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Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
lynpetra:Am jittery....i give up |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
chimoz: Goodnight people, UP NEPA You be poor man sef. Big man no understand say Nepa dey bring light. I reject,cast,bind,any poor person,fire!fire!!fireeeeeeyaaaaaaa!!!!! |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:01am On Jul 13, 2014 |
lynpetra: Am a potential rich man oooooo, maga go soon pay |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Mintayo(m): 12:02am On Jul 13, 2014 |
kaima1984: Make I see all,make I kw all na em make bullet kill monkeyItumo pls? |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:02am On Jul 13, 2014 |
chimoz:Good. |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by cronsberg: 12:02am On Jul 13, 2014 |
I just can't understand african parents and relatives sometimes, they must just interfere and control your life anyhow. They want to choose a name for you, they want you to go to the school they choose, they want to pick out friends for you, and as if thats not enough, they want to choose who you fall in love with and marry. I wonder, when then do i get to live my own live? do my own things? make my own decisions? when? In saner climes, as soon as a guy hits 18years of age, he moves out of his parent's home, find a place he likes for himself, choose for himself who to fall in love with, and when he wants to marry, notify his parents if they like they attent, if not their loss, he will just gather a few friends as best men and marry her anyway. But in africa, they must choose for you or else they blackmail you that they gave birth to you, raised you, fed you, schooled you, now you want to show them you have grown up by disobeying them(making your own decision). Forgetting that its their duty to do that, and that a time comes when you have to be independent of them(decision wise, financially e.t.c) They lived there own lives o, but they just won't allow you to live yours. Not that am encouraging disobeying of ones' parents o, but sometimes its absolutely nesecarry to say NO to them, to follow your own instincts, thats not disrespect but showing them their boundries. I personally believe that a 25year old guy(not to talk of 30) has gone through enough in life and gathered enough experience to make his own decisions, like who to love and who to marry, and doesn't need anyones "permission" to be with the one they love. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:04am On Jul 13, 2014 |
chimoz: |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:06am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Onlinebizexpert: Yea na well e be. Go collect Wetin go enlarge your "hotdog" Why go for toycar when I ve got bulldozer ? |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Amhappy(f): 12:09am On Jul 13, 2014 |
@OP this was how one of my friends moved in with one Alhaji (already married to 3wives) after youth service all in the name of true love. A girl from a good Christain home. Well, her sister didnt mind her business but reported to their parents who battled for her soul. Now she is happily married with 2kids to her own man. Your brother should not be living with a girl for two years without bringing her home. Let him officially marry her if thats what he wants. His soul is at stake. |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Onlinebizexpert(m): 12:10am On Jul 13, 2014 |
lynpetra: i just hope say all these things no be just mouth |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by KelvinGraphics(m): 12:12am On Jul 13, 2014 |
lynpetra: Aunty U are spoiling me o |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:19am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Onlinebizexpert: Na u know oo... |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:20am On Jul 13, 2014 |
KelvinGraphics: Nope |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Onlinebizexpert(m): 12:23am On Jul 13, 2014 |
lynpetra: lyn why you no dey reply my whatsapp msgs again |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:27am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Hmm... I smell foul play, as in JAZZ. Ur broda is a gooner;( |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 12:41am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Onlinebizexpert: Changed my sim. |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by tpia1: 1:36am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Abel202: [b]OP, the signs are clear. Do everything in your power to ensure that your brother does not marry that girl or any of her type. Inform your parents immediately. Raise all the dust you can NOW BEFORE ITS TOO LATE. its too late for all these. the family has already been penetrated, the only thing they can do now is pray for the brother and ask God's protection for their own selves so they [family] are not wiped out. e dey sound unbelievable o, but thats how it is. |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by tpia1: 1:39am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Amhappy: @OP this was how one of my friends moved in with one Alhaji (already married to 3wives) after youth service all in the name of true love. A girl from a good Christain home. Well, her sister didnt mind her business but reported to their parents who battled for her soul. Now she is happily married with 2kids to her own man. Your brother should not be living with a girl for two years without bringing her home. Let him officially marry her if thats what he wants. His soul is at stake. your friend's case is easier because its more glaring. Either the alhaji or the other three wives will move her out after a while, the consequences of that kind of union are mostly born by the perpetrator, in this case your friend. the op's example is far more insidious. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by anitank(f): 2:14am On Jul 13, 2014 |
