plus_Queen:

There's a difference between alcoholism and drinking alcohol.

Thank you Osisi. I've been trying to explain this for about an hr now. Maybe he'll listen to you.

@ Ruby, I wouldn't marry a wife beater.
He's as dangerous to me as a smoker

@plu_queen:
Neither.
A wife beater will kill me,a smoker will kill himself and kill me
Both spell death.


I think all of it is really a bad habit, and how about talking about a man who goes around partying everyday and returning home at the early morning hour all days in the week , Its just sucks i tell you, drinking has limit, smoking also have a limit of its, but i think the best is smoking have more dangerous to drunk

KarmaMod:

Yes I am. What's the difference between inhaling smoke and sniffing coke? Really what is the difference? The human body sees both are UNWANTED foreign things circulating in the blood. Both also lead to addictions.

So yea unlike your poor comparison before, mine makes sense.

No difference whatsoever.
They both die slowly and deny they have any problems.
The coke snorter at least kills himself but the smoker is also trying to kill me

my lion is back,im off

make una continue dey argue who smoke and who no smoke,i will catch up in the morrow

KarmaMod:

Thank you Osisi. I've been trying to explain this for about an hr now. Maybe he'll listen to you.

Alcoholism = drinking alcohol.
One would easily lead to the other.
U cannot be an alcoholic without taking alcohol.

plus_Queen:

There's a difference between alcoholism and drinking alcohol.

It's the same thing.
4 pints alcohol is enough to impair one's judgement when driving.
Do you know how many people that have died as a result of DUI?

Okija_juju:

Let me rephrase the question.

[size=18pt]What would you do to a spouse who starts smoking after you have been married with kids??[/size]

Divorce??

Does Divorce scare you? Anything wrong with getting a divorce?

KarmaMod:

Yes I am. What's the difference between inhaling smoke and sniffing coke? Really what is the difference? The human body sees both are UNWANTED foreign things circulating in the blood. Both also lead to addictions.

So yea unlike your poor comparison before, mine makes sense.

r u for real?  

i can see now u r absolutely clueless . , 

I give up, u win! i am going to sleep, i can see now this all a waste of time

smokers are all spawns of d devil and we all deserve to rot in hell for our immoral and unethical habit!

_{good night pple}

timmfikk:

I think all of it is really a bad habit, and how about talking about a man who goes around partying everyday and returning home at the early morning hour all days in the week , Its just sucks i tell you, drinking has limit, smoking also have a limit of its, but i think the best is smoking have more dangerous to drunk

There's a reason why you spend months or years with a man before marrying him.
No man can pretend for so long.
If during our courting he seems like he has psychological problem, that he'll need cigars to settle himself, then me, I don comot.

Okija_juju:

Let me rephrase the question.

[size=18pt]What would you do to a spouse who starts smoking after you have been married with kids??[/size]

Divorce??

Possibly. I never agreed to marry a smoker, so why should I stay with one?
I cannot love a smoker, so dnt bother preaching love to me

@ Karmamod

Hells no. I aint scared of nothing just wondering if your marriage is worth giving up over cigarettes.

jennykadri:

my lion is back,I'm off

make una continue dey argue who smoke and who no smoke,i will catch up in the morrow

I hope that lion is neither a joe six pack  abi 3 cartons  or a walking chimney

HR.hotness:


smokers are all spawns of d devil and we all deserve to rot in hell for our immoral and unethical habit!

If that's the way you see it. . . .
and it would have helped if you saw smoking as this earlier.
You wouldn't have been heading towards cancer

~Sauron~:

Alcoholism = drinking alcohol.
One would easily lead to the other.
U cannot be an alcoholic without taking alcohol.


It's the same thing.
4 pints alcohol is enough to impair one's judgement when driving.
Do you know how many people that have died as a result of DUI?

First off
I don't drink
I sought a man that doesn't drink
I got one.
My standards are high

But I know that one glass of wine every now and then will not kill.

Ruby_Pearl:

If that's the way you see it. . . .
and it would have helped if you saw smoking as this earlier.
You wouldn't have been heading towards cancer

and i repeat; my body, my cancer and aboslutely none of ur business!



_{cldnt resist. . . now i'm really off}  

plus_Queen:

First off
I don't drink
I sought a man that doesn't drink
I got one.
My standards are high

But I know that one glass of wine every now and then will not kill.

If u say so. . . . . . .

HR.hotness:

i can see now u r absolutely clueless . ,  

I give up, u win! i am going to sleep, i can see now this all a waste of time

smokers are all spawns of d devil and we all deserve to rot in hell for our immoral and unethical habit!

No offence but you are the last person to call anyone clueless, especially me. If anything your contributions have been embarrassing, not to mention the way you write.

and please save the lame sarcastic quip for someone else. No one is calling you 'devil spawn" so spare us the "oh woe is me", point is don't come here crying like some abused child when you are the one questioning people's reasons for not wanting to date/marry a smoker

If you had minded your business jeje and stayed with just "no big deal", all this yada yada wouldnt have happened.

