sandijey:


Correct . I think that's exactly what happens. The moment she says no. Just forget it. That means she no dey feel u at all.

shizzleStar:
Stop the nonsense!

You can make your comment without calling out any tribe

angela98: ha imabong no vex.

ggrin: No am not commotin


I love the side peck she dy always gimme

singlefade25: bad boi, na wa o.

watchthisposter:

Hmmm lemme see...

There was this one girl in school once, before I could/would ask her out, somehow we just hit if off and before I knew it I found myself in her room at night with her with me on her bed, just gisting about stuff - we were friends!... when she started asking me for advice on whether or not to date some guy who was asking her out I saw what was happening and sneakily orchestrated it so that we began to "drift" apart and stopped seeing each other so much, and the obsessing naturally eased over time.

*edit* did I mention she was wearing something really sexy? Everywhere was cool and quiet, we were alone in her room in school at night, just discussing.

If anybody thinks I'm going to bear that kind of torture just to be "friends", you are dead wrong.

Yeboah10: The worst thing that can happen to any boy who
desperately seeks for a Relationship with the girl
he loves so much, is to be made an "Emotional
Balancer" or in other words being friend zoned.

An Emotional Balancer (EmoBa) is a boy who is so
much in-love with a girl that only sees him as a
best-friend. The boy will beg and cry for the girl
to be his girlfriend, but she will refuse and use
him to cure her Emotional Struggles(e-Struggle).
The girl in question will wish her boyfriend has
the good qualities of her best-friend (Emo Ba).

Because her boyfriend will always beat her
maltreat her and cheat on her, and she runs to
cry in the arms of her Emoba. Being so kind, her
Emoba will always console her.
And one painful aspect to this, is that the girl will
attempt to look for a "good" girlfriend for her
Emoba. But she fails to understand that the boy
has refused to date any other girl, except her.
She will claim there is no"connection" between
her and her Emoba that may result to a romantic
relationship... ..but ironically wish her Emoba is
her boyfriend. Something I can't explain.

A confusion that has always existed amongst us.
Funny enough, these so called Emotional
Balancers are boys with good behaviours and
characters..... .boys we will call gentlemen, but they
mysteriously fail to get good girlfriends.
They suffer knowing that some dudes are
seriously banging Ladies they worship and adore.

A girl will refuse to be your girlfriend, but she
wants you to perform responsibilities that are
solely meant for her boyfriend.
She wants you to keep her company everyday,
she wants you to take her clubbing and sight-
seeing, she wants you to tell her jokes and
romantic stories, she wants you to always follow
her to school or market, she wants you to
abandon your female admirers and give her full
attention, she wants you to pet her when she's
angry or her boyfriend abused her.....but the only
responsibility her boyfriend performs is SEX.
I pray you don't spend your days being an
Emotional Balancer.

ChildofChukwu: Very well said. I blew it with my first love/crush who went on to Nollywood. I still beat myself each time I see her on the screen.
Although I never got back to unfriend-zoning myself, I have never let myself get anywhere near that dreaded zone with subsequent girls. Lesson well learnt.

Tefo1759: Why is it that most men can't seem to get what they want with women? How come so many men can't get a girl ? This is why.

1.You give up on a girl after a single rejection.

2.You never push or pursue the things you wanted.

3.You never go out on a limb and ask for stuff in fear of you being turn down.
Brov if shez not into you disappear I mean no phone calls, no bbm just do something meaning ful with yyour time...hangout with friends n meet new girls, [color=#990000][/color]real life girls not online girls n yeah u good to go !

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