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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by luvablesam(m): 5:21pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
CuteCeo: What's wrong? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jul 16, 2016 |
Ximonak: Not really a fan of Astrology, I don't see how the movement of the stars and planets can influence my life |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by CuteCeo: 8:17am On Jul 17, 2016 |
luvablesam: Introversion. Talking with opposite sex is a problem for me |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by luvablesam(m): 11:44am On Jul 17, 2016 |
CuteCeo: Are you are a male?, if you are, being shy around women that aren't related to you is normal for introverts.With time, your experience with the opposite sex will cover up for your being shy 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
DonOms:I agree with you 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by CuteCeo: 11:50pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
luvablesam:mALE...YEAH THANKS..BUT AM IN MY 4TH YEAR IN SCHOOL ALREADY |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 6:48pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
CuteCeo: Its time you up your game then. I have been in this and still trying to wriggle myself out of it. One major thing that encourages this feeling is being shy or not confident of yourself. Address that which is restricting you and just face up to them. The girls like being talked to. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Cutehector(m): 8:49am On Jul 20, 2016 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by CuteCeo: 8:29pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
Guys. Please is there any WhatsApp group for this thread?. If not, I think we need one. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jul 20, 2016 |
CuteCeo: Someone suggested this before and it was turned down, it wont be as much fun as you think. Cc Olarewajub. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by christofashion1(m): 10:00am On Jul 21, 2016 |
Starting conversation's a big trouble, even if I start it 5min is much I'll have exhaust whatever I want to say 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by RICKYMARIO(m): 11:07am On Jul 21, 2016 |
lexicot:spot on 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:10pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:11pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
CuteCeo: Again? One reason why we need a Whatsapp group? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:13pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: WhatsApp can really be boring most times. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 1:34pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Whatsapp group might just be a good idea. Though it may likely lead to the fear that we will abandon this thread but I think it will foster a sense of community. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 3:38pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Akposb: Ain't trying to be bossy, but Nairaland is a better Community and whereas not every body uses WhatsApp and few people like me dislike using WhatsApp. Are you currently in any WhatsApp group, what's your experience? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 10:36pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
Olarewajub:I perfectly understand your concern about whatsapp group as most times it suddenly becomes redundant. This is based on my experience but lets see what useful idea others might bring. Between lets do something that we make this thread more fun. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Akposb: I suggested that everyone should go and do a personality test and post the result here so we get to know each other better but no one replied Disappointed though. Ola talked about the 'Eye Contact stuff, still not enough feedback. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:06pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: The problem is that majority of the introvert's who come into the lounge see it as a platform to just post their experience being an introvert and do not see the need to improve in certain areas. The introvert weekly challenge would have helped alot of us, but as you said the response is always damn disappointing. Don't really know what to do now. Post the link to the website you did your personality test. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:14pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Akposb: Yes, we having a Whatsapp group is subject to the decision of every member of in the Lounge. What possibly can we do to make this thread more fun when the participation is poor? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Olarewajub: http://www.my-personality-test.com/personality-type/ 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
Introvert Personality Types The Architect INTJ It’s lonely at the top, and being one of the rarest and most strategically capable personality types, INTJs know this all too well. INTJs form just two percent of the population, and women of this personality type are especially rare, forming just 0.8% of the population – it is often a challenge for them to find like-minded individuals who are able to keep up with their relentless intellectualism and chess-like maneuvering. People with the INTJ personality type are imaginative yet decisive, ambitious yet private, amazingly curious, but they do not squander their energy. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/intj-personality The Logician INTP The INTP personality type is fairly rare, making up only three percent of the population, which is definitely a good thing for them, as there's nothing they'd be more unhappy about than being "common". INTPs pride themselves on their inventiveness and creativity, their unique perspective and vigorous intellect. Usually known as the philosopher, the architect, or the dreamy professor, INTPs have been responsible for many scientific discoveries throughout history. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/intp-personality The Advocate INFJ The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF), they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/infj-personality The Mediator INFP INFP personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, INFPs have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the INFP personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/infp-personality The Logistician ISTJ (I fall in here ) The ISTJ personality type is thought to be the most abundant, making up around 13% of the population. Their defining characteristics of integrity, practical logic and tireless dedication to duty make ISTJs a vital core to many families, as well as organizations that uphold traditions, rules and standards, such as law offices, regulatory bodies and military. People with the ISTJ personality type enjoy taking responsibility for their actions, and take pride in the work they do – when working towards a goal, ISTJs hold back none of their time and energy completing each relevant task with accuracy and patience. