andromida: So if you will not be born again, her parents will not give their blessings what next?

andromida: So if you will not be born again, her parents will not give their blessings what next?

mployer: just get born again and save your self the stress of telling lies or loosing ur love


btw, two things are certain; you don't love her that much and she's not born again.

Amhappy: Well OP dont lie but consider to be a born again too

adahib:

You may be correct in your summation but becoming born again is not as easy as you think given the fact that I don't believe in it. Let's do a little L.A.R.P. Say you want to get married to a girl, you meet her parents and you get asked if you worship and believe in ifa. Will you automatically start worshipping ifa or will you say a simple "no" and damn the consequences? I await your reply. Thanks

adahib:

Life continues I guess. Don't you agree?

andromida:

Its an assumption that her parents will ask if you are born again, its also an assumption that they will not give their blessing if you are not instead of dillydallying do the meet already so you both know which way forward. The earlier you meet with her parents the quicker you decide if it is to be or not to be.

mployer:
Well, in the first instance I wouldn't think of gething married to an ifa worshiping lady if I dont have plans to starting worshiping ifa. There is such thing as faith compatibility in marriage.

If You are not born again and got no hope of gething born again, then don't hang around born again ladies, it won't end well.

Are You a Christian in the first place. Do You believe in God?
Lets Start from there.

adahib:

Staying away from born again ladies? Believe me I avoid them like the black plague but I guess I didn't see this one coming. Perhaps because she is one of the new generation born again without the usual look and carriage of the older generation. I was looking for a smart lady with sound morals and in her,i found my perfect woman. By the time I realized,i was already hooked.
Don't know what you mean by "am I christian". All I can say is I was born into a christian family and I do go to church when I can but the entire gospel thing doesn't add up in my head. If you may be so kind to look up the meaning of agnosticism, you'll have a fair idea of where I stand and for that reason,i still go to church when I can with the hope that one day,i may be convinced enough to believe.

adahib:

I can't disagree with you. I share the same opinion but the young lady wants me to hold on until she can either convert or convince me. Well,a brother can't wait forever.

texbaba1: my humble advice for you is that you could say No, you are not a born again christian...but that one of the reasons you wanna marry their daugther is that so she will be able to help you build your spiritual life. Remember, love also involve sacrifice and compromise, unless u dont rily love her as deeply as u claim. this is because at some point, i believe God will touch ur heart through her prayers and you may eventually become a devout christian. so dont loose someone you truely Love now cos of that, as u think of the future negatively, also think of it positively.

adahib:

My good sir, this is the most plausible case scenario I've considered for a while now and baring an epiphany, will be my retort if faced with the question. I mean, I'm an agnostic and not an atheist after all.

mployer:

Its certain You are not a Christian and your girl Is not born again.The problem here is her born again parents, and I don't see them consenting to the marriage.

You might have no problem if You end up as husband and wife, its Just a union between two unbelievers. The issue is how far Can You go to make That happen? Tell lie or tell the truth and try your luck. I Will recommend the later anyway.

Ishilove:
You sef your grama is too much

okparaugo: You said you are not born again, so why are you bothered about lieing ?

Try and be born again. Okay ?

adahib:

My madam no be so oo...hehehehe

Ishilove:
Na so. You jus dey blow di tin, dey confuse manpikin.

adahib:

Hahaha. I sure say if you mean am, you fit wound me with grammar.....

Ishilove:
Lol. I can, but it will not add a kobo to my bank account, so I won't.

adahib:

Thank you for sparing me a few bruises ma'am.....