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| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by ayukdaboss(m): 8:20pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Karleb:  |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Onlinebizexpert: If its not friends with benefit am not interested..........this nl lady lynpetra is ma kinda target hahhahahahahahaha me too bro  but guy dont try anything stupid until i get there first  |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Ansell:I can c you guys are excited.  |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
lynpetra: haaaa! But My Lady, i pray thee do not friendzone. I dey fear dat place like die 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by ayukdaboss(m): 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
lynpetra: Hot cake |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by therapisteve(m): 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
I saw a girl coming down the road. I quickly moved near a car and pretended it was mine. I kicked a bit at the front tyre and stood by the side of the door. I could see her staring at me, she walked towards me. I composed a phone call while leaning on the door. Just then she approached me and said "Excuse me!" I pretended not to hear her...After a minute, she again said "Excuse of Sir!" . I said "just a second sweetheart, let me give my last order" i continued on the phone, (this moment I was sure she had fallen for me, i could tell from her impatience). Suddenly, i shouted, "if u don't get here in the next 10 minutes. I'll leave this car and take another home". But just as i moved away from the door, she looked at me - open her handbag, - brought out a key, - opened the door, - hissed at me, - entered and drove away. My mouth was left opened for 5minutes. Pls, what am I...? 3 Likes |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Ansell: but on a more serious note, i like ur last post on "what iz love". It was awesome. Dear, keep it coming. 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by rattlesnake(m): 8:46pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
This rubbish again |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
therapisteve: I saw a girl coming down the road.[/color][color=#006600] a semi 1diot |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
ayukdaboss: You don enter FP now now? |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Wats the biggie about being friend zone anyway   |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by OLAJADON: 8:53pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
[quote author=ayukdaboss]Here’s a typical scenario of how the friend zone situation is for most guys. You meet a girl. You hit it off pretty well. You start being friends. You kinda feel that she kinda has a thing for you, but you’re too scared to make a move. You get an opportunity to take the relationship to the next level, but you’re still too scared so you don’t do anything. Time passes. You’re still friends. You have a great time whenever you’re together, and you’re closer than ever with each other. When you FINALLY do get the courage to say or do something, she delivers the ultimate blow: “I just want to be friends.”  So now you’re trying to find out how to get out of the friend zone and stay out of it, for good. Is there any hope for you? Fortunately, the answer is a resounding “YES!” For most guys, getting out of the friend zone usually means that you had a chance at the beginning, but then somehow, some way, for some reason or the other, YOU BLEW IT. You took a wrong turn somewhere, and ended up in the dreaded friend zone. Trust me I’ve landed in the friend A COUPLE OF TIMES ever since I started liking girls at teenage age. So what do you do now? Here, I’m going to share with you some simple steps on how to get out of the friend zone. Follow them and drop your testimony here later 1.) Accept the reality of the situation. No begging or pleading for her to give you a chance. She made a conscious decision to not be anything more than friends with you, and no amount of convincing will change her mind. Instead, we’re going to approach the situation by working on her irrational and illogical side. Don’t withdraw yourself, but you’ll do much better if you start putting less focus on her and more focus on you at this stage of the process. 2.) Improve yourself. There is no single person in this world who can’t use a touch of self-improvement. Start lifting weights. Start eating healthy. Learn something new. Try out some sports. Get that adrenaline pumping through your veins. Trust me, you’ll feel much better about yourself and gain more self-confidence, and you’ll look better in the process (if you decide to work out). 3.) Have fun with other people. You cannot and should not put all your eggs in one basket, EVER. Even your mum must have told you at some time. Start meeting some people. Your friends have friends who have friends of their own — work different social circles. Meet girls and learn how to flirt well. Ironically, the more women you meet, the better you will do with the girl you’re trying to escape the friend zone with. The more jealous she gets, the better. Girls easily get jealous, take note of that. 4.) Ask her out on a Non-Date. Now the game begins. If she’s hesitant to go out with you on one-to-one basis, start asking her out on Non-Dates. A Non-Date is basically a get-together where you ask her to accompany you doing something that you would do anyway. Something like picking up some stuff, buying some fast food, watching some movies together etc. She’s more likely to go with you than if you ask her to go to dinner. 