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/istj-personality The Defender ISFJ The ISFJ personality type is quite unique, as many of their qualities defy the definition of their individual traits. Though possessing the Feeling (F) trait, ISFJs have excellent analytical abilities; though Introverted (I), they have well-developed people skills and robust social relationships; and though they are a Judging (J) type, ISFJs are often receptive to change and new ideas. As with so many things, people with the ISFJ personality type are more than the sum of their parts, and it is the way they use these strengths that defines who they are. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/isfj-personality The Virtuoso ISTP ISTPs love to explore with their hands and their eyes, touching and examining the world around them with cool rationalism and spirited curiosity. People with this personality type are natural Makers, moving from project to project, building the useful and the superfluous for the fun of it, and learning from their environment as they go. Often mechanics and engineers, ISTPs find no greater joy than in getting their hands dirty pulling things apart and putting them back together, just a little bit better than they were before. To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/istp-personality The Adventurer ISFP ISFP personality types are true artists, but not necessarily in the typical sense where they're out painting happy little trees. Often enough though, they are perfectly capable of this. Rather, it's that they use aesthetics, design and even their choices and actions to push the limits of social convention. ISFPs enjoy upsetting traditional expectations with experiments in beauty and behavior – chances are, they've expressed more than once the phrase "Don't box me in!". To Continue reading https://www.16personalities.com/isfp-personality There are other personality types but those are Extroverted. The Commander, The Debater, The Entertainer e.t.c Why don't you do a personality test and know where you stand... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 10:41pm On Jul 22, 2016 |
This is to Olarewajub to GloryIssac. Talking about personality test, I have used Tim Lahaye's ideas as presented in his books ' Opposite attract' and ' Why you act the way you do'. I appreciate the ideas expressed in the post above but I think it is too scientific to require my reading pleasure. The eye-contact assignment is okay but I think there have no feedback because most of the participants in this thread have not achieved that feeling of community but I believe other ideas can help to foster cooperation. Well done to both of you. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Aisha800(f): 4:22pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
hi, just found these tread, hope am welcomed 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 4:46pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Aisha800: Welcome ke? Please return to where you are coming from, you're not welcome. Hahahaha! Just kidding. You're very much welcome to the Lounge. Happy Sunday guys!! |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Aisha800(f): 7:47pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
people are always complaining, they don't understand y I love staying indoor.i always tell them am happier that way. sometimes I want to step out, go and see the world just move around atleast spent seven lecture free hour outside still haven't succeded in doing that. my family members have resigned, they have tried still didn't work. am quiet, and somepeople just love taking advantage of that fact. I hate being close to people because if I become close to them icant tell them to their face how annoying they are |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Horlawoomey(m): 8:04pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Aisha800: It is more fun to watch them exhibit their annoying side than to avoid them completely. I had issues with my boss who happens to be a talkative bordering on my too much silence, she was of the opinion that I don't have people's skill and it may affect my career growth. First thing she did is appointing me to preside over a meeting where there are seasoned professionals with donkey years of experience than mine. I had to re adjust myself and face the challenge head on. It was not easy at first but now I am fairing better and thank her for that single move. So try in your capacity to mingle with people, if you can't take them all at once, talk with an individual at a time, trust me they are going to connect at a deeper level. Being an introvert is cool when you mix with people and later come back home to recharge. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Aisha800(f): 8:27pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Horlawoomey:I guess u were terrified, am still wondering how I will do my seminal or project defense in final year, I pray I don't faint, I have never addressed a crowed before. and I feel I cant. my roommate is a chatter box, always talking which drains the energy out of me, sometimes I wonder if she doesn't realize that am tired of talking. we are friends so I can't tell her to shut up cause it will hurt her and I will end up feeling like a bad person. she is a complete extrovert and sometimes walking with her is frustrating she is either jumping, singing or talking and I keep wondering wts wrong with her. so far only the only person growth I have achieved is being able to walk on the street alone without having someone I can walk with. when I recently gained admission missed some lectures cause I had No one to walk with. when I walk alone I feel like the attention of the world is on me and I can't stand attention. my next step in personal growth is going to the market alone. wish myself success 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Horlawoomey(m): 9:10pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
People mistake introverts as dullards when actually reverse is the case, we can always make our opinions known when issues arise, you will be amaze how beautiful that idea of yours is when you set it free from that solitude. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Horlawoomey(m): 9:23pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Aisha800: It was quite terrifying during my project pre defense, I nearly develop brain block, my mouth nearly lost it saliva but I didn't let that get to me as I drove home my point cos I had adequate preparation before hand. The first 30 seconds might appear like the whole world is crashing on you, those eyes will be pinching, you just have to keep your cool and learn to control your breadth, you should talk loud so they don't ask you to repeat yourself, see your supervisors as human with their own flaws and don't fear at all. Just prepare well and don't cram everything. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Aisha800(f): 11:10pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Horlawoomey:I pray I have the strength to face it wen the time come until then I will keep trying to improve myself |
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