Go cry a river on someone else's shoulder. You keep acting like people are talking about your life. Who cares about your life? Who cares about what you do with it? No one gives a shit. This thread was about personal decisions, you tried to make it about you and here lies the result.

HR.hotness:

and i repeat; my body, my cancer and aboslutely none of ur business!

you betcha it ain't.
Baby doll, I got no money to pay for your carelessness.

HR.hotness:

and i repeat; my body, my cancer and aboslutely none of ur business!



_{cldnt resist. . . now i'm really off}  

when I have to work with you,sit beside you not by design,commute with you and inhale your "cancer" as I walk down the street then there's a problem.
It becomes a social ill.

plus_Queen:

when I have to work with you,sit beside you not by design,commute with you and inhale your "cancer" as I walk down the street then there's a problem.
It becomes a social ill.

seriously.
Nasty smelling pigs. . . . I just can't stand the odor.
I feel like am suffocating, I wouldn't be able to breathe

But I know that one glass of wine every now and then will not kill.

This statement reeks of hypocrisy. A glass of wine might just knock him out and he would drive off third mainland bridge. So much for high standards.

and i repeat; my body, my cancer and aboslutely none of ur business!



cldnt resist. . . now i'm really off

Copy that.

And I am also out. All this arguement has got my nerves frayed. _{Where's my very good friend Mr. Benson}

This nicotine of a thing is more addicting than crack.
Come and see them around hospitals smoking through their tracheostomies.
Cancer patients puffing away through a hole in their necks.
It's disgusting
not even the scare of death can jumpstart their brains into nomalcy

alagolo, I blame you for this rubbish anyway. dont know why you made this thread about the chic.

wo cares if she smokes or gets cancer or whatever. What does it matter. Thread was asking about personal perference and some people felt the need to make it about them. Like they mean anything.

and i repeat; my body, my cancer and aboslutely none of ur business!

You're taking this to be more personal than every one of us see it. What you need to know is that there are times which all this things can be useful for just health or weather purpose, but thats only if its really good for you, but when anyone is smoking about 12 stick per day, can you see thats too much, Imagine in Naija you will see those man who are not able to pay the school fee of their children taking about 8-14 bottles of stout daily, thats heck and sucks, they are digging a death trap for their health, and as well teaching their children to continue with the same attitude in future, and this will continue in their Generation

Okija_juju:

This statement reeks of hypocrisy. A glass of wine might just knock him out and he would drive off third mainland bridge. So much for high standards.  

Im sure knowing he had a glass of wine, he wouldnt go off and drive. Seriously enough with these pathetic excuses.

as long as they insist on puffing in open spaces where the rest of society dwells and using the earth as their ashtray,they are our problem.

KarmaMod:

alagolo, I blame you for this rubbish anyway. don't know why you made this thread about the chic.

wo cares if she smokes or gets cancer or whatever. What does it matter. Thread was asking about personal perference and some people felt the need to make it about them. Like they mean anything.

I blame myself too jor.
Nonsense. . . . make she smoke her life away.
Comparing a car accident to smoking, tht is just sad

Marry a guy who smokes? Lai Lai - I cannot stand the smell of it any where in my house not to talk of in my bed. I will not even start with such a person.

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I guess this man also need your advice

Ruby_Pearl:

I blame myself too jor.
Nonsense. . . . make she smoke her life away.
Comparing a car accident to smoking, that is just sad

when she gets lung cancer that[b] she brought on by her addiction[/b],she loses her job,her health insurance drops her,I pay for her care.
It is my problem.
She is robbing me

plus_Queen:

This nicotine of a thing is more addicting than crack.
Come and see them around hospitals smoking through their tracheostomies.
Cancer patients puffing away through a hole in their necks.
It's disgusting
not even the scare of death can jumpstart their brains into nomalcy

Abi o.
Come arnd the hospital here.
These patient are so addicted.
One man kept asking everyone around the main entrance if they had matches.
Begging like a lil kid. so sick!

Lmao dont know who these people think they are fooling.

Everyone knows Nigerians can be such wannabes. Most Nigerians that smoke in other countries do it to seem cool and "rebellious". as in "I'm so cooler than you guys that were told this and that" blah blah.

All that 'calm my nerves" and other nonsense is just cover up for how fake they are.

especially those bloody Nigerian Brits.

KarmaMod:

Lmao don't know who these people think they are fooling.

Everyone knows Nigerians can be such wannabes. Most Nigerians that smoke in other countries do it to seem cool and "rebellious". as in "I'm so cooler than you guys that were told this and that" blah blah.

All that 'calm my nerves" and other nonsense is just cover up for how fake they are.

especially those bloody Nigerian Brits.

calm which nerves.
we don't have nerves in Nigeria
we are built strong.

if we had nerves, lack of nepa,water and plenty armed robbers would have killed everyone.
we're still doing owanbes and naming ceremonies and people are talking of nerves.
for where?

Lmao osisi you are crazy

Seriously these people do it to say "Im not like a typical Nigerian". That's all it is then eventually they get addicted