pro01: Yimu. All this one na story. I trust my withdrawal method, and it has never failed me in my long 'career'. I always withdraw at the point of no return - even with a condom firmly in place. No chance of any yeye pregnancy. No time for stories that touch.

You can't foist an unwanted pregnancy on me; that was not part of the bargain when we had consensual sex.

pro01: Yimu. All this one na story. I trust my withdrawal method, and it has never failed me in my long 'career'. I always withdraw at the point of no return - even with a condom firmly in place. No chance of any yeye pregnancy. No time for stories that touch.

coogar:

i hope you are aware some women have actually gone through the stress of artificially inseminating themselves with used condoms just to force parenthood on their men. if she's determined to make you a father, you shall become one.

golden treasure: Anyway sha, paying for child's support no be by force. But pls don't ever come to claim the child l8tr in life.

datalossvictim1: Ha!! When did children become chocolates that you might want or not want them You are dealing with a human life here. Extra caution needs to be taken by both male and female partners when it comes to sexual intercourse. Pregnancies occur for different reasons. If a pregnancy resulted from the carelessness of both parties then both parties would have to take full responsibility for that child. Abortion would be highly frowned upon in this circumstance. In another instance, if the pregnancy resulted from the woman's carelessness then It can be understandable if the man refuses to care for the child.

However this is not to excuse the notion being upheld by the op. Refusing to support your child simply because you didn't want it is totally selfish and not religious especially if we take Nigeria as a case study. I am very certain proponents and opponents of the ops assertion are Christians. I don't want to become biased or judgemental but you cannot go to your house of worship and scream and then come to the corner and ask for abortion. In fact the question of why were you having sex in the first place would be asked.

Let us move away from the religious perspective. It is morally wrong to exclaim abortion simply because you took precautionary steps. A society that functions under such principles might be damaging itself. As humans, we should be able to protect ourselves and to encourage human life. A human error should not be corrected by simply killing another potential human. Some have argued that life begins at conception. So this means that you are not just killing a foetus but an actual human being. Therefore the man advocating an abortion for his unborn child is simply a murderer.

It is also interesting to note that there is no contraception that offers 100% proof. The highest is 99 and that one percent matters a lot.

To finish my epistle, a man should be willing to help his child regardless of the circumstances that brought about the child. The only ridiculousness would be when the woman requests for an exorbitant amount of child support.

shoefreak:

And that's where the issh lies. I knew someone and 14 years later without any child, he came looking for the child he didn't accept.

If he wants to walk, he should walk and never look back.

pro01:

I personally dispose my used condom by flushing it down the toilet immediately - by myself. No story o.

swag loverss: If a man tells woman to get an abortion and she refuses, why should he be forced to pay child support?

For instance, a man impregnated a woman and decides that he is not mentally, physically or financially able to support a child and tells the mother to go get an abortion and the woman refuses, why should the man have to pay child support?.

I mean if a woman decides to keep the baby, that's her decision, not the man's. The man made it clear that he didn't want the child then why should he have to take care of the child since it was the woman who wanted to keep it and not him?

naijababe: If walking away now means walking away forever, I'm cool.

Sophyrocks:

Keep withdrawing. It will soon fail you. It seems you dnt know ladies get pregnant even when their men withdrew. Google is your friend. That pre-cum your peewee releases before you e*j*a*c*ulate contains sperm enough to form a child. Keep deceiving yourself. It will fail you soon. Then your eye go open waaaaaaaa!!!!!

pickabeau1:

LOL.. i really will like to hear from her anyway
Earlier i mentioned cherrypicking

Let me call EnlightenedSoul maybe she has some thing to say about a feminist that finds abortion akin to murder



LOL,,...are u calling them situational

Situational Feminism.. nice ring to it too

naijababe:

Thread closed!

coogar:

and on the off-chance this condom of yours broke and she gets pregnant? you also mentioned you are a big fan of withdrawal method - what if she scoops the seeds you left on the sheets into her vägina while you were busy cleaning up in the bathroom?

coogar:

interesting!
so when a man wants a child & a woman doesn't want one and she goes ahead to about the child, the spërm is not his own then, abi?

your logic is hilarious!

EnlightenedSoul:

Feminism is about rights. Feminism supports the RIGHT to abort, it doesn't shove that right down your throat.

