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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
pickabeau how was i being uncouth.i only said the truth.in most of ur posts u always talk about feminists its like u are addicted to them |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by armadeo(m): 6:31pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Shoo or. You be lawyer. Which one be written agreement before playing match. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by BABE3: 6:31pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
pickabeau1: I appreciate the feminists that actually fought for women rights; the basic rights. It's very easy for these salty, clueless and lazy females to use feminism as a platform to air their büllshït. Salty females; the ones that got jilted by a man, or the ones that had an absentee father/ serial cheat father. The men eaters. Clueless females; the ones that think the word "feminist" sounds cool, so why not join the movement. It makes them sound intellectual. Lazy females; the ones that think men owe them something; or they're entitled to gold and silver because they have a vaägina. You'll see that every present day feminist you know fits into one or more of these categories. 5 Likes |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by whitecat007: 6:33pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
If you can't keep it zipped or use protection, be ready to be writing those checks for lets say 25yrs. The choice is yours. You can't control what others do when you cant control yourself. Why go in there bare if you are not ready to be a a dad? 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Personally, I will never have or support abortion. If i get raped today and become preggers as result I will have the baby. It is very important for people to understand there is no greater crime or immorality than to make a child suffer for the foolhardiness of grown-ups. If I was 19 and the f00l who chooked me decide not to take responsibility, I will still do the same but the f00l berra not turn up 20 yrs later asking to be reunited with his kid. We have to learn to take some damn responsibility o jare. If you don't want a baby get hand-job or buy a rabbit. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by seegobe(m): 6:37pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
seegobe........u should have use condom instead.....the holy books is not in support of such act...i will advice u to take full care of your resposibility...cos u dont know what the child will become in future. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
justi4jesu: Only Cowards impregnants a lady and ask for abortion.Oh, dear. The brains on some humans. 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by pickabeau1: 6:39pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
BABE!: Youve killed it.. [img]http://mybroadband.co.za/vb/attachment.php?attachmentid=125809&d=1403001498[/img] fresh_dude: Exactly, thank you. Nice one bro dhammyg: pickabeau how was i being uncouth.i only said the truth.in most of ur posts u always talk about feminists its like u are addicted to them You cant even begin to comprehend what the truth is Its beyond ur reasoning capacity at this point which is why u find such an insultive statement funny What is more pathetic is that u actually think u are being sensible |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by armadeo(m): 6:39pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
BABE!: No disrespect to women but you are one of the few who the word logic is in their dictionary in other females emotion appears in two places. I applaud you. 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by ablyguy(m): 6:40pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
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Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
BABE!: I tell ya like free the boobs movement I am so proudly non-feminist, unless of course we are talking about feminists who actually for a formidable cause |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by kaima1984(f): 6:41pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.perfect answer my dear |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
pickabeau is mad i said the truth ANYWAYS BACK TO WATCHING FOOTY.NO NEED TO ARGUE WITH NINCOMPOOPS 3 Likes |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
ablyguy: I still stand by what i said earlier. Dnt do the 'Do' if you can't do the time. If your peewee is demanding you chuk it into anything, go and get married. As for dictating to you how you deal with it, dictation will not come in if you naturally take responsibilities. Humans are selfish and will always be unruly which is why irresponsible men have to be forced to pay child support. Or do you enjoy seeing single mothers and fatherless children without some support to care for the kids all over the place? 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by whitecat007: 6:57pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
The "lazy female" category has been here since the foundation of the earth. Love me with time, great ssexx and your wallet too. You don't have to have it if you can live without it or better still get the plastic ones from the adult store, they come with long hair and nice faces now, but are non responsive and you have to do all the work, your choice BABE!: |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
swag loverss: If a man tells woman to get an abortion and she refuses, why should he be forced to pay child support? If the guy doesnt want a child, he shouldn't get a girl pregnant or probably shouldn't be having unprotected sex. If a guy is wanting a girl to take the risk of having an abortion, he too should be bold enough to detach his manhood from his body. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
