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Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by rafcrown(m): 3:38am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Couple in divorce case made love before appearing in court 23.Jul.2014 NIGERIAN TRIBUNE. Lanre Adewole - Lagos A couple in a divorce case had sex early Monday morning, before appearing before an Ejigbo Customary Court, Lagos State, for proceedings in the matter. The wife, Mariam Jimoh, however, told the court that as long as her husband was making love to her regularly, she was going nowhere. The husband, Sunday Jimoh, was hell-bent on seeing her back, saying sharing same roof and bed with her was just for the children’s sake. Though married for 10 years, the court appearance was the first time parents on both sides would be meeting. Both parents asked the court to allow for out-of-court settlement because of the children. It was a drama galore as Mariam, an indigene of Ogun State, told the court her story, insisting that the marriage had come to stay. Sunday from Oyo State, who instituted the divorce proceedings, said he no longer loved her. The mother of two, however, insisted her husband still loved her, as evident in their living together in same apartment, sleeping together on the same bed and making love regularly as husband and wife. She also told the court that Sunday made love to her passionately early Monday morning before they came to court for the proceedings. The husband did not counter the claim. She wondered why her husband would claim he was no more in love with her, whereas they were planning for another baby. Mariam said that they were living peacefully, because he was providing for them and she was playing her role as wife by taking care of him and children. “Where does he want me to go after having two children, alongside the sacrifices I have made for 10 years to keep the relationship?” She asked rhetorically. She also voiced her amazement that Sunday brought her to the court for divorce even when she showered him love. According to her, their relationship began when she was in secondary school and they later got married without the consent of her parents. The union, had produced two children— David, 6, and Simon, 4, despite the fact that no bride price was paid, according to her narrative. Mariam said she was surprised when she received court summons to appear before the court, adding that the summons did not stop them from living as a couple. Sunday confirmed that they were still living together because of the children but that he was tired of the marriage, because her parents did not support it in the first place. The court adjourned the case till July 30 for report of settlement. |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by spicy244(f): 4:00am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Having sex with a woman u don't love? What can we call that? This iz the reason single parenting iz on high rampage. God HELP women 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by faithugo64(f): 4:06am On Jul 23, 2014 |
had she listened to her parents,she would not have ended up this way. There is a way that seems ryt in the eyes of men,but the end thereof is................ 47 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Kanwulia: 5:26am On Jul 23, 2014 |
She also voiced her amazement that Sunday brought her to the court for divorce [size=20pt]even when she showered him love.[/size] Stoopid woman! I don't understand why NIGERIAN WOMEN think NIGERIAN MEN ARE CAPABLE OF LOVE. . . (giving or receiving)? SAY MAN WAN PHOCK YOUR AZZZE NA LOVE? A Nigerian man will sell his mother for sexxxx. . . .MISSION ACCOMPLISHED. Na wetin ANIMAL get to do with love? WONDERS!!!!! Typical 'Y' marriage! I did not even have to go far. . . OGUN STATE must be involved ke! 21 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by chacoonder(m): 5:40am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Kanwulia:so you are one of those girls that have fish brains? 128 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Kanwulia: 5:41am On Jul 23, 2014 |
chacoonder: so you are one of those girls that have fish brains? Please. . . this na 'AFTER-CRASH' era o. NL is still recovering. . . . Answer the topic or log off! https://www.nairaland.com/1815050/she-havent-went-school-should/2#24740305 chacoonder: [size=20pt]HAVE YOU WENT TO SCHOOL?[/size] Please, go back to the romance section of NL dummies like you and frolic with your fellow grammarians there! We don't do 'single and still searching' on this part of NL! The days of 'IICE CAN I MEET YOU?" ARE LONG OVER! Now. . .COME ON DOVER. . . . move your bloooooming azzzzzzzzzzzzzzze!!!! Awobi Mmuo! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r86BJkLZp9w 23 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by zeb04(f): 6:06am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Hah! This one is serious. 1 Like |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 6:10am On Jul 23, 2014 |
faithugo64: had she listened to her parents,she would not have ended up this way. There is a way that seems ryt in the eyes of men,but the end thereof is...............my pussy 4 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 6:10am On Jul 23, 2014 |
faithugo64: had she listened to her parents,she would not have ended up this way. There is a way that seems ryt in the eyes of men,but the end thereof is...............my pus*y 5 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by SalC: 6:57am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Funny but not funny 1 Like |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Tallesty1(m): 7:03am On Jul 23, 2014 |
rafcrown: Couple in divorce case made love before appearing in courtSMH...... What do you want me to say now? rafcrown: The husband, Sunday Jimoh, was hell-bent on seeing her back, saying sharing same roof and bed with her was just for the children’s sake.And the sex was for whose sake? rafcrown: Though married for 10 years, the court appearance was the first time parents on both sides would be meeting.This one is very strong rafcrown: It was a drama galore as Mariam, an indigene of Ogun State, told the court her story, insisting that the marriage had come to stay.I expected her to say that because she has no other place to go rafcrown: Sunday from Oyo State, who instituted the divorce proceedings, said he no longer loved her.You never loved her rafcrown: The mother of two, however, insisted her husband still loved her, as evident in their living together in same apartment, sleeping together on the same bed and making love regularly as husband and wife.Love has been abused seriously rafcrown: She also told the court that Sunday made love to her passionately early Monday morning before they came to court for the proceedings.The marriage is doomed to fail no matter how hard you try to make it work. rafcrown: Mariam said she was surprised when she received court summons to appear before the court, adding that the summons did not stop them from living as a couple.Children obey your parents so that your days will be long. 6 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by cococandy(f): 8:08am On Jul 23, 2014 |
