[color=#770077][/color][b][/b]nice one sweetlemon

glitest:


That was a typo.

I send you an e blow if you do not leave me alone....You aren't all that, so don't let the fact that I mentioned I checked your profile, get into your head.

It's already getting into it

Tallesty1: The response those that are looking/waiting for this TYPE OF MAN will get is Your search did not match any documents.

Barselonia:
It's already getting into it

Hmmm!..I'm warning you

I totally accept with u....although some guys will pretend to the end. Just love with ur whole hrt and be optimistic. Love will always come to love.

glitest:



Hmmm!..I'm warning you

and am loving it

KelvinGraphics:
Kum date my sister na, i promise she won't dump U 4 anoda guy.
Iam sure she won't do it if U r a true lover as U stated above.

Na kuz of say U be my namesake make i dey give U dis better offer o.

Name sake. How far naa.. Gimmie her control.. I wount fuckup.. #Serious#

Vivipop: Eya! Maybe they left for the best. One day,you'll find someone who appreciates you. Keep being who you are.

For the best?? The guy she left me for is a womaniser!! . Karma Will Soon Catchup With Her.

Decryptor:

So how can we identify the ones that go nuts? And what can we do to avoid them? And by the way, you seem to be very matured in your opinions. It's hard to see a lady admit what you just did about women going nuts. I love a woman who says it as it is without gender sentiments.

a quality lady will not be much after all U can proffer or d sweetness of words U tell her. Rather,she will be more concerned in knowing exactly who is in you. Such lady will return Ur love for her. Just try to be U and maintain the fact dat U are Urself... Tnx for d compliments.

Tallesty1: The response those that are looking/waiting for this TYPE OF MAN will get is Your search did not match any documents.

i dey here oo na me dem dey talk about oo

Barselonia:
and am loving it

I do not know what you are loving, but okay oh.

hmmmm...looofuuuu

1. A Man Madly In love Will Marry You ASAP: Now this is a tricky one. Like I mentioned in my last thread, men these days do not necessarily marry because of love. Many marry because they need a wife/help meet for whatever reasons. However when a man really loves you, he marries you because he loves you and not because he needs a wife. The remaining points will help you know if you are going to be a "wife in need" or beloved wife. - Bullshit. A man may love you but may not view you as marriage material.

2. People Will Tell You He Loves You: When a man is crazy about you, your friends, family members, colleagues, associates, and all who have seen you guys together will tell you. Those who have known him long before you came into his life will ask you "what have you done to him? shocked" There will be a noticeable change in him that will surprise people. If he as a good guy before you came along, he will be even better with you. If he was a bad guy, he will suddenly melt like butter when he's with you. There has to be a special factor. Something unusual. Something that will make people marvel. Lies. Many times I ask my friends and siblings to "make my babe head swell" so its just a sham.

3. Your Intuition Will Affirm This: Females have powerful intuitions. Always listen to yours. It is hardly ever wrong. If you asked most woman in bad marriages, they'd admit that they always knew something was terribly wrong but naively thought it will get better. You cannot change a man or even make him love you. You can only awaken/re-awaken the feelings already in him. - Intuition? The same intuition that makes you run after bad boys? The only intuition women have is the one that satisfies their hypergamy and need for security at different stages in their lives.

4. The Fear Of Loosing You Becomes The Beginning Of Wisdom: He can't stand the thought of you walking out of his life, he's sure not going to turn into a vegetable but sister, he's going to do what he can and avoid whatever he must to make sure you stay even if he has to give up his priced bachelorhood. Nope!!! A man who fears losing you will be considered a weak man by his woman. Women respect men who can do without them. The moment a woman know you have fear of losing her, your respect is out the door.[b][/b]

5. He Will Spend On You...... With Pleasure: A guy will be happy to spend his hard earned cash on you whether or not he gets to sleep with you or even date you. It may not start immediately but after a while especially if he's trying to see if you are materialistic. Give your man sometime while you prove that you are worth his money. Dudes. Dont fall for this crap. Spending for a woman is a function of what your abilities and priorities are. Youre equating love to spending money which is a lie because a lotta girls are heads over heels with a man who doesnt spend a dime on them.

