aisha2:

Am not telling the Nairaland version, am telling the personal version, she went to FGGC Sokoto, had same friends from then till now, it was this friends who got her help.

Its not the what people said story I am saying but the real life one. She didnt meet him married, thats the fact. She was happy the first year till he changed and then the abuse started

hayorbaami:
Actually the message is "NOTHING should stop you from leaving an abusive relationship..." There are rehabilitation institutions for victims of abuse, don't act naïve on this. But of what use are these centres if victims of abuse are not ready to leave because of money, stigma or fear of being without a man, shame, etc?
First lady could have chosen to remain in the abusive relationship because of the position, fame, wealth and avoidance of stigma , but she spoke out and that is why she got the needed help. Only a victim can set herself free when she wants to, no one else can. And help can only come when you genuinely seek for it.
@ topic, this is the first time I'm reading this version of her story though. I have always read that she was the reason the first wife left and she knew who she was getting herself involved with, a philandering picanto-sharing man. Whatever the story is, I'm glad she's set herself free and has moved on. That's the most important thing. I assume she'll get the custodian of her son sooner too.

hayorbaami:

Not many people do and I think that is why stories like this should be shared to motivate the few ones at the verge of leaving to take that bold step without having a last thought.

bigbumper:
Ain't making this up, this is not dem say dem say matter, she knew what she was setting herself up for. She was a runs girl who thought she had struck hold unbeknown to her that na fish bone hook her neck.

virago: Okay but we also learnt she was already dating Chime while he was still married to his ex wife and she was instrumental to the ex wife leaving. At that time she was a colleague/course mate/ class mate to Chime's daughter so she isn't totally free from blame. Karma is a bitch.

Sloan:
Selective happiness: so you are happy the truth prevailed over power, giving this woman a choice but by the same token you and your people insist that Nigerians be yoked to this worse-than-Chime PDP and Jonabomb?? Chime only abused 1 woman, PDP and Jonadumb have organized and supervised the death of almost 20,000 in 5 years! But you are not crying because they are mostly from the north and middle belt!
If this was PSquare and Lola Omotayo, I bet you would be singing a different tunes, heaping all the blames on Lola right? Some of you have a contract with a cursed way of thinking and that is why you will always remain in bondage. To be clear, I am referring to ALL of YOU in that neck of the woods...and I don't have to be more explicit!

pickabeau1:

Fair point

I wish though a normal woman was used

Mrs chime is connected

Sloan:
Selective happiness: so you are happy the truth prevailed over power, giving this woman a choice but by the same token you and your people insist that Nigerians be yoked to this worse-than-Chime PDP and Jonabomb?? Chime only abused 1 woman, PDP and Jonadumb have organized and supervised the death of almost 20,000 in 5 years! But you are not crying because they are mostly from the north and middle belt!
If this was PSquare and Lola Omotayo, I bet you would be singing a different tunes, heaping all the blames on Lola right? Some of you have a contract with a cursed way of thinking and that is why you will always remain in bondage. To be clear, I am referring to ALL of YOU in that neck of the woods...and I don't have to be more explicit!

bigbumper:
until she used juju to hook him.

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aisha2:

Me and my "people" ke? I dont understand all this? What has Lola and Peter got to do with this?
For the records I support Peters stance with his wife. PDP? I am not political

hayorbaami:

I modified my post but you already quoted me. Why do you think she found her feet only because she is connected? She is neither physically nor mentally challenged. She has her certificates and With or without patience she could have done something good for herself in another line(business, corporate or whatwhat).

Btw,what do you mean by you wish a normal woman was used. The thread is about an update on mrs clara a victim of abuse.

aisha2:

Runs girl working with PTDF? She went to school, got good grades, got a masters, got a good job and was starting her life when she met him. Haba

bigbumper:
She is not from a silver spoon family and we all know what some girls get up to at University and we know they are glorified runs girls, so why are you pretending to be shocked
She met Governor Chime via his daughter and started dating Jim before he got divorced
That was why her own cousin spited her by having a baby with the same Governor cos they used to roll together, but she now only wanted the Governor to herself
Also didn't she get this job via "Connection" rather than merit.

hayorbaami:
I sighed reading that post of his. What has that gibberish got to do with clara's abuse story. Feminism angle too is already creeping in. Next you'll hear is "e be like say na you be clara"..nairaland eh.
Like someone said this story has made fp a couple of times in the past year and we have been fed with the same story, so people leaning towards this version of your story will be a tough one. Yeah, kinda like expect more antagonising posts. Lol

Sloan:

Selective happiness: so you are happy the truth prevailed over power, giving this woman a choice but by the same token you and your people insist that Nigerians be yoked to this worse-than-Chime PDP and Jonabomb?? Chime only abused 1 woman, PDP and Jonadumb have organized and supervised the death of almost 20,000 in 5 years! But you are not crying because they are mostly from the north and middle belt!

If this was PSquare and Lola Omotayo, I bet you would be singing a different tunes, heaping all the blames on Lola right? Some of you have a contract with a cursed way of thinking and that is why you will always remain in bondage. To be clear, I am referring to ALL of YOU in that neck of the woods...and I don't have to be more explicit!

bigbumper:

She is not from a silver spoon family and we all know what some girls get up to at University and we know they are glorified runs girls, so why are you pretending to be shocked

She met Governor Chime via his daughter and started dating Jim before he got divorced
That was why her own cousin spited her by having a baby with the same Governor cos they used to roll together, but she now only wanted the Governor to herself

Also didn't she get this job via "Connection" rather than merit.

bigbumper:
Governor Chime said she used diabolical means on him. Didn't you see this in her write up too and didn't you see how that was the only place she was conspicuously silent

bigbumper:

Governor Chime said she used diabolical means on him. Didn't you see this in her write up too and didn't you see how that was the only place she was conspicuously silent

crackhaus: Indeed, money (even ghana-must-go government money) cannot buy happiness and satisfaction.

bigbumper:

She is not from a silver spoon family and we all know what some girls get up to at University and we know they are glorified runs girls, so why are you pretending to be shocked

She met Governor Chime via his daughter and started dating Jim before he got divorced
That was why her own cousin spited her by having a baby with the same Governor cos they used to roll together, but she now only wanted the Governor to herself

Also didn't she get this job via "Connection" rather than merit.

okparaugo: The former governor Maroke Namani was accused of wife maltreatment too..

aisha2:

I have a cousin too, sad thing is that after paying her hospitals she will still go back

Sloan:

Selective happiness: so you are happy the truth prevailed over power, giving this woman a choice but by the same token you and your people insist that Nigerians be yoked to this worse-than-Chime PDP and Jonabomb?? Chime only abused 1 woman, PDP and Jonadumb have organized and supervised the death of almost 20,000 in 5 years! But you are not crying because they are mostly from the north and middle belt!

If this was PSquare and Lola Omotayo, I bet you would be singing a different tunes, heaping all the blames on Lola right? Some of you have a contract with a cursed way of thinking and that is why you will always remain in bondage. To be clear, I am referring to ALL of YOU in that neck of the woods...and I don't have to be more explicit!

berem: so sad! some women are really dying silently and suffering all in the name of being a married woman in an abusive marriage.

too bad!

tuffgongjo: your
cousin is a sucker for pains.
Masochist.