I tell her all the time that we are adults so she should know where to draw the line with other guys

she gets angry when I don't raise an eyebrow if I see her chat with another guy, I even told her I won't stop her from talking to other guys


just because I'm dating someone doesn't mean she should cut off from all members of opposite sex, someone just bought her a handbag & I simply told her not send double message across to the guy or try to eat her cake & have it at the same time & left the matter there

She is angry that I didn't show any sign of jealousy

Pls I'm I wrong?

Yes, u are...

no

harveyspecter: I tell her all the time that we are adults so she should know where to draw the line with other guys

she gets angry when I don't raise an eyebrow if I see her chat with another guy, I even told her I won't stop her from talking to other guys


just because I'm dating someone doesn't mean she should cut off from all members of opposite sex, someone just bought her a handbag & I simply told her not send double message across to the guy or try to eat her cake & have it at the same time & left the matter there

She is angry that I didn't show any sign of jealousy

Pls I'm I wrong?

Hahaha...I pity you...you dey look am,e dey go.

When she starts sleeping around you go stll dey look.

Ok

zoeee: Yes, u are...

So what can I do?

My mindset is this "I have put in alot & I expect u to know that, if u mess up, I push u out" simple

If u go take a gift from someone & it backfires or u're trapped, u're ur own

Not that I told her this plainly but come to think of it, she isn't my wife so what right do I have to shield her from other guys

I'm not saying she has the liberty to date other guys but I can't stop her from being friends with other guys

If a guy is trying to cross the line she should back off immediately, that's my stand

So if u say I'm wrong, how can I make it right?

publicenemy:

Hahaha...I pity you...you dey look am,e dey go.

When she starts sleeping around you go stll dey look.

He will get another then, there are many good sisters out there.
Jealousy is an immature emotional response. Why worry your head when you trust the person?

harveyspecter: She is angry that I didn't show any sign of jealousy

Pls I'm I wrong?

Na wa o. Guy don't mind her. She wants your blood presure to rise unnecesarily. Just keep calm.

Don't be surprised if she cheats just to see your reaction. And if that happens, my brother, dump her immediately.

harveyspecter: I
tell her all the time that we are adults so she should know where to
draw the line with other guys

she gets angry when I don't raise an eyebrow if I see her chat with
another guy, I even told her I won't stop her from talking to other guys


just because I'm dating someone doesn't mean she should cut off from all
members of opposite sex, someone just bought her a handbag & I
simply told her not send double message across to the guy or try to eat
her cake & have it at the same time & left the matter there

She is angry that I didn't show any sign of jealousy

Pls I'm I wrong?

This is the kinda situation that gives men the impression that women like their men to be "all controlling"

Odilafta:





This is the kinda situation that gives men the impression that women like their men to be "all controlling"

lol... And when you turn the relationship with a Laisez-faire mode of handling it gets worse than earlier presumed. She seems not to find joy in the freedom you gave her.. Perhaps she wants another go-I follow you, sit-I'll lap you guy out of you OP.

Tallesty1: He will get another then, there are many good sisters out there.
Jealousy is an immature emotional response. Why worry your head when you trust the person?

I am not asking him to be jealous,i am askng him not to be too relaxed...nobody can be 100% trusted.

Bru, I salute your audacious maturity & aplomb. Believe me its absolute maturity on display here. I dare say I gat the same mindset on these issues & I tend to stick with this particular line of action or reaction (as d case maybe) that you have adopted.

Your womans reaction to your aloofness is natural & expected. If I caught a hint in your post right, you.ve kinda somewhat invested in her or your relationship which sorta gives you a particular leverage.
On the surface, it raises some false flag your not really into her or you got some side-chics thats why your not bothered enough about her keeping other "potential contenders" as chums. But if you truly love her, thers the imperative to continue to subtly draw a line albeit reign in to discourage her from receiving gifts as could end up as some preface to someone getting a different idea. Temptation takes different shapes too....& we all still human

harveyspecter:

So what can I do?

My mindset is this "I have put in alot & I expect u to know that, if u mess up, I push u out" simple

If u go take a gift from someone & it backfires or u're trapped, u're ur own

Not that I told her this plainly but come to think of it, she isn't my wife so what right do I have to shield her from other guys

I'm not saying she has the liberty to date other guys but I can't stop her from being friends with other guys

If a guy is trying to cross the line she should back off immediately, that's my stand

So if u say I'm wrong, how can I make it right?

[quote
author=papindinho] lol... And when you turn the relationship with a
Laisez-faire mode of handling it gets worse than earlier presumed. She
seems not to find joy in the freedom you gave her.. Perhaps she wants
another go-I follow you, sit-I'll lap you guy out of you OP.[/quote]




Can we......?

Odilafta:




Can we......?

why not?

blackfase:

Bru, I salute your audacious maturity & aplomb. Believe me its absolute maturity on display here. I dare say I gat the same mindset on these issues & I tend to stick with this particular line of action or reaction (as d case maybe) that you have adopted.

Your womans reaction to your aloofness is natural & expected. If I caught a hint in your post right, you.ve kinda somewhat invested in her or your relationship which sorta gives you a particular leverage.
On the surface, it raises some false flag your not really into her or you got some side-chics thats why your not bothered enough about her keeping other "potential contenders" as chums. But if you truly love her, thers the imperative to continue to subtly draw a line albeit reign in to discourage her from receiving gifts as could end up as some preface to someone getting a different idea. Temptation takes different shapes too....& we all still human

I get u, no side chicks, if u as a lady knows that ur guy loves u & has proven it several times, do u need an extra guide in drawing the lines/marking boundaries

I can't just wrap my head around telling a lady not to accept gifts, rides etc all because she is dating me I'm I the only male non related individual in her life, u never can tell where help could come from

I can't engage in a physical fight for a woman. I haven't paid bride price for

harveyspecter:

I get u, no side chicks, if u as a lady knows that ur guy loves u & has proven it several times, do u need an extra guide in drawing the lines/marking boundaries

I can't just wrap my head around telling a lady not to accept gifts, rides etc all because she is dating me I'm I the only male non related individual in her life, u never can tell where help could come from

I can't engage in a physical fight for a woman. I haven't paid bride price for

. I salute this Guy, me like u gaan oo. If u don't mind, u can be my friend 26A57BCA