nabsprada: I don't want to start the "not everyone has a dirty past sermon" but its the truth...its marriage for crying out loud and the worst thing you'll ever do to yourself is being in it with the "i've got secrets guilt",start with keeping secrets and you'll keep doing so even in your marriage...you don't wanna play the "not all secrets are bad card" discuss everything,and if you re not ready to,then you have not found that one person you feel safe with.....my opinion ne o...

ireneidiva: I'll tell everything! What's the point of getting married if I can't talk to him? If he can't take it, let him go!

orirebaby:

You can only be sure of ds wen yu r still in yur early twenties my dear. When yu are in yur late twenties yu don't wanna let him go. The fact is there are things beta kept as secret.

ireneidiva:
Your opinion! I'll tell no matter my age, if he'll stay, he'll stay! I have a conscience.

alutacontinua: I find it difficult to keep things from a man I love.
I have a very annoying conscience
Good thing is the past ain't too ugly anyways, it's still manageable

odufanabasa: But y will a man want to know everything about a lady? Then when she opens up,and they know they ugly truth(if there are any),they back off? Abeg every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future! If u can't stand by her after
hearing, pls respect urself and don't ask.... curiosity kills d cat..

bigemmmybig:




u hav spoken well, like a prof. i love it

InwehAkpevwe: ... Be 100% sincere with d past! Cos weda u screwd up or did it rite it wat make u who u r 2day! Its beta tellin dem abt d past then 4 dem 2 find out themselves! If they really loved u, after hearing abt d past they will stay

orirebaby:

You can only be sure of ds wen yu r still in yur early twenties my dear. When yu are in yur late twenties yu don't wanna let him go. The fact is there are things beta kept as secret.

orirebaby:

You can only be sure of ds wen yu r still in yur early twenties my dear. When yu are in yur late twenties yu don't wanna let him go. The fact is there are things beta kept as secret.

DaGC: As much as neccessary. If you can handle it, fine. If you can't? Still fine. I just don't think its appropriate going into marriage with secrets. Sometimes, some elements of the past have a tendency to fvck the future.

maxism2:

never tell a guy that any man that wanna marry u, ends up dying.

akeem0502: Being secretive is largely a function of the women, the truth is that no matter the past of a man he can spill it out and nothing will happen it is the women that have a lot to hide. Women nowadays wanna marry for so many reasons other than love. For instance they wanna marry cos they wanna wear wedding dress, sad. So they hide all sorts in other to marry. No man gives a damn of a woman's past be she met him only if she was sleeping with men for money or she had like an abortion that affected her womb, but yet they still lie and hide facts. The most damaging part of it is that some how guys find out and it could lead to destruction. A woman can even lie to u that she enjoys sex so much just to lure u into marriage and at the end of the day she will become a log after marriage. She will even lie to herself that she likes the guy's personality and at the end of the day she only wanted to marry. The reason for marriage is no more there. The primary reason for marriage which is love isn't there anymore and it is so sad. Most guys marry because of love

smurfy:

Who told you men don't care about a woman's past?

Tunagee:

U mean like the lady telling the husband that she was once a runs girl in school;or that she was a former prostitute or that she was delivered of witchcraft; or that she killed both her parents using her witchcraft means abi!

Opiosko: Blessed are those without a dirty past for they shall fear nothing.

kathryn24: some things are better left unsaid