crackhaus:
Me I don't know why you're writing this long essay for me. All I said was money can not buy happiness... plainly, with no motives behind my saying it.

It just means that even with all the wealth of government funds surrounding her person, she was depressed and sought out an escape from her abusive marriage. Cest' fini.

GovWahala: Chime must be a beast, if he actually put his wife through all this.

dasparrow:

It takes a man and a woman to make a baby, be that baby a boy or a girl. Spermatozoa alone does not make a baby so why should children belong to just the man? How about joint custody where both the father and mother of the child take care of him even though the parents are no longer together? Or is that too much to ask for? So what you are saying is that in Igbo land, women are just incubators? The day their marriages should fall apart, they loose their offspring to their estranged spouse all in the name of culture? I guess we learn everyday.

Chigold101: i dont know what u mean by incubators however, (1) in igboland for a woman to have children of outside mariage is rare. Anyone born like that will need lots of prayers to survive what will follow when he grows up. But if the child is a girl, she will not have much problem cos she would married outside the kindred (2) Even if that child follows his or mum home, when time for marriage comes he or she goes back to the father‘s place. Cos no igbo man until tomorrow will give u a child to marry or marry u as a woman without seing ur father or ur father‘s family. (3) if ur mum was duely married ur mum‘s family will not give u any inheritance cos ur inheritance is in ur father‘s place. Unless that child has decided to remain in the city & not to have anything to do with igbos in igboland.

berem: so sad! some women are really dying silently and suffering all in the name of being a married woman in an abusive marriage.

too bad!

poiZon:





u dey see wetiin ur mentor dey do? dat man chime is DEVIL'S TRAINER!!

GovWahala: Chime must be a beast, if he actually put his wife through all this.

berem: how is he my mentor?

Chillisauce:

As per getting her a job. If truely patience Jonathan has a hand in this, she is also a problem in the society. The truth is tha she should be made to go through the compulsory assessment . I doubt she did after being a mentally deranged housewife for more than 6 yrs..

pickabeau1:

What?!

A female said this?...

I rest my case

Chillisauce:

It's not about female, this is some serious ish.The unemployment in Nigeria is scary . Now someone who has been out of job over half a decade with a mental issue suddenly lands an attractive government position.
If they wanna help her, they can start with getting something out of her ex husband and start up a firm for her rather than giving her a government job which I'm very very sure she didn't go through the assessment.

I know how it feels writing an exam and someone who didn't even appear for that gets the job.

And here we are, praising her.
I tire

Chillisauce:

It's not about female, this is some serious ish.The unemployment in Nigeria is scary . Now someone who has been out of job over half a decade with a mental issue suddenly lands an attractive government position.
If they wanna help her, they can start with getting something out of her ex husband and start up a firm for her rather than giving her a government job which I'm very very sure she didn't go through the assessment.

I know how it feels writing an exam and someone who didn't even appear for that gets the job.

And here we are, praising her.
I tire

Chillisauce: What a story.
If the governor did all this and he is still parading himself as the governor of a state. Pathetic.

Now we are rejoicing she made it alive while the problem still lingers on.
Let's learn to fix a problem instead of running away from it.
The fact remains the governor is a beast. He should be jailed and removed from such position.

Easy to go for testimony that you escaped death while same trap is waiting for someone else.


As per getting her a job. If truely patience Jonathan has a hand in this, she is also a problem in the society. The truth is tha she should be made to go through the compulsory assessment . I doubt she did after being a mentally deranged housewife for more than 6 yrs..

Sick country ruined by leaders and followers

0rlando0woh: Has she gotten her shape back?

fx45:
She's second-hand material now... 'Nigerian-used' for that matter. Her market value has plummeted. Her once alluring shape is inconsequential as at press time.

aisha2:

My dear, what runs girl will abandon a "gold mine" because she was badly treated? Dont women endure worse and stay quite for the money?

Common sense should tell us that a girl willing to leave such luxury and benefits and not stay put and "manage" has some standards.

A runs girl will die there and even be the one organizing babes for him as long as the money keeps rolling.

What Benefit is it for Clara raising dust and leaving him? Her life is on social media, Her son is taken from her, she has to start her life all over. She would have benefitted more staying put and keeping shut.

She DIDNT, immediately she noticed the issues she shouted out and tried to leave several time, what runs girl does that? A runs girl actually expects that and stays grins, smiles for the camera and bares it.

ModelX:
What became of this woman?