5.) Flirt with her. The number one reason guys can’t get out of the friend zone is because they don’t realize that it’s a matter of sexual attraction; or rather, the lack of it. So start teasing her playfully. Start with playful compliments until you can eventually move on to flirting that’s more sexual in nature. If I notice that she put on a maybe revealing wear, my favorite line is, “You cannot put that on around me any more, because I’m afraid that one of these days I won’t be able to hold control myself and do something BAD.” 6.) Emphasize your sexuality. If you failed to make a move before, then you can’t be Mr. Touchy all of a sudden — she’ll know what your doing. Start slow with casual touches on the arm, or the small of her back. Then graduate to hugs. If she talks about other guys, then talk about other girls and be very graphic. Make sure that she knows that you are a man who doesn’t repress his sexual urges (it's okay...nothing will happen).  7.) Make your move. If you do steps 5-7 well enough, you will find that you’ll be gradually escalating. Your flirting becomes more sexual by nature, she starts being touchier with you, and your dates become more serious. By the time that this happens, you have done well. To accomplish your mission of getting out of the friend zone, you MUST make your move. There is no way in hell that she is going to be making the first move, but she will be giving you hints that it’s okay to do something now. Do not be a fool and miss this second chance! When opportunity knocks, open the door and pounce on it. And that’s it! I know it’s VERY simplified, but that’s the basic process that you must follow from beginning to end if you want to know how to get out of the friend zone. Lolz#notofriendzone |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by ayukdaboss(m): 8:55pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
lynpetra: Na wetin i Just notice O.... |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Sanchez01: 8:55pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
UjSizzle:you think My lady, you are still in the zone; people who are zoned hope real bad...3 Likes |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by brownlord1: 8:56pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Enough of all this friend zone, friend unit trash, if you stupidly fall into that trap and you don't know how to get out of it, just keep enjoying the promo, after all the friend zone thing is for those wannabe gentlemen. No time to check time with me, straight to the point, if you no sale, carry your market go 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by UrbanMystique: 8:56pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
zeemoore:lmao. This actually made sense and very funny how you presented it.! |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by ayukdaboss(m): 8:56pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
lynpetra: Wats the biggie about being friend zone anyway Have u been friendzoned before? |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Friend zone kor;war zone ni 3 Likes
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| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by 50calibre(m): 8:59pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
I can't be friend zoned, i haven't meet a girl capable of doing that to me because first of all, I'm not a nice guy. I keep my cards close to my chest & play them at the right time. I don't keep girls as close friends maybe just general friends but not close friends. If I make a safe but good enough move, and I don't get the right signal from you or you stall or show indecision, I delete you immediately and move on to the next, maybe even your friend. 9 Likes |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by UrbanMystique: 8:59pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
therapisteve: I saw a girl coming down the road.as shole |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by angela98(f): 9:00pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Abeg this your friend zone insane theory go only work on calabar girls. And maybe on some old Igbo babes 1 Like |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
ayukdaboss: I think so.But blokos plenty everywhere na .Hian!! |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by kingenry(m): 9:00pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
ayukdaboss:i tink am likin dx o lmao |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Okaka27(m): 9:00pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
If yu kiss a girl nd she succumbs nd kisses back, is dat certified she is ya chic? |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Neldrizzy(m): 9:01pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Abeg who know were i feet buy cond0m ?? |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
zeemoore: Correct . I think that's exactly what happens. The moment she says no. Just forget it. That means she no dey feel u at all. |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by UjSizzle(f): 9:01pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Sanchez01:Nah this ain't hope hun. I actually got comfy there and placed him on the same spot too sef. Haven't seen the fella in over 2yrs now though but we still chat every now and then. Suddenly he starts to say some stuff i would expect from some certain dudes not him  |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by ayukdaboss(m): 9:03pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
lynpetra: Lol..I like you 2 Likes |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by pomporiking: 9:05pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
You only get into the friend zone when girls don't see you as a sexual entity anymore.you must be really stupid to let that happen |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
50calibre: I can't be friend zoned, i haven't meet a girl capable of doing that to me because first of all, I'm not a nice guy. Chaiiiiii |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
zeemoore: Hehehehe.. God punish devil, friendzone is a past tense.. |
| Re: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by datedoboi: 9:05pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
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