swag loverss: If a man tells woman to get an abortion and she refuses, why should he be forced to pay child support?any man that can bleep should take car of the friut of his labour. Abortion is not an option |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by vainfairy: 7:03pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Meestique: What's a man who's not mentally, physically nd financially able to support a child doing impregnating a woman? & what's dat woman doing/thinkin wit her pants down wit a man who's not mentally, physically nd financially able to support a child?& she went ahead 2get preggies 4him? Lubbish!!! 1 Like |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Wow! Okay this is a very tricky one. But in all honesty, if the guy said he didn't want a child then she shouldn't expect him to pay any child support. It shouldn't be made into his responsibility but he should not be a sourpuss and get all defensive. Hian! It doesn't have to be money, he can pay fees directly to school and all that. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by taiwoti(m): 7:06pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
My point is sex doesn't only benefit the man, both parties agreed and choose to enjoy every bit of the pleasure, the bible even say can two people walk unless they agree, when the issue of pregnancy kicks in its the fault of both parties because they choose to let it happen, because both parties can choose to use condom and can equally prevent it from happening, so when the lady gets pregnant eventually, I feel its her sole choice to be pregnant, and hence she should bear the brunt, because the guy has expressly made his intention know of nt keeping the baby, so he shouldn't be forced to pay for any child support, this issue is really far from RESPONSIBILITY in the part of the man. Its her sole choice, just that she didn't pick the right option to avoid the pregnancy. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 7:07pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
donnypool: he took precautions but the condom leaked. should he pay child support for 18 years because of an accident he did not commit deliberately? shoefreak: Wow! Okay this is a very tricky one. But in all honesty, if the guy said he didn't want a child then she shouldn't expect him to pay any child support. It shouldn't be made into his responsibility but he should not be a sourpuss and get all defensive. Hian! It doesn't have to be money, he can pay fees directly to school and all that. taiwoti: My point is sex doesn't only benefit the man, both parties agreed and choose to enjoy every bit of the pleasure, the bible even say can two people walk unless they agree, when the issue of pregnancy kicks in its the fault of both parties because they choose to let it happen, because both parties can choose to use condom and can equally prevent it from happening, so when the lady gets pregnant eventually, I feel its her sole choice to be pregnant, and hence she should bear the brunt, because the guy has expressly made his intention know of nt keeping the baby, so he shouldn't be forced to pay for any child support, this issue is really far from RESPONSIBILITY in the part of the man. Its her sole choice, just that she didn't pick the right option to avoid the pregnancy. sane people have finally arrived on this thread. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by goldentreasure: 7:09pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Anyway sha, paying for child's support no be by force. But pls don't ever come to claim the child l8tr in life. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by vainfairy: 7:14pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
fresh_dude: you need to read the OP 17 more times before your next comment. Lolllzzz!! bros, u harsh o!! but seriously, d mofo has no business commentin on dis thread, IQ's too low 2grasp wots been discussed here!!! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
vainfairy:Nna, I just tire for some "humans" |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.Its well with you! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
[quote author=coogar] he took precautions but the condom leaked. should he pay child support for 18 years because of an accident he did not commit deliberately? yes he should, because the sperm is his and not mine. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by seedorfg(m): 7:21pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Fucker are liable to accept pregnancy an baby tshikena |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Herrmes: 7:21pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
If it's me, you're on your own, even that divorce sh!t that the lady will get half if your stuffs Mehn, I'll start having offshore accounts, BS! I don't want to support the child and nothing is changing my mind, I want to divorce and you're not getting sh!t |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by coogar: 7:22pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
donnypool: interesting! so when a man wants a child & a woman doesn't want one and she goes ahead to abort the child, the spërm is not his own then, abi? your logic is hilarious! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by whitecat007: 7:22pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Ladies! Please make men sign the checks with their benders o jare! |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Yimu. All this one na story. I trust my withdrawal method, and it has never failed me in my long 'career'. I always withdraw at the point of no return - even with a condom firmly in place. If the toto like make e sweet pass saccharin. No chance of any yeye pregnancy. No time for stories that touch. You can't foist an unwanted pregnancy on me; that was not part of the bargain when we had consensual sex. |
Re: Should Men Be Forced To Pay For Kids They Didn't Want? by tammie24: 7:26pm On Jul 05, 2014 |
Tallesty1: What are you even saying? If you are bold enough to fvck and impregnate a gal then you must also be strong and brave enough to stand up and be a father. Stop denying your responsibilities.I million Kisses for you Tallesty1. You said it all! |
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