compliment 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:54pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Hmmmmph That's where we're missing the point! So those who are not virgins should keep phucking away their lives until they land Mr Right, huh? So, this young girl, due to misinformation and other societal woes causes her to loose her virginity. Somewhere along the line, she sobers up. She genuinely decides to zip up, because she is convinced it's the right thing to do. Now all things being equal in this case, Any guy who still decides to coerce that girl into doing such (afterall he will marry her), having seen through her sincerity, has no love for her and is at best, what I'd describe as a master manipulator. Quote me anywhere. Virgin or not, let her be the one who gives you the dance, because you requested or she to'ally felt like it. Not because you subtly threatened, coerced or manipulated her into it (Oh yeah, I'm that old fashioned). Give everyone grace, especially those who are trying to make something good out of the remainder of their lives. Apatheist: |
Re: Should I Respect Her Virginity Till I Pay For Her Bride Price? by MizMyColi(f): 3:55pm On Sep 15, 2014 |
Thancuuuu achinaboy: |
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