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Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by dayosaurus(m): 7:57pm On Jul 30, 2014
SenatorJames: My question is of what importance is telling her that details? When none of it yield any unwanted child, you dont have a lasting disease from them e.t.c. It will only create fear of the future for her, because she cant be 100% sure that you have changed.

What if one of my ex tries to frame me with our past activities.. how do I get my wife to trust n believe me , when I hid it from her all those years
Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by 3sha4lyf: 8:18pm On Jul 30, 2014
dayosaurus:

What if one of my ex tries to frame me with our past activities.. how do I get my wife to trust n believe me , when I hid it from her all those years


Then one of your exes should be a kid to try to "frame" you bout your past activities. Mature people look forward to inventing a new future rather than depending on a shroud past. smiley.
By the way, what makes you think your wife will still believe you even if you told her about the past, and then ur ex actually comes to "frame you up" with the same past activities u told wifey? You're back to square one dude!!!
#JustSaying.
Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by dayosaurus(m): 3:33pm On Jul 31, 2014
3sha4lyf:

Then one of your exes should be a kid to try to "frame" you bout your past activities. Mature people look forward to inventing a new future rather than depending on a shroud past. smiley.
By the way, what makes you think your wife will still believe you even if you told her about the past, and then ur ex actually comes to "frame you up" with the same past activities u told wifey? You're back to square one dude!!!
#JustSaying.

Bros, ladies are now desperate. it pays for her to know the truth. If she still doubt me, then she ain't worthy to be my wife
Re: How Honest Should You Be About Your Past When Marrying Someone? by adaxxy: 9:49pm On Dec 06, 2014
I don't care about the past but the present.

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