After receiving summons to appear in a divorce court she still went ahead to make love to him. My Nigerian sisters and low self esteem/self worth. Oh dear. What can I say? The man is wicked but the lady is silly beyond redemption. Imagine trying so hard to cling to a man that's trying so bad to get rid of you. Ladies need to put value on themselves. 26 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by adanduka: 9:52am On Jul 23, 2014 |
She probably forced the husband to sleep with her so that he can tell his lawyer to withdraw the case. But the Nigerian man decided to show her that he may 'do' but not 'mean'. Woman, it's not by your strength o. The battle is the Lord's. 16 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by McWhillion(m): 10:11am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Body no be fire wood abeg 1 Like |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by MissSlimbody(f): 10:32am On Jul 23, 2014 |
I think u'll make an excellent marital counselor 1 Like |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by LaRoyalHighness(f): 10:55am On Jul 23, 2014 |
Women! We need to help ourselves first. spicy244: Having sex with a woman u don't love? What can we call that? This iz the reason single parenting iz on high rampage. God HELP women |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by LaRoyalHighness(f): 10:57am On Jul 23, 2014 |
For real! I agree totally with you and I am ashamed to read this post. Smh for the woman. She deserves a dirty slap. cococandy: After receiving summons to appear in a divorce court she still went ahead to make love to him. 7 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Lmao so the oponu aka mrs wife equated sek and love together. If sek equals to love why are nigerian ashawos having money to build houses and buy cars . Who is paying their bills, o I forgot this is fasting season. Awusubilayi indeed no wonder there are battered women everywhere who enjoy their slavery the only way to turn a woman into a daft woman is to take her self esteem away from her which nigerian men have been doing since time immemorial 5 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by CuteCynthia(f): 12:24pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
I don't see why they are divorcing I hate break-ups and divorces 5 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 12:27pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
LaRoyalHighness: For real! I agree totally with you and I am ashamed to read this post. Smh for the woman. She deserves a dirty slap.and some people will say she's a real woman or a virtuous woman. That's how virtuous women behave 3 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by princevinco(m): 12:34pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Don't blame the woman, she did the right thing. As long as the marriage had not been dissolved, she is free to make love with the man if the man demand for s*x, unless the woman want divorce herself. Those who are blaming the woman are those who don't know what it means to fix a troubled marriage. I wrote in one of my article that one of the way to fix a troubled marriage is by PAYING A PRIZE, the woman is sort of paying the prize. The man has a problem, and i pray that in cause of the court proceedings he will come to himself and call of the case. as long as they are living together, there is still hope for their marriage. 32 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by apolonius(m): 12:53pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
It is a complex one because the man is mad and the woman is foolish. She got court summons and still opened her legs?What will I not hear o. 2 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
cococandy: After receiving summons to appear in a divorce court she still went ahead to make love to him. The way you all rant on nairaland looks like you're all having a perfect life out there. You read a story without taking into cognisance what might have prompted the woman to "act" irrationally rather you spewed your hasty reprimand. Which woman would want to end a 10 years old marriage without fighting back? which woman will want to abandon 2 kids or become a single mom in her late 30s? Who really need a divorce anyway? Not a practising Christian that I know. Have you taken into cognisance the psychological trauma the kids and family will be subjected to if there is a divorce? Marriage is a thing of maturity and it requires 2 thinking individuals to be involved in for it to work. Just like in economics we say diminishing returns, marriage has it own fair share of return no matter how hard the partners involved pretend over it. Sometimes it takes the mature one to keep the marriage going and here the wife seems to be the intelligent one trying to sustain it. Majority of men experience mid-life crisis as in dwindling fortune, peer pressure, inability to accomplish set target, health issues, family challenges etc and it can rub on their emotional and spiritual life thereby threatening their homefront but it will take a mature and intelligent woman to suppress these challenges and be for the man at such trying moments. Yes the man might act irrationally but that's all there is to it. Only a good woman would stand by him no matter the storm and testimony will abound later. The woman initiated the sex just to have a hold on her dear husband. That was her evidence at the court that she is still in love with the husband and that she is Prepared to whether the storm. She is doing the right thing and I pray dear lord that her husband comes back to his senses. Not every storm in marriage should make a woman exit like a flashlight. 146 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by natureblack(m): 1:18pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
They still need each other This reminds me of one Papa Comfort that lost his wife,while he was crying he said "Mama Comfort just die con carry that wonderful Congo waka" 6 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by ENDTIMES: 1:19pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Honestly, this is the biggest caption of all in Nairaland!! Don't know where to start laughing and where to stop. |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
Reminds me of the evergreen Phil Collins hit....One more Night! Ladies and Gentlemen....the man himself! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zKVq-P3z5Vg I've been sitting here so long, wasting time Just staring at the phone And I was wondering should I call you Then I thought, maybe you're not alone Please give me one more night Give me one more night Oh, one more night 'Cause I can't wait forever (How I miss the 80's) 14 Likes |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Tstone1(m): 1:22pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
faithugo64: had she listened to her parents,she would not have ended up this way. There is a way that seems ryt in the eyes of men,but the end thereof is..................Damnation! |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Rilwayne001: 1:23pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
wonders shall never end |
Re: Couple In Divorce Case Made Love Before Appearing In Court by Nobody: 1:23pm On Jul 23, 2014 |
The thing ladies didn't know is that a man can do anything to get you and that does mean he loves you. just the matter of complete a mission. BE WISE 1 Like |
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