Nayah:

Odiaero, being handsome is good at first but for the long term this is not the most important for me, having a responsible, mature and respectful husband is what I call handsome when it comes to marriage

odiaero:

Hi peeps,

The trend is becoming too much with friends i also know, even me i prefer to catch fun with ladies, but when it comes to anything that is related to marriage, is either i change topic or just leave the place.

I prefare to be alone all the time, and catch fun when ever i want to, not the case of someone holding me down as a wife, infact for me, single life is better, because this allows me to go or travel to anywhere i want to without being afraid of anyone that will start questioning where i want to go or the reasons i want to go there

So what do u think?

STAMPED!² Couldn't say more my self! Singleness is BLISS to some Rich Guys!

odiaero:

^^ Sure my friend,  my current girfriend is making me scared of getting married, too many orders, and my weakness is that am just the kind of guy that respect ladies, i dont just get angry even when am suppose to, i try all the time to take in all my angers without displaying it, at last, am still the one to go and beg her for forgiveness, instead of the other way round, just damn funny

Make that 2! And here i was thinking i was the only one! Thank You for that statement! Just goes to show the kind of Person you really are! Permit me to say that ALL THAT is a Real SIGN OF MATURITY! Forget what is obtainable with majority of GUYS!

Natasha,,:

odiaero, there is time for everything obviously you are not ready for marriage it has nothing to do with fear me thinksyou haven't met the right woman cos when you do you'll be the one begging for marriage, just take your time and don't let this bother you, marriage is not just something you jump into as for me if I had my may then I would love to get married at 19 

yusuf_@:

hmm, so we are this many in Number? 

@ Toba, This your "i don't do s\ex" thing is beginning to get on my nerves oh  

okooyinbo:

In Nigeria, there is no point in marrying. If you marry a woman and impregnate her, the child will bear your name. If you impregnate a woman you did not marry, still the child will bear your name. There is absolutely no advantage in sticking to a woman in Nigeria. There are just too many of them who wanna be your MRS.

However, if you are in Europe or Oyinbo man land, dont try to impregnate a woman you no marry o. That one dey bring down finance well well,

Now to the topic, the reasons you are giving are just no excuse not to marry. I have been with a woman who is a very inquisitive oyinbo for almost 20 years, yet I have my freedom. Maybe "modern" African wives are different. I have no experience sha. I could not imagine my aged mother stopping my father (God bless his memory) from doing what he liked doing.