I have a girl friend whom I love very much, and I want to spend the rest of my life with, we have been dating for a year now, but it seems to me that she is scare that I may dump her and go for other girls when I am ready for marriage..... Dunno what to do to make her have patience to wait and also have the confidence to know that I will surely marry her... Her name Is onyeka ... (Igbo, u know what that means)

Ceasar1: Bro, words alone wouldn't do. ‘Make her feel like she's the only girl in the world’ with your actions.

How?...... Cos I have tried my best

okusebi: I have a girl friend whom I love very much, and I want to spend the rest of my life with, we have been dating for a year now, but it seems to me that she is scare that I may dump her and go for other girls when I am ready for marriage..... Dunno what to do to make her have patience to wait and also have the confidence to know that I will surely marry her... Her name Is onyeka ... (Igbo, u know what that means)

Just Marry Her , that's your best option

okusebi:
How?...... Cos I have tried my best

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Emessy: Just Marry Her , that's your best option

Dats a good idea, but will u lend me money?, after the wedding I will pay back...

Ceasar1:

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. Abi make I give her belle?

okusebi: . Abi make I give her belle?

Not an option bro.
Ask her to tell u what u need to do for her to believe.

Kingzy4pep: Not an option bro.
Ask her to tell u what u need to do for her to believe.

if u r in my position what will u do?

you still dey ask ni,my friend go buy d ring and pop d question jawe!anyways i feel she is insecured*probably d love isnt enough assurance*u guys shuld talk abt,try make her share her fears so u cn allay dem..just be able to convince her,if nuh she wuldnt stop having reservationz!

Free her abeg, guys like you are the reason why girls stay up to 30years waiting for afterwhich you will come up with silly excuse why you don't want to marry her...
If you are not ready just leave her and mind ya biz, when u are ready and she is still available then propose shikenah...

Who has time to wait for an unserious guy?
Anamanu igba

Annypie: you still dey ask ni,my friend go buy d ring and pop d question jawe!anyways i feel she is insecured*probably d love isnt enough assurance*u guys shuld talk abt,try make her share her fears so u cn allay dem..just be able to convince her,if nuh she wuldnt stop having reservationz!

if I put a ring on her finger , ny be say she go carry am like pregnancy cos money never dey, I am going for service next month, u can c dat If I probably engage her, thing will go bad

Best thing to do...... Is to leave it for God

if u ain't ready 4 marriage calm down biko,as 4 d girl I just hope shez not d 1 who ends up dumping you...in as much as she no catch u cheat u v nothing 2 worry abt,just enjoy dating till u ready

There are many factors u didnt give here to get a suitable ans. E.g, ur ages, ur occupations, ur future plans n so many things.

[quote
author=okusebi] if I put a ring on her finger , ny be say she go carry
am like pregnancy cos money never dey, I am going for service next
month, u can c dat If I probably engage her, thing will go bad [/quote]oh..i get ur drift now,u aint financially stable yet,make her see dah na..there has to be reasons while shes having doubt,it didnt just erupt 4rm nowhere,dats smtin u hv to redress..goodluck tho*i cn smell true love*

okusebi: if u r in my position what will u do?

I'll FÜCKING engage her, assuming am FÜCKING sure this is the person I want to spent the FÜCKING rest of my life with.
If she is all that to you & she FÜCKING feels the same for you, FÜCK!!! Make FÜCKING plans for your life & hers.
By this I FÜCKING mean see that you have a job or your FÜCKING doing something to bring in money.
Being a man is no FÜCKING joke. You've got to be FÜCKING able to provide for the family. #hey, my take

Annypie: you still dey ask ni,my friend go buy d ring and pop d question jawe!anyways i feel she is insecured*probably d love isnt enough assurance*u guys shuld talk abt,try make her share her fears so u cn allay dem..just be able to convince her,if nuh she wuldnt stop having reservationz!

FÜCK!!! Do FÜCKING agree with the FÜCKING points raised here

go and make money ogbeni. hw old is she

Naetochukwu: Free her abeg, guys like you are the reason why girls stay up to 30years waiting for afterwhich you will come up with silly excuse why you don't want to marry her...
If you are not ready just leave her and mind ya biz, when u are ready and she is still available then propose shikenah...

Who has time to wait for an unserious guy?
Anamanu igba

abeg take am easy, this na babe wey be say I must marry if she is still available, I fit even tatoo her name for my forehead. So that I no go forget

ednut1: go and make money ogbeni. hw old is she

she is 21..... I pray that she does not end up dumping me

fuckshit: FÜCK!!! Do FÜCKING agree with the FÜCKING points raised here

one thing I have learn t from all this is that a relationship you are not ready for mirage are dream killers, imagine me, when my mates arre thinking how to make money, I am thinking of how to marry, and keep a woman..... The funny thing is that I can't stop...

How old are you both? If you have come of age,you could have a prenuptial engagement if it suits you both.

Why the feeling of insecurity on the part of the lady? Its up to you anyway,convince her with all you have got if truly she is worth it.

okusebi: abeg take am easy, this na babe wey be say I must marry if she is still available, I fit even tatoo her name for my forehead. So that I no go forget

Yeah we hear that a lot from guys then later on after service he gets a job, and walah she becomes a disturbance....

Yemlizzy: How old are you both? If you have come of age,you could have a prenuptial engagement if it suits you both.

Why the feeling of insecurity on the part of the lady? Its up to you anyway,convince her with all you have got if truly she is worth it.

will give it a try... Thanks..

okusebi: will give it a try... Thanks..

Don't mention.

Don't rush yourself,if you aren't ready,you aren't ready. Don't run faster than your shadow. Let God's will be done. If she's yours,she will stay,and if not,she will go..

Yemlizzy:
Don't mention.

. One thing I have noticed is if you want a high blood pressure, date a girl that is very beautiful when you dnt have money, you go hear am.... When thousand of men who are willing to marry her will be asking her out, and you will want her to turn them all down and want her to live with just mere promises......

Yemlizzy:
Don't mention.

. One thing I have noticed is if you want a high blood pressure, date a girl that is very beautiful when you dnt have money, you go hear am.... When thousand of men who are willing to marry her will be asking her out, and you will want her to turn them all down and want her to live with just mere promises......

Go and give her belle jor.. Dulling boy!

kokoA: Go and give her belle jor.. Dulling boy!

Hahaha... Bad guy.... Dts a very good Idea.... Mayb I will try it

Yomieluv: Don't rush yourself,if you aren't ready,you aren't ready. Don't run faster than your shadow. Let God's will be done. If she's yours,she will stay,and if not,she will go..

bro, dats what I used to say back then, but its a big fat lie, women are like buses that passes bye, if u dnt stop them they will pass u and carry somebody else... I dnt agree with that at all, if believe in going for what you want and getting it at any slightest opportunity

Continue to give her reassurance to make her feel secure. U are indeed a nice person for being so committed to her. Not many guys would do that. She is indeed a lucky lady. Hope she is reading this. Do not pressure your self both of u should try and talk things through.