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What is Reactive Depression?
Reactive depression, which is sometimes referred to as an adjustment disorder with depressed mood, is a decreased mood state that is a response to a specific psychosocial stressor. In other words, reactive depression is a mild to moderate depression following a stressful event. Usually symptoms of a reactive depression will not last longer than a few months after exposure to the stressor, as a person develops coping strategies. When symptoms are prolonged or profound, the reaction is considered abnormal, and a person should seek professional help.
What causes a Reactive Depression?
Reactive depression is a depressed mood state related to a stressful life event or events. Examples of stressful life events include death of a family member or spouse, divorce, loss of job, problems with children, retirement, or even moving to a new location. An event that initiates a reactive depression may be seemingly minor or unimportant, in comparison to a grief reaction, which results from the death of a loved one. Reactive depression must be evaluated in the context of the events that triggered it. Symptoms lasting longer than a few months or symptoms that interfere with daily functioning, such as work, school, family, or personal relationships, are significant enough to require a psychological evaluation.
What are the Symptoms of Reactive Depression?
Symptoms of reactive depression include feelings of hopelessness, worthlessness, restlessness, and sadness. Fatigue and insomnia may follow these feelings, leading to increased irritability or anxiety. Eating problems may arise, manifested as significant weight loss or gain. Difficulty in concentrating, making decisions or remembering things, as well as somatic symptoms such as pain, headaches, and gastrointestinal problems may also occur. Self-destructive behaviors can arise, such as drinking heavily, drug use, or even suicidal thoughts or actions.
Frequently Asked Questions about Depression

How is Reactive Depression diagnosed?
Reactive depression is diagnosed on the basis of depressive symptoms related to a troubling life event or situation. It is important to uncover the psychosocial stressors that underlie the reactive depression. It is also appropriate to delineate the timeline of symptoms in relation to an inciting event. Next, a psychologist or psychiatrist should inquire as to how the depressive episodes have interfered with the Client’s everyday living, including negative effects on family, friends, work or school. Any history of drug or alcohol abuse or self-medication should be explored. When a person with reactive depression turns to substance abuse or self-medication, treatment becomes more complicated.
What is the Prognosis for Reactive Depression?
Reactive depression is a highly treatable psychological problem. Because it is a maladaptive response to a specific psychosocial stressor, psychotherapy can address the underlying issues with clarity. In addition to psychotherapy, sleep and stress management, and psycho-education can significantly improve the wellness of someone with a reactive depression.
What Complications can Slow Recovery?
Persons with reactive depression may feel powerless to find help. They may be living with a low energy state, or feelings of fear and hopelessness and helplessness. The first step for them is getting to a treatment provider. When substance abuse (especially alcohol, marijuana or cocaine) or self-medication complicates the picture, effective psychological and medical treatment becomes crucial.
How Can Friends and Family Help?
As mentioned, a person with reactive depression may have difficulty seeking help for many reasons. The strength of the social network of a person with a reactive depression, especially family, friends, co-workers and loved ones, is an important predictor of recovery. Family members or a spouse often are the ones who bring the Client to a treatment center and support them throughout their treatment course. Thus, psycho-education is very important for family members so that they may understand when the person with reactive depression needs help the most. This involves strengthening coping skills and resources.
When Should a person with Reactive Depression enter a treatment center?
When symptoms have lasted more than six months, or they are negatively impacting daily school or work life and personal and family relationships, an intensive treatment program is an appropriate option. While the first step is often once per week psychotherapy or medication, this may be ineffective at managing serious symptoms of reactive depression. A treatment facility, like PCH Treatment Center, offers a completely different approach to a mood disorder. We have the expertise and experience to effectively diagnosis and treat reactive depression when it is negatively impacting a person’s life.
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When a Client enters PCH Treatment Center with Reactive Depression, they receive a thorough initial assessment by a doctoral level psychologist. This involves accurately determining their symptoms and the underlying psychosocial stressors or situations which are provoking negative thoughts and feelings underlying the reactive depression. An initial assessment is also performed by the Clinical Director, Dr. Jeff Ball, as well as our Psychiatrist, Dr. William Wirshing. The Client’s medication regimen is evaluated, and an appropriate plan is made with a de-emphasis on medication treatment. The correct diagnosis leads to the proper treatment plan, and PCH Treatment Center features expert diagnosticians. Each Client is discussed at our weekly case conference, as well, and they are benefiting from the input of our many doctoral level staff members. Treatment of reactive depression then involves individual psychotherapy sessions, group therapies including Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) https://gamutschool.org/
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