6. If He Was A Player, He Protects You From His Bad Friends/Crazy Exes, etc.: Normally if you are dating a player or typical bad boy ladies man, his friends will make passes at you, even disrespect you, etc. Other girls will want to fight you, etc. But he will be your knight. He will spell it out to his friends that. "Nna mehn, I am feeling this babe. Dis na my babe." he will mark you and his friends will understand that perfectly. Other girls will feel intimidated by your presence and will not even dare speak to you not to talk of challenging you. WTF is this about

7. It's No Longer Sex, It Becomes Love making: He plays you like a Spanish guitar, that's because he wants to leave his mark on you, he wants you to enjoy it as much as he does. He wants you to feel him. It becomes like an art and not like a romp. A man that loves you doesn't withdraw immediately after climaxing and doesn't jump off the bed after the show. He stays a little longer holding you unless if he's in a hurry to go somewhere important. Babe: You only lasted 30 seconds. Man: B@#TCH I still f@#ked. Dudes. Do what you can do jare. No kill urself.

After Marriage:

8. He Refers To You And Treats You Like His Better Half: Yes. A man who truly loves you will get even better after marriage. He will give you more than he gives himself, etc. You are his madam in all ramifications even while he protects you with the last drop of his blood. Gives more than he gives himself? No wonder men die early. Babe. Stop all this mills and boon fantasy.

9. He Doesn't Make It A Habit To Take Things From You: That's because he didn't marry you because of daddy's wealth or your six-figure salary. He will want to give more than he takes. - So you should hide your money/income while I spend mine? Na so life be?

10. He Respects Your Opinions: He may not always go by them, but he will respect them. It's left to you to be able to know how to make him actually act on them. Know how to pull his strings. Yeah he will respect em. If they are reasonable.

11. He Doesn't Freak Out Or Make Your Life Miserable When The Children Haven't Started Coming In: There might be occasional awkward moments here and there, but he's not going to start giving ultimatums, or threats, or cut down on your weekly/monthly money because you haven't given him a child yet. He will protect you from outside ridicule/pressures, etc. Yeah. But if he was the one who is sterile you would gladly put him under pressure.[/i]

12. He Doesn't Put Pressure On You To Get/Retain A Job: That's because he didn't get married because he needed a financial partner. He married you because he loves you so he's not going to treat or see you as a liability if you are not yet working. B[i]abe. Get a effing job. In this economy times are hard abeg.[b][/b]


Disclaimer: Love is not a bed of roses. Don't always expect him to be a gentleman. Why should he always open car doors for you? Are you a learner? Even Prince Philips doesn't open doors for Queen Elizabeth all the time when they are not in public! If he's a busy man, a top govt official, company senior official, successful businessman, etc. he cannot be calling you everyday. Even if he is a low income earner. BUT he will always make up in ways that will make it all worthwhile. He cannot always call you "honey" "baby" etc. Some days he will call your full name sef "Oluwayemisi come here!" " Chimbusonma I want to eat" "Nkechiyere don't waste my time" There will be tough times as well. Times when you will even cry and wonder what you are doing with him, but these points should console you and assure you that you are on the right track.

coachwilcox:

3. Your Intuition Will Affirm This: Females have powerful intuitions. Always listen to yours. It is hardly ever wrong. If you asked most woman in bad marriages, they'd admit that they always knew something was terribly wrong but naively thought it will get better. You cannot change a man or even make him love you. You can only awaken/re-awaken the feelings already in him. - Intuition? The same intuition that makes you run after bad boys? The only intuition women have is the one that satisfies their hypergamy and need for security at different stages in their lives.

Women run after bad boys because they didn't/don't listen to or trust their intuition as soon as they begin to listen to it they go for the good guys.

Correct write up.... I love it

Very insightful pointers. Thanks op. I will save this article and constantly refer to it.

I fit die on top ya matter.........

hmmmmm

Love is always almost driven by weakness. When one tend to hang on more is when one has little or no choices. Love is selfhness.

*yawns*

andromida:

Women run after bad boys because they didn't/don't listen to or trust their intuition as soon as they begin to listen to it they go for the good guys.

Yeah!! And the good guys get used goods? The truth is that they return to the good guys because the bad guys have dumped them over and over again. But for age and marriage they will continue to lust after the bad guys.

coachwilcox:

Yeah!! And the good guys get used goods? The truth is that they return to the good guys because the bad guys have dumped them over and over again. But for age and marriage they will continue to lust after the bad guys.

Who is a good guy?

Because i see bad boys as troubled/confused boys.

temigracie: aaaawwww....dats wat i want...

You av ur role 2 play as wel, dnt jst xpect it 2 cm easily...

Stepsse: I think there is a reason why a search engine called google was introduced.....lol.....na joke ooooo
@your post...Its your choice.........@OP..your post dey make me think of someone...........sTc

. Stepss I hear u ooo

cynthia3d: . Stepss I hear u ooo

smiling...................sTc