The fact that they are both AS is more than enough reason to discourage the relationship, no matter how in love they are. That love will turn to anger, depression and frustration when they give birth to a sickler child that could cost them their entire income on hospital bills, including the sleepless nights when the child starts having their bone marrow crisis. No couple wants to go thru that Then again, a lady who loves a man would never keep him away from his family or cause troubles between them, she'd rather want to amend things as a potential member of the family. And if for the two years they have been together the man's parents don't know anything about the girl and she's ok with it, then she's definitely the wrong girl for him And no, don't mind your business. He is your brother!! He may not see what he's getting himself into because he's "in love" (in stupidity I'd say). If he ends up messing up his life tomorrow, it's you and your family that would feel the pain the most, not the people advising you otherwise 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 2:20am On Jul 13, 2014 |
redcliff: They can talk him out. He is still human but in a coma... |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 2:25am On Jul 13, 2014 |
fijiano202: dumbass this is a point of view from the sister,if it was really after meeting the family the relationship got sour the parent would have suspected a foul play...u cant give a solution where theres no prob Don't comment on what you don't understand. If everything he said here is true, that girl is a very wrong person for him to date or marry. It is only a bad woman who forces her husband to forget his family Talk of the lady's habit of entertaining calls from numerous men while his brother cannot. The guy needs deliverance. He is dating a control freak... |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 2:27am On Jul 13, 2014 |
anitank: The fact that they are both AS is more than enough reason to discourage the relationship, no matter how in love they are. That love will turn to anger, depression and frustration when they give birth to a sickler child that could cost them their entire income on hospital bills, including the sleepless nights when the child starts having their bone marrow crisis. No couple wants to go thru that Well said ! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Nobody: 2:42am On Jul 13, 2014 |
egopersonified: Op, op, op, how many times did I call you? Leave these people alone, you go and look for your own girlfriend. See their type don show... |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by Ariyke: 4:57am On Jul 13, 2014 |
iceberylin: live and let livereally so is he gonna bear the consequence alone when it starts? OP I think you should pray ur brother realize what the consequence will be in time, I tell you a sick child is not easy to keep, I have an uncle going tru it and if I had the opportunity of letting him knw then, our lives wouldn't av been the same |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by dmitroika(m): 5:28am On Jul 13, 2014 |
PAGAN9JA: [size=28pt]CONVERT TO TRADITIONAL RELIGION AND BE SAVED![/size] (from 419 jesus & boko muhamad) "Those that serve them would look like them" |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by jackpot(f): 5:58am On Jul 13, 2014 |
ElGuapo: @Op, Bar the genotype incompatibility, is there anyother concrete reason you have for your bruh not to get married to his fiancee?didn't you see where he said the brother's girlfriend takes call from other suitors in his presence? The girl in question is using the brother to wait for Mr Right, and she's probably baaaanging outside the friendship. |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by jackpot(f): 6:06am On Jul 13, 2014 |
lawa18: The whole advice boils down to the fact that I should let them be. God knws am jst concerned about his future happiness. I promise to always remember them in prayers n let them become ooo do not leave them alone as most people said, because if your brother don't make it in life and you made it, then people will expect you to help him out. If he ends up with her, the breeze of the psychological trauma they will bear in treating the (almost possible) sickler child of union will certainly reach your side. Remember if (God forbid anyway) your brother leaves this world anytime before you, the job of taking care of his family will rest squarely on those you and your family (especially if the girl doesnt have any ''meaningful'' work). Come on, disclose at least the fact that their genotypes doesn't match to your parents. They deserve to know! |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by MightySparrow: 6:11am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Love is blind: you or your bother or both are blind by love or lack of love. |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by ldonjibson(m): 6:53am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Mintayo:HE MENTIONED THAT CLEARLY BRO.... THO I FEEL HE FEELS HE IS LOSSING IS BRODA TOO SOMEONE WHO KNOW NOT THE BACKGROUND... PRAY WELL FOR HIM.. SUCH IS LIFE |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by laykhorn(m): 7:54am On Jul 13, 2014 |
jhidey08: no vex man, I'm sori.Awww! Its not a problem, its normal in here. So how is Ramadan going? |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by laykhorn(m): 7:58am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Onlinebizexpert: Op afta God d next strongest power is dat of pew.see , try & taste d gal tin if u stil have ur sense afta d event den ur broda can be saved....if d tin sweet die den no say ur bro don go kpatakpata ......interested in online importation biz quote meinterested |
Re: My Brother Is Stupidly In Love With The Wrong Person by betatalk: 8:36am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Your bro is old enough to make his choices. He is only guilty morally. You sound like the girl is standing in between d family. Your bro wld soon marry mayb nt her2sum one else. That wil b his primary responsibility and he won't v time for u. |
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