It's a choice.

pro01:
No chance. Your evil prayer will go unanswered. I'll only have a child when I want to, and with whom I want to. Can I get a loud amen?

datalossvictim1: Ha!! When did children become chocolates that you might want or not want them You are dealing with a human life here. Extra caution needs to be taken by both male and female partners when it comes to sexual intercourse. Pregnancies occur for different reasons. If a pregnancy resulted from the carelessness of both parties then both parties would have to take full responsibility for that child. Abortion would be highly frowned upon in this circumstance. In another instance, if the pregnancy resulted from the woman's carelessness then It can be understandable if the man refuses to care for the child.

However this is not to excuse the notion being upheld by the op. Refusing to support your child simply because you didn't want it is totally selfish and not religious especially if we take Nigeria as a case study. I am very certain proponents and opponents of the ops assertion are Christians. I don't want to become biased or judgemental but you cannot go to your house of worship and scream and then come to the corner and ask for abortion. In fact the question of why were you having sex in the first place would be asked.

Let us move away from the religious perspective. It is morally wrong to exclaim abortion simply because you took precautionary steps. A society that functions under such principles might be damaging itself. As humans, we should be able to protect ourselves and to encourage human life. A human error should not be corrected by simply killing another potential human. Some have argued that life begins at conception. So this means that you are not just killing a foetus but an actual human being. Therefore the man advocating an abortion for his unborn child is simply a murderer.

It is also interesting to note that there is no contraception that offers 100% proof. The highest is 99 and that one percent matters a lot.

To finish my epistle, a man should be willing to help his child regardless of the circumstances that brought about the child. The only ridiculousness would be when the woman requests for an exorbitant amount of child support.

datalossvictim1: Ha!! When did children become chocolates that you might want or not want them You are dealing with a human life here. Extra caution needs to be taken by both male and female partners when it comes to sexual intercourse. Pregnancies occur for different reasons. If a pregnancy resulted from the carelessness of both parties then both parties would have to take full responsibility for that child. Abortion would be highly frowned upon in this circumstance. In another instance, if the pregnancy resulted from the woman's carelessness then It can be understandable if the man refuses to care for the child.

However this is not to excuse the notion being upheld by the op. Refusing to support your child simply because you didn't want it is totally selfish and not religious especially if we take Nigeria as a case study. I am very certain proponents and opponents of the ops assertion are Christians. I don't want to become biased or judgemental but you cannot go to your house of worship and scream and then come to the corner and ask for abortion. In fact the question of why were you having sex in the first place would be asked.

Let us move away from the religious perspective. It is morally wrong to exclaim abortion simply because you took precautionary steps. A society that functions under such principles might be damaging itself. As humans, we should be able to protect ourselves and to encourage human life. A human error should not be corrected by simply killing another potential human. Some have argued that life begins at conception. So this means that you are not just killing a foetus but an actual human being. Therefore the man advocating an abortion for his unborn child is simply a murderer.

It is also interesting to note that there is no contraception that offers 100% proof. The highest is 99 and that one percent matters a lot.

To finish my epistle, a man should be willing to help his child regardless of the circumstances that brought about the child. The only ridiculousness would be when the woman requests for an exorbitant amount of child support.

donnypool:
well if i understood what you are saying, then i'll say if she doesn't want it and he wants it, then the problem is a bit complicated because she is the one who will carry the child for 9months. so if she doesn't want it, there can be a mutual agreement or she probably won't let him know about it. But in all, both are responsible for the child's care be it male or female.

pro01:
My powerful 'chi' will always prevent me from meeting - let alone fcking - any woman with such sinister schemes. Na only nice girls looking to have a good time with a great guy I dey meet.

Sophyrocks:
Bro, whether you like it or not, s*e*x results to pregnancy. If all options employed to prevent pregnancy fails, of which we are all aware that they all fail in many instances, then as a man who took an action MUST be ready for the consequences. As a sensible man, you MUST be ready to accept that pregnancy is inevitable!!!

tammie24:
I million Kisses for you Tallesty1. You said it all!

pickabeau1:

Thats not the question.. smartly sidestepped
So is abortion murder or not
What was the rationale for the turning point from abortion as murder to what it is now....

coogar:

don't tell me the problem is complicated - tell me why it's fair for women to have all the choices but men cannot. if she wants the baby, she keeps it whether the man agrees or not. if she doesn't want the baby, she aborts it whether the man agrees or not.

is that a fair deal to you?

Titiluvly:
Its well with you!