kethoja: Fellow nairalanders what will you do if you where to be in my shoes ?
A girl came to my house for the ongoing post jamb exams before then she already told my it was gonna be serious Bleep for us and me badt guy I got ready but presently what am seeing now. Is like she tricked me so she could staying my place and eat all my food and to make matters worst I have been feeding her with what ever she asked for and ontop of that steady gen supply as nepa abi phcn nor get sense to help a brother....anyway nor be that one they pain me because yesterday ni she say make I buy her cloths join am when she don sleep 2 nights nothing happen and every time I try follow up she go they try change the topic according to burna boy....hope my investment is not gonna be wasted.....help me and also share your expirience....

Thanks my first topic on our great naija made nairaland.....

And this is what you come up with?

C'mon OP.....you can do better!

Tallesty1: You are foolishly calm.

andromida: She is testing you.

Be patient its just food and fuel naw. Buy the clothes and your pocket will never be empty.

caseless: None of the above option describes ur actions. U are neither calm nor f00lish, u are just headless!

dmcdad:

andromida:

Wetin can't a girl test if a man is generous?

dmcdad:
I talk anything ni?

andromida:

You look ??

Tallesty1: You are foolishly calm.

dmcdad:
So you mean say him no know where him dey go? Na anywhere belle face? Lol

andromida: She is testing you.

Be patient its just food and fuel naw. Buy the clothes and your pocket will never be empty.

Zedric:
shey the guy dey do charity ni? Abegi, we had a deal. I give u what u want and she gives me what i want. If she tries to be funny, ama throw her out by 2am, cum deny am if vigilante catch am

andromida:

Haba! 2am because of sex.? A little bit of charity to the needy is not bad. He will be rewarded in the future, maybe she is even his wife to be. He needs to be patient with her and keep spending.

Zedric: if he wants to do charity, let him give beggars money. In basketmouth's voice "she promised u sex and hasn't fulfilled her promise? Dats fraud, brother"

andromida:

Its not only beggars that need charity. These kind of gals need it. Broda keep up the good work.

Zedric:
if its charity she wants, she should have been straight-forward about it. That way i would know i'm dealing with a charity case and not a potential fvck case. Do u know au it feels to build urself up for sex and then get a 'no'? I insist that babe should be thrown out

andromida:

Easy easy if he does not get to do this gal he will be rewarded with "the one"

Again broda take it easy on the lady she needs your help.

Zedric:
u don't understand what i'm trying to say. There s no reason why i can't help her, i'm just pissed abt the fact that she raised op' hopes and wants to dash it. That's all

andromida:

She does not know a better way to go about it. She feels if she asks he will refuse so she is using the sense wey she get to get what she wants. Just like a guy who just wants to hit it but will pretend he wants to marry a gal. Do you know the sweet loving things he told her.