@farano:
Gay alert! *shakes my left ear*

GSKing: @op, in one of your threads, you said you're celibate. My thought was that you probably haven't given yourself that chance of expressing your feelings the way you want, to someone that's ready to listen. I thought maybe, you haven't been into any relationship, guess i was right.

You're scared of falling in love because relationships are being sexualized, this you know. If you're ready to walk into a relationship, have it at the back of your mind that you might not come out of it as celibate as you walked in.

To some, having same sex attraction doesn't make them gay, until intimacy, which is a wrong notion if you ask me.

As regards the case at hand, I think you're more than just the label, you're not just gay but scared to fall in love(or rather, scared of homosexual intimacy). If you want to enter into a relationship, you should go in with both eyes, head and heart open, be prepared for love, fights, breakups, makeups and séx.

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I've always been of the opinion that people who claim to be gay are mostly confused people who don't understand themselves. . . But really, that's none of my business. [/color]

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I've always been of the opinion that people who claim to be gay are mostly confused people who don't understand themselves. . . But really, that's none of my business. [/color]

Scaredsilent:

Yeah that y they say you people are Str8.... Str8 forward and know what u want.

Our Lives are more "complicated" and "eventful" ...

Scaredsilent:

Thanks GSKing you just described my life though lol u guessed right . I would never know until I take a step forward. Are u in a relationship now?

GSKing:

Come here Mr Man, I've been following you since the days of sexkillz, and its always best to stand on the sidelines if you don't understand the topic of discussion. You have freedom of speech/posts anyway...

@on a serious note, what's with your obsession with frogs and tea bags?

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Wonder how someone uses complicated and eventful in the same sentence. . . But really none of my business tho. I pray belgium defeats argentina. [/color]

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Wonder how someone uses complicated and eventful in the same sentence. . . But really none of my business tho. I pray belgium defeats argentina. [/color]

GSKing:

Nope, im not, im currently using school and final exams as an excuse to dodge relationship, lol.

but deep down, my blueetooth connection is always active, silently searching for a girlfriend

Scaredsilent:

He might be gay... subconsciously ... They say majority of homophobic people are just repressed homosexuals...

Scaredsilent:

He might be gay... subconsciously ... They say majority of homophobic people are just repressed homosexuals...

Scaredsilent: Lol felt a bit annoyed with his reference to the world cup on my thread he hasn't really said anything homophobic.

Scaredsilent:

You sound fun by the way lol. I pray you get a girl too. i should probably put on mine 2 and get me some man lol

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The only defence gay people spring on your face - Homophobic. But then again, they aren't the brightest people. How someone thinks I'm homophobic simply because I disagree with him and have a different opinion, is mind bogging. But then again, I remember some of them are just confused and desperately in need to belong. [/color]

GSKing:

yeah buddy you should, always nice to express your feelings every chance you get



Im gay and homophobia isnt my defense, matter of fact, i don't have a 'defence'. Im not confused and definitely don't need to belong anywhere.

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If I'd wanted this thread ruined, it would have been ruined, trust me. [/color]

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You spoke for yourself. Not the scaredycat that is yet to decide whether to be gay or not, on a day argentina and messi are on the verge of being knocked out like spain. I call that confusion. [/color]

Scaredsilent:

I dont get you Jamie dear... What is your point. My thread was a simple question. So far you have not giving any constructive advise. So far all you said is that I am confused, not bright, and am calling you a homophobe now you want to ruin the thread...

I have already gotten good advise from GSking, Its a free world say what u like... hopefully vistors would get the good part of this thread and not your negative energy.

GSKing:


Lol, im just laughing here shaa, i know i hate cowards and intimidation. I hate bullies too but if you only know what jamie and his friends does to thread they don't like, you'll just laugh with me

please guys, calm it already...

Scaredsilent:

I don't care what he does to the thread. I try to look at the positive and not the negative. i have already gotten something from you that i will add to my life. Keep the additions take out the negatives.

What did you mean by hating cowards?

GSKing:

@bolded means that it would have been painful to me if you had let jamie intimidate you out of your own thread. I love how you stood your ground on the matter, I wanted you to challenge him out of the thread too.

GSKing:

@bolded means that it would have been painful to me if you had let jamie intimidate you out of your own thread. I love how you stood your ground on the matter, I wanted you to challenge him out of the thread too.

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Intimidating someone who calls himself "scared silent" is considered over-kill by me, Jamie. He's scared already. That's enough for me. [/color]

Scaredsilent:

I used that name for a big reason not because I am scared (I used to be). Thats actually the summary of the being gay in our times.

that's the reason y they say Gay people come out of the closet.

We are scared of hate, scared of the judgement, scared of the society, scared of comments like we are confused and not bright.

we are so scared that we become silent and dumb to society.

it is a terrible place to be. its a dark and unforgiving place.

We lie about our beliefs, we lie about our feelings. we force our selves to marry the opposite sex, we force our selves to do what society thinks is normal.

You should be glad you are straight. Being gay is like being born black in the time of slavery on the white man's land. Cause all you would do is be silent and accept you are below the society standard.