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Re: .. by pickabeau1: 10:49am On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: I dont get u dude.. I thought u said just now,, YOU HAD feelings... are you STILL having feelings for her |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 10:57am On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: I am in a state |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 11:03am On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: ok.. let me get you you like her.. u went out a couple of times.. she was feeling you You came on for sex.. she stepped back and told u to take things easy.. she will give you in a matter of time You did not hear.. u insulted her .. words were exchanged The chemistry fizzled.. You need to sort your feelings.. dude Do you really want to be with her or just pursue her to get back at her If its the latter... move on... NOT WORTH IT The former? more energy will still be expended... my conclusion.. MOVE ON If things are meant to be... it will happen.. if not... 1 Like |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 11:32am On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: You are spot on with the summary. Wish i came on here earlier. |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 11:34am On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: So admit to yourself first that you have feelings for her If you want to pursue those feelings.. that is another issue.. Long Distance Relationship has its own complications |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 11:48am On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Never 1 Like |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 11:54am On Jul 22, 2014 |
Hmm,... No need to rehash what has happened 1. This is what i said.. If you want to kick things again.. Are you ready for a long distance relationship 2. What are her plans? her aspirations? SHe may even be thinking of coming over for studies? 3. After you see her in naijan and if she grees for you.. what next sean123: |
Re: .. by Nobody: 11:57am On Jul 22, 2014 |
You are being manipulated by an emotional expert.. Quit or get used the more... Aren't there other ladies ? Guys sef wey no dey Jand, if dem enter village with car after like 4 years of not going to village, girls will follow. Smh.. Moreover, is it only from your village, you dey toast girls ? |
Re: .. by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
I just observed you kept blaming yourself for everything going bad and you kept pushing too hard. Why bro ? If you make a move at a lady the first day, it is not enough for her to blackmail you emotionally if she truly loves you. Just accept she aint yours.. The girl I treated most nicely all my life friend zoned me. So girls don't deserve too much effort or trying to hard. Leave out the routine like calling everyday, skyping everyday. Make her miss you. Don't be too familiar too early.. |
Re: .. by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: Yeah you can get her back if you want her. I just hope you really like her for her not for some silly games. |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:02pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Hmm,... leave it. The attraction phizzled out. What i need is how to restart it |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:05pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
okparaugo: You are being manipulated by an emotional expert.. Why do u think i am been manipulated? I thought of that as well to be honest. Other babes dey but the best just entered my head and i just like am |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 12:05pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123:The only way to know is to ask her and start again. You cant know if she is seeing someone else. Trust is important especially in a LDR
ok.. this is workable but has issues too.. she may prefer to go to yanks
1st Bolded is good.. just take it you are starting over 2nd Bolded.. exactly why i said move on... |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:07pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
okparaugo: I just observed you kept blaming yourself for everything going bad and you kept pushing too hard. Why bro ? yea |
Re: .. by Estimable(m): 12:10pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
In summary,u want to bleep her,dats revenge for all d time and money u spent on her.......cos defintely u guys l see during xmas.... |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:14pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: The only way to know is to ask her and start again. yea really respect your replies. The funny thing is she seems to have handled herself very well in all this. I just kept losing my cool. Do u believe she manipulated my emotions? The problem with starting over is trusting her. She knows my weaknesses and it seems like she used it against me. Which other posters seem to have picked up on |
Re: .. by Estimable(m): 12:14pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: U were too fast bro......had it been u played gentle,u would av bleeped her.....but u wanted it fast and she was still studying the kind of guy ure...... I'll advise u to make her miss u,dat way ul know if she still has feelings for u.....if not move on..... |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 12:18pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: On the manipulation side,i know too little to say so as you are also culpable as you tried to guilt her also So at best both of you are guilty in a way Without trust, forget it on weaknesses,... no how a woman will not know your weakness except you dont want to settle down with a woman |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:18pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
Estimable: I have been told that. This was the one time the gentle guy have won. What makes u think i would have still gotten it if i played gentle? I know i was a lil too eager with her and it made her drawback tho cos she stopped flirting after. |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:20pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Insightful again. But how did i guilt her here? |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 12:27pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: By abusing her when she hesisated, shouting etc ... making her feel guilty |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:31pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Wouldnt call that making her feel guilty but i get the point. |
Re: .. by pickabeau1: 12:47pm On Jul 22, 2014 |
sean123: ok... bro... your choice though |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 12:37pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
pickabeau1: The only way to know is to ask her and start again. |
Re: .. by sean123(m): 6:19pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
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